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Malinda, 42

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About Me

. I love going to the beach and pretty much anything outdoors. I am also happy just sittin on the couch curled up watching a good movie. Everyone says I need to meet someone but with my work schedule it's kinda hard. I am a total southern girl with a big heart, manners, and values. I don't wanna deal with liars or cheaters or anyone that is going to be drama i've delt with enough of that in my life. I'm also NOT on here lookin for a one nighter or just a lil fling. I just wanna meet a real nice country boy....I wonder are there any real cowboys left out there???I also have 4 beautiful daughters and 4 amazing grandbabies. They are my whole world. You will have to be able to accept the fact I am very pround mom and i'm very close to my girls. Yes I know i'm a young grandma but that's the price you pay when you have your children young lol I wouldn't change it for the world. I am no skinny lil modle type but I am not a big ole cow either I do carry a lil extra wieght but I am working on that and will continue to work on it.... What i'm looking for? Lets see I would love to meet someone that is honest and caring. Someone that isn't a lier or a cheat. Someone that doesn't believe in making a woman his personal slave or punching bag. Someone that's not affraid to show his feelings. Basicly I wanna meet a man that is secure with himself and knows what he wants in life. A man that knows how to treat a lady right and not run when things get a lil rough. Words that I live by....Don't make someone a priority when your only a option to them.If they can't handle you at your worst, they dang sure don't deserve you at your best!Ok guess I need to put this in here I am NOT INTERESTED in dating black men sorry that's just me.. Ya know there are days when you wanna question yourself about everything that has happend and wonder if I did everything to fix things or make things right because that knife that was shoved into your heart keeps gettin shoved deeper and deeper.....But then you take a step back and look at everything and realize your still here standing strong because you have one thing that no one will ever take from you which is your love and faith in God..... I know today that I am a better person and I will continue to have a loving and trusting heart no matter what I have been through because with God right by my side I can do and be the best person I can be and when it's all said and done God shows the truth and me personally I know there is nothin to worry about because no matter what ive always kept my faith.....I am very blessed to have God, my family and my true friends by my side...... For so many years and both my marriages I always put the man first and did what ever possible to keep that man happy and in all those years I delt with nothin but abuse in pretty much every form you can think of. So now back in the dating world i've been told that I think bout me .. Well hell yes i'm gonna think about me and it will be about me I think it's time I deserve to be treated right and shown i'm wanted and cared about. Does this mean I won't show the right man the same in return? No it doesnt but by damn I think I am a good enough woman to be shown i'm wanted to...... A great first date would be maybe going out to eat then taking a long walk on the beach or the lake and just sitting under the stars and getting to know eachother....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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