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Lela, 45

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About Me

I asked my friend what love is and this is what I got back:“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”Is there a lid for every pot? I have no idea.. but i hope so.....I have two amazing teenagers. I am not having more children. If you have kids that's ok. I prefer:(In NO particular order)tall men well dressed mensmart mennice teethfunhappyCreativespontaneousOpen mindedGenerousphysically fitAttentivegreat smilessmells good-but not overdoneattractivewell spokeneducatedemployedThose who know that 'should of' is wrong Men who take initiative funny/ good sense of humorif you have kids.. a good father.Passionate and expressive men. Travelers Kindhearted AlphaI'm staying away from:Abusive men (verbally or otherwise)Facial hair (beards,mustaches)large tattoosLiarsCheap peopledrugs and addictsmoody peoplesloppy dressersnail bitersfeminine mencontrol freaks (no no no no)Know it allscheatersliars.. (did i say that already?)short guys (I'm tall and wear heels)rudenessplayersSerial datersyoung guys (under ***just not looking for the same thing Some friendly suggestions:Lie about your age (even for search purposes and confessing in your profile) and you're out. Period. (This goes for height too). If you have pictures that are over 2 years old it's time to get real and honest.If I can see your phone taking your own picture then I am skipping over your profile. (don't you have at least ONE person in your life who can take a picture of you?)Don't take self portraits in a bathroom-- don't take self portraits at all. But if you do- rethink the angle of the shot. Do we need to see up your nostrils?Wear a shirt. ( I don't care how buff you are- just put a shirt on)Take off the hats and glasses. What are you hiding??What woman is turned on by a man who just caught a slimy huge fish?Don't just say 'hi", that is so boring..... Rudeness gets you no where fast. If you don't like my profile save yourself the trouble and time and just skip to the next. I don't need to hear negative comments about how you don't fit into my life. I know what I want and don't want. If you *** I'm interested I will reply.. **be prepared to share more photos** don't get how people post older pics and think it's ok. It's not. Please don't make me plan it....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Angela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I go fast through life, and have a huge appetite for good meals, money, partying and success. I\'m a family person, who loves music. I look for stylish people who love living their life the best.

  • Brandy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hey there. I am just a woman who likes to laugh at herself and sometimes at others if they are funny. I like to travel. It doesn't neccessarily have to be exotic areas as long as it brings me a new experience. If I had all the money in the world and my house was paid off I would work in medical missions. I would like to work on one of the floating hospitals. Until that happens I find contentment in helping others locally. A new goal of mine is to complete the red cross disaster training courses.I like people. I like to think I am a nice person. I believe in God and try to always do the right thing I try not to take myself too seriously.I really enjoy movies and listening to live music. I like most music, but not a big fan of country. I can stomach some country. I like rock-n-roll. I am a sucker for the 80s "big hair bands". I have fantasies about playing the drums during GNRs Sweet Child O Mine.Oh and I like boybands occasionally. Don't laugh. Is that too much information.I like to read. One of my favorite things to do daily is to walk my dog. I try to walk her different places around the city. That way we don't get too bored. I like to stay active and try and workout regularly. I am not into hunting or fishing; however I do like to hang out on boats and go to the lake. I just don't find the sport in hunting nor have the patience for fishing. I will sit on the boat and read. :) Hmm..Well I think a good first date would be going to an event or game. It should be something where we could talk, but yet have something to watch and enjoy together. It could be a sporting event, play miniature golf, or a gallery show. Something to take the pressure of constant conversation off of us on the first date. First dates can be awkward at times..right?

  • Tessa

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for that someone special to share the moon and the stars with me. I'm not an expensive kinda girl. Going to the lake being outdoors is what I like or just watching a movie at home. I love listening to music ESP county. Give me a tailgate and a cold beer and a cigarette and I am happy. I would like my fist date to have something to do with the moon and the stars. Then cuddled up to a nice fire talking. Something special

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