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Candy, 55
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

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About Me

Living life as a confident optimist has given me the gift of believing that all is possible. When I wake up in the morning I know that it is up to me to make it happen or not to happen. My favorite type of people are people who have a sense of purpose, non-judgemental and who can laugh at themselves. I love all types of movies, people, food, music, dancing and animals. A person who has examined their life and have a sense of who they are is probably a good match for me. I love to laugh and see the humor in most things and will be serious when it counts. World issues, politics, the entertainment world are just a few of the things I like to talk about. My spirituality is important to me. I love exploring others beliefs in a non-judgemental way because it helps me examine, define and expand my own life.- on the ocean, in the woods or mountains sounds good to me - enjoys walking in the city and being near the lake. All of that helps me in my business life and helps me stay centered. Having it all balance is one of life's challenges. Would like someone who feels the same and "dream big" with me with the action behind it!I would like someone who will magnify my life not make my life. A person who is kind, cares about others and also able to take care of himself. Someone who loves to have a good time and is serious when it is needed. Family and friends are important to this person. Someone who has an idea of who they are and has some kind of idea how to get there...with some flexibility (not rigid). Have an interest in growing spiritually in their life. Romantic and lets someone knows how they feel emotionally and is not afraid to say what is on their mind. Even if it is difficult. A person who is a "big picture" person. Someone who has a sense of this world and what is going on in it. Someone who can also be a little zany, goofy and have a sense of humor! Success in what they have choosen to do in their profession in important and respects others and has earned the respect and trust of their friends, family business associates. A sense of adventure would be fun, too! My first date with someone after our initial tea or coffee meet would be to do something that is fun like go on a nature hike, go to dinner or lunch or go to dinner and a movie. Also, I am open to what my date has in mind, too. Hanging out with someone is great with my date putting some thought into it and taking the lead.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Virgie from Chicago Heights | Woman | 31 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am very goal oriented. I have accomplished a lot on my own and I am looking for a match not a provider. I truly believe it is important to set long and short term goals. I love my job and love what I do which makes life easier. I don't consider it work because I have a passion for it. I am confident in myself and my successes and can only imagine where I will be years from now. I am very out going. I try everything once because you never know unless you try. I love to cook/bake and entertain. I enjoy a night in cuddled up with a good movie or a night out dancing. Love theme parks, the beach, nature, walks in the park. Love playing indoor and outdoor games and sports because I'm not a sore loser....I just enjoy having fun with others. What makes me unique is my attitude. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home...and even relationships. The remarkable thing is I have a choice everyday regarding the attitude I will embrace for that day. I cannot change my past... I cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. I cannot change the inevitable. The only thing I can do is play on the one string I have, and that is my attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with me... I am in charge of my Attitude. I love most music because I love to dance. I believe life is what you make it and it should be treasured, full of happiness, and even through the storms there will be a lesson learned. I am very happy in my own life and now I am open to finding someone to share it with. I believe that attraction is a big thing and not just physically but mentally. Dinner and Drinks with casual conversation. Maybe something fun but low key. I am open to most things so I am sure we can make anything fun.

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  • Robbie from Chicago Heights | Woman | 33 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi. Well I guess I'm on here because lately the only people I've been meeting are clients or colleagues. I’ve heard some good things about this site, so here to check it out.About me:- an outgoing & independent professional; I love my job and it keeps me pretty busy, but I always make time for the important people in my life- I have a great group of friends, and am very close to my family- easy-going and positive - I try to see life optimistically, but can be totally sarcastic too and love to joke around (Bonus points if you know what movie my headline is from!)- am a big traveler and have a long list of places I’d still like to visit –- love dogs, first kisses, camping, cottages, cheesy movies, and sharing a bottle of wine- as comfortable at a fancy corporate event as I am cuddling in sweats on the couch, and love both- I'm pretty active and regularly play volleyball, tennis, horseback ride, snowboard, and am working on my golf swing :P- firmly believe that it’s the little things in life that count the most, and make you the happiest- looking for someone easy-going who doesn't take themselves or life too seriously; someone with a positive outlook, who's happy with their life and the person they are, and who believes good communication, trust and mutual respect are the foundations of a successful relationship. - I'd love to find someone's who's my best friend AND who I have amazing chemisty with - someone who makes me excited when the phones rings and it's them - looking to date and enjoy getting to know someone, not for a casual hook up or to fast-track anything.Anything else you’d like to know, just ask :) Hmmm...something casual, like grabbing a drink. If we have chemistry, the next dates are easy.

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  • Fanny from Chicago Heights | Woman | 32 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    "To find a love that consumes you and everything around you"Well I'm gonna try this again. I haven't had the best luck. Not for lack of trying :-)I started a new job back in July, I sometimes work a lot of hours so it doesn't leave much time to meet anyone. So here I am :-). With that said about me... Well I work hard. Love to cook. Keep a clean house. Care about myself and how I look. Can be classy and clean or get dirty. My friends say I'm funny, but I think I'm silly, and sometimes act like a dork. However I know when to be serious when I need to be. I believe family is important, and you only need quality friends and not a quantity of friends. Also lets throw in I care too much, fall too hard, and who doesn't get jealous sometimes? I cant spell either :-) Anything else please feel free to ask :-) As for "The Guy". Lol well you know us girls always looking for Mr. Right. Tall dark handsome. Well I've found he doesn't exist. :-) I want someone that makes me happy. Cares about me. Can make me laugh, and enjoys doing the same things. Treats me like his own princess. Respects me. Willing to take a little control in the relationship. Has a job. A guy that is more than willing to respond to my calls or texts ( who isn't to busy). Someone that can carry a conversation even on this site. A guy that doesnt need to have drinks or drugs to have a good time. Who enjoys going out as much as staying in. I've met too many ***holes on this site, and hate I've waisted my time on them. If your a user, please continue your search. I'm not the one for you. Lets have fun together. Make mistakes with each other. Grab your truck, hit some back roads and get to know one another.*My disclamer*I'm sorry but I am not attracted to big men, or unhealthy men. And if I don't respond to your message then it's because I don't see/ read a connection. Not because I'm mean. OR I've been working long ass hours and have been to tired to get on this thing. And let the search begin ;-) JK..... (See told you....dork) Guys choice. I hate making decisions. Something fun but where we can still get to know one another.

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