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Janis, 41

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About Me

ready to enjoy my life and have some fun.i have one daughter who is my world.love to travel and forget the world of stress.easier said than done.lol im looking to find that one person who enjoys all the things I do.someone who can keep me interested.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lessie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.

  • Lauren

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am 40 years old and have never been married. I am looking for someone who is serious about being in a relationship. Someone who won't give up when life gets hard. I believe that honesty is the most important thing in a relationship along with communication. My ideal match would be someone who is involved in and attends church. I believe that God has to be the foundation in which a lasting relationship is based on. Looking for someone that I can be friends with, laugh with and grow with. I love to sing and music is a big part of my life. I am on one of the Worship teams at my church. Looking forward to getting back into that as I have been pretty busy this summer. I have done some Musical Productions at the local Community Theatre. I love it! Occasionally I like to go to Karaoke, but am not big at hanging out at the bars. When I can I like to spend time with my niece and nephews, but they live out of town (CDA area). I am a summer girl so I like to be outside doing something active during the summer. I enjoy going for walks and have recently started to jog/ run. That is and well continue to be a work in process lol. During the Winter I tend to stay inside more. I enjoy cuddling up on the couch watching a movie or some football. I generally dress for comfort. Jeans and tee shirt kind of girl. But getting dressed up once in a while is fun too. Kids are ok. I do not have any but I have a niece and nephews that I love being with when I can. I do not want to take the place of anyone's mother. But would love to be involved with the kids of someone I am dating when the time is right. Looking for someone who isn't to far away. So two to two and a half hours away. Distance can be hard. If you want to know more feel free to ask.

  • Lacy

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I wish this thing had a choice for kids "doesn't want any more babies". I have two teenage sons and I can't handle going through birth to teenager again! We all are enjoying the independence they are achieving!I seem to trend to men that don't always let me take charge. I like a man that makes me laugh, can talk about a wide variety of topics, and likes intelligent women. Sometimes, it is nice to let someone else take the wheel.I have a slightly "off the wall" side; I may randomly speak to students or people in general using different voices, just to see their reactions. My humor is activated by somewhat nerd-ish things, though usually it is one-liners and quotes that crack me up. I actually like puns, though not "knock-knock" jokes. I have discovered that I will never be a "jock", due to a severe lack of coordination despite repeated efforts to improve. I'm fiercely competitive, though, and will try my best to win whatever the game is. My list of hobbies is short, as I like to excel at a few things, rather than dabble in many.I listen to a wide variety of music, but can't play any ***, to my long-lasting regret. I enoy classical, "the pops", and even some of today's bubblegum teen music. There isn't much music I won't at least give a trial, other than angry, profanity-laced "gansta" rap.For fun, I'm game for most anything once, though I'm a bit hopeless in terms of coordination. Fall is one of my favorite seasons because it means the return of SEC football. My sons make me close the door to drown out my yelling when I watch football. I'm a screamer.I don't understand NASCAR, so if you love it, I'm probably not your type. I can shoot a pistol, a rifle, and a bow and arrow, but I don't hunt nor do I fish. My last fishing trip occurred when i was 16, on a pond in a boat with my dad and brother and a snake fell off a limb into the boat. My dad easily knifed the snake, but I freaked out and he wouldn't go back to the bank and let me out of the boat. I haven't been fishing since.I seldom drink alcohol as I don't really like the taste of most alcohol. I recently discovered Abita purple haze, and it is one drink I enjoy. I prefer college basketball to the NBA and I prefer to be at the game than see it on tv, at least for basketball. I can't follow baseball, it's a bit slow for my taste. I still giggle at Dr. Seuss, could care less about Oprah, and get most on my news online. RED made me spill diet coke when I watched it, both times. "; is one of my favorite Connery movies. Essentially, life is already a drama, so add laughs whenever you can! Meet for a casual meal or drink somewhere, so we can talk and get to know each other better

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