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Lela, 45

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About Me

I asked my friend what love is and this is what I got back:“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”Is there a lid for every pot? I have no idea.. but i hope so.....I have two amazing teenagers. I am not having more children. If you have kids that's ok. I prefer:(In NO particular order)tall men well dressed mensmart mennice teethfunhappyCreativespontaneousOpen mindedGenerousphysically fitAttentivegreat smilessmells good-but not overdoneattractivewell spokeneducatedemployedThose who know that 'should of' is wrong Men who take initiative funny/ good sense of humorif you have kids.. a good father.Passionate and expressive men. Travelers Kindhearted AlphaI'm staying away from:Abusive men (verbally or otherwise)Facial hair (beards,mustaches)large tattoosLiarsCheap peopledrugs and addictsmoody peoplesloppy dressersnail bitersfeminine mencontrol freaks (no no no no)Know it allscheatersliars.. (did i say that already?)short guys (I'm tall and wear heels)rudenessplayersSerial datersyoung guys (under ***just not looking for the same thing Some friendly suggestions:Lie about your age (even for search purposes and confessing in your profile) and you're out. Period. (This goes for height too). If you have pictures that are over 2 years old it's time to get real and honest.If I can see your phone taking your own picture then I am skipping over your profile. (don't you have at least ONE person in your life who can take a picture of you?)Don't take self portraits in a bathroom-- don't take self portraits at all. But if you do- rethink the angle of the shot. Do we need to see up your nostrils?Wear a shirt. ( I don't care how buff you are- just put a shirt on)Take off the hats and glasses. What are you hiding??What woman is turned on by a man who just caught a slimy huge fish?Don't just say 'hi", that is so boring..... Rudeness gets you no where fast. If you don't like my profile save yourself the trouble and time and just skip to the next. I don't need to hear negative comments about how you don't fit into my life. I know what I want and don't want. If you *** I'm interested I will reply.. **be prepared to share more photos** don't get how people post older pics and think it's ok. It's not. Please don't make me plan it....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alice

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Back again for another go around.... In the past I've met some great people off this site, made some new friends but haven't found the "one". A few things about me: I'm very laid back, definitely not the high maintenance type. If I could live in jeans and T's - I would! I'm doing my best to stay fit and hit the gym often ***days/wk). I do pretty well with the "eating healthy" aspect of staying fit but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy a great burger now and then. Fall is my favorite time of year, not only for the weather - but football all weekend long!! I'm out here in hopes of meeting someone I can be myself around and have fun with. My children are older now (14, 16, ***and I'm finding that I have a lot more free time these days. Honesty & communication are the most important things I need in a relationship, after that if you have a good sense of humor, are adventurous, a bit sarcastic, very affectionate and enjoy being active/staying fit - then I'd love to hear from you! Lastly, I wish all of you the best in finding exactly what you're looking for.

  • Francine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there ! I was born & Please dont let the Blonde hair fool ya ! I'm a college graduate and consider myself to be quite intelligent and a skilled communicator . I'm looking for someone who likes to cherish every day by enjoying what it has to offer. I'm an easy going gal who likes humor in my life and enjoys making people laugh. I'm also a proud mother of amazing 17 year old twin boys who are starting their senior year in high school! I'm a Respiratory Therapist & I work hard & cherish my time off which will never include " booty calls! " LOL I'm ready to relax & enjoy time with that someone special who is in the same place I am & ready for love. *****PS -IF YOU ARE under 35 or DON'T HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE and/or can't have guests over to where you live please do not send a message ! Thank you !! ****Also --; - I need my man to be bigger than my boys who 5' 10" no offense , it's just the way I feel - call it strange or whatever -- but chemistry is important ! Meet up at the beach or in the city. Walk & talk or sit at a cozy table & get to know each other over coffee or a drink . ; )

  • Blanca

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ***.Time for corn maze and hanted houses.who want to go.Updated ***Let me start by saying. I want to be spoil on a reg basis , but not by gifts. but by your time, your touch, your voice. your smile. I miss the touch of a man,, not by sex, but hand holding. kissing, hugging, and cuddling , i miss that hug and his kiss on on the neck. i miss the text message just to say hi. I am thinking of you in the middle of the day. just for the hell of it... .everyone has lost the true meaning of a reationship these days, yes gifts and flowers are nice, but so is a back rub when i am having a bad day, thats all I want . a nice guy who know hows to treat a female. i will do the same if I find the right guy.. I am a bigger size girl yes I am a bbw. with a big heart. .I dont smoke. but will date a smoker.as long as its not every 5 mins.. sorry. dont want a chain smoker. am looking for a guy mid 30 to late 40s age is just a number,I dont have pets, but I do like them. .. its sunday a really pretty day. when you *** tell me why you would be great for me.. i know i am on a long shot to find happiness but hell wroth a shot.. please dont think i am a witch. i just now noticed what i am really missing in life. good luckyes i am divorced with a 17 year old daughter.. .THANK YOU for taking the time to read my profile.. good luck.if you want to know anything else . send me a message..p.s.please dont be married or a real big lier.it will come out sooner or later.I am not asking for much.I want someone real.p.s. by the way i dont like getting phone calls from the guys wife . when you get busted.. not my thing sorry.. movie.maybe go to the zoo.maybe go to a shooting range..or even along drive.. or go for a drink.some where to just talk.

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