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Malinda, 42

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. I love going to the beach and pretty much anything outdoors. I am also happy just sittin on the couch curled up watching a good movie. Everyone says I need to meet someone but with my work schedule it's kinda hard. I am a total southern girl with a big heart, manners, and values. I don't wanna deal with liars or cheaters or anyone that is going to be drama i've delt with enough of that in my life. I'm also NOT on here lookin for a one nighter or just a lil fling. I just wanna meet a real nice country boy....I wonder are there any real cowboys left out there???I also have 4 beautiful daughters and 4 amazing grandbabies. They are my whole world. You will have to be able to accept the fact I am very pround mom and i'm very close to my girls. Yes I know i'm a young grandma but that's the price you pay when you have your children young lol I wouldn't change it for the world. I am no skinny lil modle type but I am not a big ole cow either I do carry a lil extra wieght but I am working on that and will continue to work on it.... What i'm looking for? Lets see I would love to meet someone that is honest and caring. Someone that isn't a lier or a cheat. Someone that doesn't believe in making a woman his personal slave or punching bag. Someone that's not affraid to show his feelings. Basicly I wanna meet a man that is secure with himself and knows what he wants in life. A man that knows how to treat a lady right and not run when things get a lil rough. Words that I live by....Don't make someone a priority when your only a option to them.If they can't handle you at your worst, they dang sure don't deserve you at your best!Ok guess I need to put this in here I am NOT INTERESTED in dating black men sorry that's just me.. Ya know there are days when you wanna question yourself about everything that has happend and wonder if I did everything to fix things or make things right because that knife that was shoved into your heart keeps gettin shoved deeper and deeper.....But then you take a step back and look at everything and realize your still here standing strong because you have one thing that no one will ever take from you which is your love and faith in God..... I know today that I am a better person and I will continue to have a loving and trusting heart no matter what I have been through because with God right by my side I can do and be the best person I can be and when it's all said and done God shows the truth and me personally I know there is nothin to worry about because no matter what ive always kept my faith.....I am very blessed to have God, my family and my true friends by my side...... For so many years and both my marriages I always put the man first and did what ever possible to keep that man happy and in all those years I delt with nothin but abuse in pretty much every form you can think of. So now back in the dating world i've been told that I think bout me .. Well hell yes i'm gonna think about me and it will be about me I think it's time I deserve to be treated right and shown i'm wanted and cared about. Does this mean I won't show the right man the same in return? No it doesnt but by damn I think I am a good enough woman to be shown i'm wanted to...... A great first date would be maybe going out to eat then taking a long walk on the beach or the lake and just sitting under the stars and getting to know eachother....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lela

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I asked my friend what love is and this is what I got back:“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”Is there a lid for every pot? I have no idea.. but i hope so.....I have two amazing teenagers. I am not having more children. If you have kids that's ok. I prefer:(In NO particular order)tall men well dressed mensmart mennice teethfunhappyCreativespontaneousOpen mindedGenerousphysically fitAttentivegreat smilessmells good-but not overdoneattractivewell spokeneducatedemployedThose who know that 'should of' is wrong Men who take initiative funny/ good sense of humorif you have kids.. a good father.Passionate and expressive men. Travelers Kindhearted AlphaI'm staying away from:Abusive men (verbally or otherwise)Facial hair (beards,mustaches)large tattoosLiarsCheap peopledrugs and addictsmoody peoplesloppy dressersnail bitersfeminine mencontrol freaks (no no no no)Know it allscheatersliars.. (did i say that already?)short guys (I'm tall and wear heels)rudenessplayersSerial datersyoung guys (under ***just not looking for the same thing Some friendly suggestions:Lie about your age (even for search purposes and confessing in your profile) and you're out. Period. (This goes for height too). If you have pictures that are over 2 years old it's time to get real and honest.If I can see your phone taking your own picture then I am skipping over your profile. (don't you have at least ONE person in your life who can take a picture of you?)Don't take self portraits in a bathroom-- don't take self portraits at all. But if you do- rethink the angle of the shot. Do we need to see up your nostrils?Wear a shirt. ( I don't care how buff you are- just put a shirt on)Take off the hats and glasses. What are you hiding??What woman is turned on by a man who just caught a slimy huge fish?Don't just say 'hi", that is so boring..... Rudeness gets you no where fast. If you don't like my profile save yourself the trouble and time and just skip to the next. I don't need to hear negative comments about how you don't fit into my life. I know what I want and don't want. If you *** I'm interested I will reply.. **be prepared to share more photos** don't get how people post older pics and think it's ok. It's not. Please don't make me plan it....

  • Fay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have no idea why I'm back here.lol. I'm not even sure what I'm looking for. I guess I'm looking for somebody who has the characters of love. Non-argumentative...working together as one, but a team looking for the same goal. I am NOT perfect having many flaws, but I'm usually too honest & very real. I like intelligent conversation, have a little bit of a flirtatious nature, love to laugh, sarcasm & goofiness. (it keeps you young!) I tend to be quick witted, a dreamer of sorts. Love to challenge myself & grow. Tend to "study" people, things & see the way they interact. Love especially exploring nature & try my hand at strange things & I like the challenge of just seeing if things will work...or even not.lol. Same with people. If they yeild no fruit or are bad apples...not for me.You could say I'm an explorer of sorts to see what makes things tick. Unfortunately, this keeps me focused on alot of things at once which tends to make me appear somewhat unfocused....just keep swimming, just keep swimming.lol. The best way to see how my brain operates is to probably read the book of Ecclesiastes, but ultimately knowing theres a much higher purpose for life under the sun. The fun (& not so fun) part is striving to figure it out! :P. I'm 5.4", ***lbs & wear size 12. I have Mommy war wounds &lol. If you can accept that (while me working on losing ***lbs, thats cool). Just dont pretend you like me & then make derogatory comments please. Pessimists, casual encounters, smokers or athiests need not apply. I love diversity, but tend to do better dating within my own culture & race. I'm not trying to be some bad a$$ Princess.lol. In fact, I am a big nurturer...whom has learned many, many lessons. Please know theres a difference between discernment & rejection. Discernment is the action of judging ones character, rejection is the perception one sees from that discernment. I'm probably not a good option for you if you're into society labels & are ego driven. Not trying to be a **** Seeing "red flags" is reason enough to know in your heart, you will probably not be compatible w/that person. Was in over a 20 yr marriage, 3 children by the same man whom I remain close friends with. Cant stand angry people who end things hateful or with revenge-not for me, sorry. Just looking for a sweet, educated, handsime fella (not too much into facial hair, sry) & love a man with a beautiful white smile, smells good (mmmm.lol), who can laugh, hold a conversation, is articulate (mostly date professional men) & is preferrably local (w/in an hrs drive). I'll also probably want to become friends first. Please love God & be Christian! When you can do that, you love yourself & then loving others comes naturally. :DIf you are attractive (physical chemistry starts it.lol), want balance in your life, love being creative, non-judgemental, can "fight fair", be spontaneous, humorous, loves & respects animals & nature, family/kids, cooking, long, romantic conversations that include goofiness, sarcasm, mature debate & you can walk away from one another learning something,, then you have what it takes for greatness & a great permanent relationship! :)Please be intelligent, very much a gentleman & respectful. Be able to sometimes be so imature & downright silly! If you have a past history of domestic disputes or abuse, I wont even date you. Sorry.If I do not respond, please do NOT take it personally. I'm not out to hurt anyone here. It just means I dont think we'd be a good match from comparing our profiles.Thanks ya'all for looking! Probably depends on how long two people are in contact. Should be mutually agreed, but somewhere fascinating.

  • Christi

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    A passion for life, vitality, sensuality, compassion, commitment, a challenge, laughter, beauty, wisdom, happiness…warmth, sincerity, loyalty, communication, affection, honesty, spontaneity, diversity, generosity, understanding and acceptance… energy, curiosity, playfulness, romance, simplicity and complexity, adventure…I love to laugh and appreciate a sharp sense of humor. I am very driven and that is probably an understatement. I am also a risk taker and appreciate that quality in the man I am seeking. Please be confident in who you are as a person and the direction your life is going. We have all been around the block a time or two and I appreciate the experience you bring to the table. Looking for a man that will bring me coffee in bed and forgive me for all of the late nights I work. Connect somewhere trendy... The newest hot spot in town. Enjoy a glass of wine, great conversation and of course the company would be divine! Keeping it simple and open for the first meeting. A second date would be longer... Perhaps dinner out or attending an event where we could extend the conversation and time together.

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