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Malinda, 42

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About Me

. I love going to the beach and pretty much anything outdoors. I am also happy just sittin on the couch curled up watching a good movie. Everyone says I need to meet someone but with my work schedule it's kinda hard. I am a total southern girl with a big heart, manners, and values. I don't wanna deal with liars or cheaters or anyone that is going to be drama i've delt with enough of that in my life. I'm also NOT on here lookin for a one nighter or just a lil fling. I just wanna meet a real nice country boy....I wonder are there any real cowboys left out there???I also have 4 beautiful daughters and 4 amazing grandbabies. They are my whole world. You will have to be able to accept the fact I am very pround mom and i'm very close to my girls. Yes I know i'm a young grandma but that's the price you pay when you have your children young lol I wouldn't change it for the world. I am no skinny lil modle type but I am not a big ole cow either I do carry a lil extra wieght but I am working on that and will continue to work on it.... What i'm looking for? Lets see I would love to meet someone that is honest and caring. Someone that isn't a lier or a cheat. Someone that doesn't believe in making a woman his personal slave or punching bag. Someone that's not affraid to show his feelings. Basicly I wanna meet a man that is secure with himself and knows what he wants in life. A man that knows how to treat a lady right and not run when things get a lil rough. Words that I live by....Don't make someone a priority when your only a option to them.If they can't handle you at your worst, they dang sure don't deserve you at your best!Ok guess I need to put this in here I am NOT INTERESTED in dating black men sorry that's just me.. Ya know there are days when you wanna question yourself about everything that has happend and wonder if I did everything to fix things or make things right because that knife that was shoved into your heart keeps gettin shoved deeper and deeper.....But then you take a step back and look at everything and realize your still here standing strong because you have one thing that no one will ever take from you which is your love and faith in God..... I know today that I am a better person and I will continue to have a loving and trusting heart no matter what I have been through because with God right by my side I can do and be the best person I can be and when it's all said and done God shows the truth and me personally I know there is nothin to worry about because no matter what ive always kept my faith.....I am very blessed to have God, my family and my true friends by my side...... For so many years and both my marriages I always put the man first and did what ever possible to keep that man happy and in all those years I delt with nothin but abuse in pretty much every form you can think of. So now back in the dating world i've been told that I think bout me .. Well hell yes i'm gonna think about me and it will be about me I think it's time I deserve to be treated right and shown i'm wanted and cared about. Does this mean I won't show the right man the same in return? No it doesnt but by damn I think I am a good enough woman to be shown i'm wanted to...... A great first date would be maybe going out to eat then taking a long walk on the beach or the lake and just sitting under the stars and getting to know eachother....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    When a door of the happiness is closed, another opens, but us, we continue to look at the closed door and we do not attach importance to that which we have just opened.The most beautiful future will always depend on the need for forgetting the past. You will not be able to go from the past in life as long as you will not have overcome the errors of the past and all that hurt you. ( From forwarded e-mail)I have to really think how to describe it all . There is absolutely no such thing as Mr. Right. It's more about Mr. ' u have to have something to keep me , the rest I will make right'Affection... Affection... Affection... Make me feel like a Woman and you will get 100X back. Affection and passion same as beauty in the eyes of beholder...' A woman who is conviced that she deserves to accept only the best chalenges herself to give the best. Then she is living phenomenally'Maya AngelouLove good food! Love to cook for someone who appreciates it ( not everyday though:) The Great Outdoors... Hm... not my thing... Mosquitos love me!I don't like them. Can enjoy it for few hours but not often.Guys... I don't understand why someone will be not comfortable wearing jeans or evening gown?.. Unless she is wearing gown to the football game and jeans to the Presidents Chrismass party. Oh... Could be wrong size also... lolIf someone is mentioning in profile that he opens the door for lady... that is great! Isn't that what you suppose to do???Wellrounded down to earth... hm... golf ball? ;) I don't settle for anything less than butterflies in my stomach... If you read my profile and decided to contact me, you saw my pictures already... I should have this option also. ( Don't you think?)I will not respond otherwise, sorry...Sexual maniacs no need to respond and keep your fantasies to yourself.Warning!!! Very allergic to bad manners.One more thing... (i add this because of recent experiences on here). PLEASE, don't get upset or take it personally if i don't respond to your e-mails. Physically, I can't (i receive too many at times)... some people have sent really mean messages because of this, there's no need.While it may be flattering--I am not into meeting young kids, so if you're under 40 please don't waste your time. I wish everyone good luck in your search.' Go ahead! It's Okay to look' lol

  • Sharlene

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have been separated for just over three years now, and I am divorced, no kids, just a Samoyed puppy. I live in the Barrhaven area, and I have a very good job which I enjoy doing.Looking for casual dating at first, and then see where it goes from there.

  • Roxanne

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm an active and fun girl. I work out everyday, 6 days a week. Other than my awesome 14 year old daughter, and the job that I really love, working out is a high priority in my life. I was married for just 2 years over 15 years ago. I've not married since. I broke off an 8 year relationship last summer. It was just time for us to move on. It was never going to be a marriage, and frankly I deserve better. So, I'm looking for a man that wants something special eventually, but can take it slow at first and get to know each other. I'm very outgoing and love to laugh. I hope you do too!So, about me: I'm outgoing, talkative, active, and fun to be around. If you are quiet and shy, you are likely not for me. If you go out drinking every night with your friends, you are definitely not for me. I love to go out and have a drink with friends, but when there is reason to. I'm not a superficial person. I am as real as it gets, but I want stability. If you jump from job to job, we might not be a match. I'm very honest, and genuine. I have a softer side that shows up when I become more comfortable with someone. I would like to think that I'm a romantic - but I don't like "over the top" romantic gestures. I can hang out with the guys, or dress up nice for a special event. I am looking for a long term relationship, someone special, but that type of relationship does not happen at first sight, so dating and getting to know you first is all I ask for now. I prefer someone who has older children, but then again, by daughter always says she wishes she had siblings. (Only child syndrome I guess, awwww!) I enjoy my free time and try to get the most out of it. Daytime for sure, get some coffee in a casual atmosphere. Nothing fancy, just a place to talk and get to know each other.

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