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About Me

I have no idea why I'm back here.lol. I'm not even sure what I'm looking for. I guess I'm looking for somebody who has the characters of love. Non-argumentative...working together as one, but a team looking for the same goal. I am NOT perfect having many flaws, but I'm usually too honest & very real. I like intelligent conversation, have a little bit of a flirtatious nature, love to laugh, sarcasm & goofiness. (it keeps you young!) I tend to be quick witted, a dreamer of sorts. Love to challenge myself & grow. Tend to "study" people, things & see the way they interact. Love especially exploring nature & try my hand at strange things & I like the challenge of just seeing if things will work...or even not.lol. Same with people. If they yeild no fruit or are bad apples...not for me.You could say I'm an explorer of sorts to see what makes things tick. Unfortunately, this keeps me focused on alot of things at once which tends to make me appear somewhat unfocused....just keep swimming, just keep swimming.lol. The best way to see how my brain operates is to probably read the book of Ecclesiastes, but ultimately knowing theres a much higher purpose for life under the sun. The fun (& not so fun) part is striving to figure it out! :P. I'm 5.4", ***lbs & wear size 12. I have Mommy war wounds &lol. If you can accept that (while me working on losing ***lbs, thats cool). Just dont pretend you like me & then make derogatory comments please. Pessimists, casual encounters, smokers or athiests need not apply. I love diversity, but tend to do better dating within my own culture & race. I'm not trying to be some bad a$$ Princess.lol. In fact, I am a big nurturer...whom has learned many, many lessons. Please know theres a difference between discernment & rejection. Discernment is the action of judging ones character, rejection is the perception one sees from that discernment. I'm probably not a good option for you if you're into society labels & are ego driven. Not trying to be a **** Seeing "red flags" is reason enough to know in your heart, you will probably not be compatible w/that person. Was in over a 20 yr marriage, 3 children by the same man whom I remain close friends with. Cant stand angry people who end things hateful or with revenge-not for me, sorry. Just looking for a sweet, educated, handsime fella (not too much into facial hair, sry) & love a man with a beautiful white smile, smells good (mmmm.lol), who can laugh, hold a conversation, is articulate (mostly date professional men) & is preferrably local (w/in an hrs drive). I'll also probably want to become friends first. Please love God & be Christian! When you can do that, you love yourself & then loving others comes naturally. :DIf you are attractive (physical chemistry starts it.lol), want balance in your life, love being creative, non-judgemental, can "fight fair", be spontaneous, humorous, loves & respects animals & nature, family/kids, cooking, long, romantic conversations that include goofiness, sarcasm, mature debate & you can walk away from one another learning something,, then you have what it takes for greatness & a great permanent relationship! :)Please be intelligent, very much a gentleman & respectful. Be able to sometimes be so imature & downright silly! If you have a past history of domestic disputes or abuse, I wont even date you. Sorry.If I do not respond, please do NOT take it personally. I'm not out to hurt anyone here. It just means I dont think we'd be a good match from comparing our profiles.Thanks ya'all for looking! Probably depends on how long two people are in contact. Should be mutually agreed, but somewhere fascinating.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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