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Lela, 45

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About Me

I asked my friend what love is and this is what I got back:“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”Is there a lid for every pot? I have no idea.. but i hope so.....I have two amazing teenagers. I am not having more children. If you have kids that's ok. I prefer:(In NO particular order)tall men well dressed mensmart mennice teethfunhappyCreativespontaneousOpen mindedGenerousphysically fitAttentivegreat smilessmells good-but not overdoneattractivewell spokeneducatedemployedThose who know that 'should of' is wrong Men who take initiative funny/ good sense of humorif you have kids.. a good father.Passionate and expressive men. Travelers Kindhearted AlphaI'm staying away from:Abusive men (verbally or otherwise)Facial hair (beards,mustaches)large tattoosLiarsCheap peopledrugs and addictsmoody peoplesloppy dressersnail bitersfeminine mencontrol freaks (no no no no)Know it allscheatersliars.. (did i say that already?)short guys (I'm tall and wear heels)rudenessplayersSerial datersyoung guys (under ***just not looking for the same thing Some friendly suggestions:Lie about your age (even for search purposes and confessing in your profile) and you're out. Period. (This goes for height too). If you have pictures that are over 2 years old it's time to get real and honest.If I can see your phone taking your own picture then I am skipping over your profile. (don't you have at least ONE person in your life who can take a picture of you?)Don't take self portraits in a bathroom-- don't take self portraits at all. But if you do- rethink the angle of the shot. Do we need to see up your nostrils?Wear a shirt. ( I don't care how buff you are- just put a shirt on)Take off the hats and glasses. What are you hiding??What woman is turned on by a man who just caught a slimy huge fish?Don't just say 'hi", that is so boring..... Rudeness gets you no where fast. If you don't like my profile save yourself the trouble and time and just skip to the next. I don't need to hear negative comments about how you don't fit into my life. I know what I want and don't want. If you *** I'm interested I will reply.. **be prepared to share more photos** don't get how people post older pics and think it's ok. It's not. Please don't make me plan it....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marisa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have the most amazing 2 boys ages 9 and 11…I’ve been divorced about 2 ½ years. ! My friends are my rock…They all have special meaning in my life and they are the best!! I am a very sincere person and try to give 100% at everything i do! I have a job that I love and work with people that I love spending my day with! I'm looking for a man that is funny, kind, great heart...I want long kisses and passion... I don't believe a relationship can survive without it! I think affection is a MUST... I’ve realized that life is very short. I live life to the fullest each and every day. My life experiences have led me to want to be a better person, treat people with kindness and compassion, not jump to conclusions or judge others. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I'm very HONEST... I expect the same. We can all make ourselves sound perfect, but lets be real. ... We all have a past, we've all made mistakes. Just be honest about who you are and what you want.Communication is a big one too….just say what you’re thinking. I hate mind games and stupid shit…I’m old enough to speak my mind…. I don’t have the time or patience to sit and try to figure it out! Speak!I'm looking for 1 long term monogamous fun passion filled relationship! I still believe in marriage, and someday Hope to get a 2nd chance at happily ever after. I have 2 kids and they are part of me....so if you don't like kids or really don't care to have them be a part of your life...well....keep looking!I can't wait for the day for someone to walk into my life and make me see why it never worked with anyone else!! I want to be his favorite hello and his hardest goodbye!!You gotta take the good with the bad, smile when your sad... love what you get and remember what you had... always forgive, but never forget... and live your life with no regrets!!

  • Amie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I guess if I knew what to say I wouldn't be here I Love what I do and it keeps me very busy You're still here??.. No pressure, No Drama!!Princess by Day - Goddess by Night!! but you knew that.... I have no room for frogs or Peasants....- Hero- life of the party--able to swoon in a single sentence- has great timing- and knows when to shut up and speak to me.I like hanging out but if You can dance and keep me Smiling it's a start..thanksHave a AMAZING DayP.s "I don't camp!" as a compromise I can find something to do while you Camp k I have a real hard time initiating.... My father raised a Lady! Trying to get over that in ***we'll see I wouldn't mind a simple meet n greet no pressure if it goes well and you want to hang out longer we can cross that bridge if or when we get there... anywhere... anything with the right company nuff said! :O)

  • Earlene

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a very outgoing women who loves the outdoors. I have a positive personality. I always see the brighter side of things. I am definitely not your average woman. I love fishing, muscle cars, gardening, and traveling. I love animals, but dogs and birds are my passion. Lol... I'm looking for my other half. I love hunting, music, the Blues, Rock, Top 40...basically all types of music. Love roller coasters, speed. I want to travel the world and experience different cultures. I want to try rock climbing. I want to try mining for gold and gems. There are so many things I still want to experience in my life. I would love to share it with someone special. I'm looking for my better half. Someone who loves me for who I am. I want the both of us to bring out the best in each other. I am looking for a man who Loves God and puts him first in his life. I need someone with a sense of humor... because I love to laugh! Meet for coffee and go from there.

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