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Lela, 45

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About Me

I asked my friend what love is and this is what I got back:“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”Is there a lid for every pot? I have no idea.. but i hope so.....I have two amazing teenagers. I am not having more children. If you have kids that's ok. I prefer:(In NO particular order)tall men well dressed mensmart mennice teethfunhappyCreativespontaneousOpen mindedGenerousphysically fitAttentivegreat smilessmells good-but not overdoneattractivewell spokeneducatedemployedThose who know that 'should of' is wrong Men who take initiative funny/ good sense of humorif you have kids.. a good father.Passionate and expressive men. Travelers Kindhearted AlphaI'm staying away from:Abusive men (verbally or otherwise)Facial hair (beards,mustaches)large tattoosLiarsCheap peopledrugs and addictsmoody peoplesloppy dressersnail bitersfeminine mencontrol freaks (no no no no)Know it allscheatersliars.. (did i say that already?)short guys (I'm tall and wear heels)rudenessplayersSerial datersyoung guys (under ***just not looking for the same thing Some friendly suggestions:Lie about your age (even for search purposes and confessing in your profile) and you're out. Period. (This goes for height too). If you have pictures that are over 2 years old it's time to get real and honest.If I can see your phone taking your own picture then I am skipping over your profile. (don't you have at least ONE person in your life who can take a picture of you?)Don't take self portraits in a bathroom-- don't take self portraits at all. But if you do- rethink the angle of the shot. Do we need to see up your nostrils?Wear a shirt. ( I don't care how buff you are- just put a shirt on)Take off the hats and glasses. What are you hiding??What woman is turned on by a man who just caught a slimy huge fish?Don't just say 'hi", that is so boring..... Rudeness gets you no where fast. If you don't like my profile save yourself the trouble and time and just skip to the next. I don't need to hear negative comments about how you don't fit into my life. I know what I want and don't want. If you *** I'm interested I will reply.. **be prepared to share more photos** don't get how people post older pics and think it's ok. It's not. Please don't make me plan it....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Leonor

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    The girl next door, with a twist! Born in MI, have lived in AZ since '87, love God, my family and my career, which keeps me in the air 50% of the time but when I'm down to earth (pun intended), I love the outdoors and quiet evenings in. I'm also a firm believer that a smile or hug can change someone's day! Time is valuable for us all so understand I am selective on who/how it's spent. Please don't be offended if I don't respond, I know what I want.... do you? Please note: profiles with smiles catch my eye as well as a tall, confident man who's held a relationship longer than the beer in his fridge :) Thanks for checking me out! Low pressure meet & greet; coffee & people watching or a glass of wine on a patio somewhere.

  • June

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a pretty simple girl. I work hard every single day and enjoy life. People say I have an amazing personality but I will let you be the judge of that. I enjoy a variety of things including hiking, biking, skiing, tennis and golf, and am pretty good at all of them, but my children are the center of my universe. I love to laugh! I am attracted to fun, classy, intelligent, adventurous men. I like to surround myself with kind, gentle and caring people and when choosing the man I want to spend my time with, those are the qualities that are most important to me. I am a devoted person who never gives up...only when I know it is time. My job, commute and kids keep me busy-but aren't we all busy. The things I enjoy most in life include my kids, going to the pool on a warm and sunny day and even though I hate to admit it, shopping and finding a beautiful new dress every once in a while. At this moment, what is important to me is someone who will relax with me and enjoy the day. A really good one....

  • Frankie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm confident, caring, honest, compassionate, hard working and a little stong willed. I'm not perfect but I think I'm pretty self aware and try to work on the less desirable things about my personality. We have all made mistakes in life and in our relationships but hopefully we learn from those mistakes and they make us wiser. . Ideally, I'd like to meet someone close to my age who's attractive, has a good career and is responsible and has a good personality and sense of humor.I try to be responsible but that doesn't mean I'm boring. Quite the opposite actually. I can be impulsive and spontaneous at times and am really open to trying new things. I also have a very self-depricating sense of humor and will be the first one to make fun of myself if I do something stupid. I enjoy spending time with my friends and traveling. I would also like to get back to Europe soon. Last minute road trips are also fun or just sitting by a campfire and chilling out with a glass of wine and good friends is also nice. I like anything from Def Leppard to Lady Gaga. It really just depends on my mood at the time.If you are just looking for a quick hookup please don't waste my time or yours. Maybe coffee and a relaxing conversation to see how compatible we are.

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