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Lela, 45

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About Me

I asked my friend what love is and this is what I got back:“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”Is there a lid for every pot? I have no idea.. but i hope so.....I have two amazing teenagers. I am not having more children. If you have kids that's ok. I prefer:(In NO particular order)tall men well dressed mensmart mennice teethfunhappyCreativespontaneousOpen mindedGenerousphysically fitAttentivegreat smilessmells good-but not overdoneattractivewell spokeneducatedemployedThose who know that 'should of' is wrong Men who take initiative funny/ good sense of humorif you have kids.. a good father.Passionate and expressive men. Travelers Kindhearted AlphaI'm staying away from:Abusive men (verbally or otherwise)Facial hair (beards,mustaches)large tattoosLiarsCheap peopledrugs and addictsmoody peoplesloppy dressersnail bitersfeminine mencontrol freaks (no no no no)Know it allscheatersliars.. (did i say that already?)short guys (I'm tall and wear heels)rudenessplayersSerial datersyoung guys (under ***just not looking for the same thing Some friendly suggestions:Lie about your age (even for search purposes and confessing in your profile) and you're out. Period. (This goes for height too). If you have pictures that are over 2 years old it's time to get real and honest.If I can see your phone taking your own picture then I am skipping over your profile. (don't you have at least ONE person in your life who can take a picture of you?)Don't take self portraits in a bathroom-- don't take self portraits at all. But if you do- rethink the angle of the shot. Do we need to see up your nostrils?Wear a shirt. ( I don't care how buff you are- just put a shirt on)Take off the hats and glasses. What are you hiding??What woman is turned on by a man who just caught a slimy huge fish?Don't just say 'hi", that is so boring..... Rudeness gets you no where fast. If you don't like my profile save yourself the trouble and time and just skip to the next. I don't need to hear negative comments about how you don't fit into my life. I know what I want and don't want. If you *** I'm interested I will reply.. **be prepared to share more photos** don't get how people post older pics and think it's ok. It's not. Please don't make me plan it....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elma

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    There is a story behind that oh-so-catchy headline. I have no expectation here, but am open to the possibility of a relationship.I came to DC to work with a lobbying firm and then in government affairs. I now work for a software firm, client-side--much more fun and I can transfer anywhere. I don't have any horror stories or drama, and avoid those that inspire either. Road-tripping and fishing. That I always have a football and a bit of (wrapped) firewood in my car. Light-heartedness. Excellence. And my Packers. "Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere *** conscientious stupidity" I don't have a 'perfect match' conjured up in my mind. I know that honesty, wit, intelligence, loyalty, good-heartedness, attractiveness and athleticism matter. Not necessarily in that order. Much like yourself, no? I am Irish/Italian, from a military family, non-spoiled daddy's girl, very active--sailing, bouldering, fishing, hiking, sports-- but never in a gym, and love to eat and whatnot. That is a recipe for happiness, trust me. Unless you prefer a gym. And are allergic to fish. And eating. And whatnot. I am not looking to hook up, fine if that's your thing, but it isn't mine. I wouldn't call it a 'date' for sure. A drink of some sort, probably..be honest, neither of us wants to be stuck longer than that if there is no chemistry.

  • Rowena

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi! My name is Rowena. I am separated other caucasian woman without kids from Forney, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Mayra

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Looking for someone to maybe push that restart button with? Someone to have some adventures with? If this is what you're looking for, let's see what we can do. I put my kids first and try to stay as busy as I can when I am both with and without kids. I would enjoy traveling with you, trying new things and cooking crazy things in the kitchen or just a night out. I am pretty independent and hope you are too- we still need time for our friends, our own projects, etc. If music helps define who you are, then we have a great first start. We would learn a lot about each other quickly if you love to talk and share. Responsibility, trustworthiness, ability to communicate and maturity and very important to me. I can offer a willingness to have fun, to create new adventures, unwavering affection and a readiness to know you.Some things I would like to see: Mature men who know what they want, don't play games to get it and believe in treating women with respect while being a gentleman. Meanwhile, he will be treated super- because I want to. I'm not here for a hook-up, I'm ready for the real thing. Are you?Write because you are looking for something with potential you can't find in the the world you are in right now. Because I am saying something that sparks something in you that speaks to a "maybe". There is no desperation here, just another girl taking advantage of technology. Best wishes... Low key where we can focus on each other in a public place- if we can connect first as friends, the rest will come much easier!

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