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Lela, 45

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About Me

I asked my friend what love is and this is what I got back:“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”Is there a lid for every pot? I have no idea.. but i hope so.....I have two amazing teenagers. I am not having more children. If you have kids that's ok. I prefer:(In NO particular order)tall men well dressed mensmart mennice teethfunhappyCreativespontaneousOpen mindedGenerousphysically fitAttentivegreat smilessmells good-but not overdoneattractivewell spokeneducatedemployedThose who know that 'should of' is wrong Men who take initiative funny/ good sense of humorif you have kids.. a good father.Passionate and expressive men. Travelers Kindhearted AlphaI'm staying away from:Abusive men (verbally or otherwise)Facial hair (beards,mustaches)large tattoosLiarsCheap peopledrugs and addictsmoody peoplesloppy dressersnail bitersfeminine mencontrol freaks (no no no no)Know it allscheatersliars.. (did i say that already?)short guys (I'm tall and wear heels)rudenessplayersSerial datersyoung guys (under ***just not looking for the same thing Some friendly suggestions:Lie about your age (even for search purposes and confessing in your profile) and you're out. Period. (This goes for height too). If you have pictures that are over 2 years old it's time to get real and honest.If I can see your phone taking your own picture then I am skipping over your profile. (don't you have at least ONE person in your life who can take a picture of you?)Don't take self portraits in a bathroom-- don't take self portraits at all. But if you do- rethink the angle of the shot. Do we need to see up your nostrils?Wear a shirt. ( I don't care how buff you are- just put a shirt on)Take off the hats and glasses. What are you hiding??What woman is turned on by a man who just caught a slimy huge fish?Don't just say 'hi", that is so boring..... Rudeness gets you no where fast. If you don't like my profile save yourself the trouble and time and just skip to the next. I don't need to hear negative comments about how you don't fit into my life. I know what I want and don't want. If you *** I'm interested I will reply.. **be prepared to share more photos** don't get how people post older pics and think it's ok. It's not. Please don't make me plan it....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mona

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Here we go!...Im a laid back kinda gal who is responsible and absolutely loves being a mom! My 2 kids keep me busy as do my 2 fur babies! Love my dogs! I enjoy camping, walks on the waterfront, movies on a rainy day and basically embracing life each and every day! Life is too short to have drama so I try every day to make the most of it! Even on work days! I don't want to write my whole life story here, so if you are interested, send me a line and lets see if there is anything in common! Casual meeting, coffee or a walk and hopefully a good chat!

  • Aida

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    The BIG goal is to eventually rule the world...but I am taking a little at a time. I am a minx, a queen, a diva...all woman...with a very open loving heart. I try to take things as they come but I can be an over thinker at times. I am intelligent, funny with a huge laugh and weird sense of humour. I am beautiful inside and out and proud to say it. I am gentle and loving but edgy with a keen sense of the obvious. I am a handful at times but its a good pay out if you stay with it! I'm almost always "all in" when I play and love so make sure your hand is good or I will win. I am not afraid to lose but I am definitely someone who strives for excellence and likes to win.I am sexy and adventurous, have a very high ideals and believe in complete honesty. There is no time to lie...its so consuming and I have other things I would rather be doing. I am not high maintenance but I do like the finer things in life. I believe in equality between men and women but I also believe in chivalry and being treated on a date. Old fashioned that way I guess. Music... No way to list all the music I listen to and like, suffice it to say I have a new favourite at least every other day.I am open minded and reasonable except where reason sucks and then I prefer to be unreasonable....but not in the way most people think. I enjoy science fiction and documentaries, and love action thrillers and geeky funny movies. I am not much of a chick flick chick, and don't really have time for such trifles as soap operas, on TV or in REAL life so keep the drama away from this mama! I love PASSIONATE men. I love ethnic men, although there are a few good old redneck boys I have adored in my time...as well as the nerdy glasses type guy. So I guess the idea is to present a good package and see if the delivery is accepted. I expect respect and if I cant trust you theres no point in moving forward so please no players...been there done that...omg...smdh.I love children , love animals...ADORE the ocean and mountains. I love to travel and prefer warmer climates... Maybe I am sticking around to see if I meet you...didn't you say that you were the one?If you *** I find you interesting I will probably ***! If not don't take it as a slight, just as a message that I am NOT the one for you. And always bring your best game...I cannot tell you how important that is!I hope for the best for all of us fishy's out there and here's to being caught! seriously if I have to tell you what type of date I would like to go on we either haven't talked long enough or you are never gonna get it...lol

  • Patrice

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am family oriented with a lot of energy to live life to it's fullest! I am looking for a partner who is funny, outgoing, warm and considerate. I am very social yet love to chill out and just "be". I have a great community of family and friends and would love someone to share it with. I learn a new sport every year and some are more successful than others :). I admit up front that I am a Canucks fan - Learning new things, discussions, and laughing a lot are all important to me. I enjoy playing and watching most sports, movies (scary ones too) and beaches. I enjoy my career and love the combination of teaching, research, and helping people recover from injury or illness. I am goal oriented but like it when spontaneity is thrown into the mix. Guilty pleasures are peanut M&Ms, MMA, and Sons of Anarchy. Just encase any of these are on your deal breaker list :) Meet up for a coffee, walk, or maybe bowling :)

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