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Candy, 55
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

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About Me

Living life as a confident optimist has given me the gift of believing that all is possible. When I wake up in the morning I know that it is up to me to make it happen or not to happen. My favorite type of people are people who have a sense of purpose, non-judgemental and who can laugh at themselves. I love all types of movies, people, food, music, dancing and animals. A person who has examined their life and have a sense of who they are is probably a good match for me. I love to laugh and see the humor in most things and will be serious when it counts. World issues, politics, the entertainment world are just a few of the things I like to talk about. My spirituality is important to me. I love exploring others beliefs in a non-judgemental way because it helps me examine, define and expand my own life.- on the ocean, in the woods or mountains sounds good to me - enjoys walking in the city and being near the lake. All of that helps me in my business life and helps me stay centered. Having it all balance is one of life's challenges. Would like someone who feels the same and "dream big" with me with the action behind it!I would like someone who will magnify my life not make my life. A person who is kind, cares about others and also able to take care of himself. Someone who loves to have a good time and is serious when it is needed. Family and friends are important to this person. Someone who has an idea of who they are and has some kind of idea how to get there...with some flexibility (not rigid). Have an interest in growing spiritually in their life. Romantic and lets someone knows how they feel emotionally and is not afraid to say what is on their mind. Even if it is difficult. A person who is a "big picture" person. Someone who has a sense of this world and what is going on in it. Someone who can also be a little zany, goofy and have a sense of humor! Success in what they have choosen to do in their profession in important and respects others and has earned the respect and trust of their friends, family business associates. A sense of adventure would be fun, too! My first date with someone after our initial tea or coffee meet would be to do something that is fun like go on a nature hike, go to dinner or lunch or go to dinner and a movie. Also, I am open to what my date has in mind, too. Hanging out with someone is great with my date putting some thought into it and taking the lead.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Saundra from Chicago Heights | Woman | 51 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm both a hard worker and fun.( I hope) Things that really make me happy being alive are...the first snowfall of the season, the smell of rain, gardening and smelling and feeling the earth and taking my dogs for walk and feeling their excitement. When the weather is nice I love being outdoors. I enjoy antiquing and looking at old historic houses and towns. I'm a low maintenance person. I'm most comfortable in jeans, but can dress up if the occasion calls for it.I enjoy many types of music, but not rap.I love to laugh and just have fun and be silly. A sense of humor is a must like my headline says. My kids say I'm quirky. I think that's good?Sports is not a big part of my life. Politically, I definitely lean toward the left. I feel that two people must be friends first before anything else happens. Good conversation, communication,honesty and respect are so important.I'm hoping to meet someone to hang out with. We can see what happens from there. Something simple like meeting for coffee or dinner. Somewhere where we can talk and get to know each other.

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  • Michele from Chicago Heights | Woman | 35 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I was raised small town/country values, but I am a city girl at heart. Live and work downtown and love watching the sun rise over the lake every morning. Things you will quickly discover I like and are important to me: sarcasm, politics, traveling, dancing, sense of adventure, baking (I make an amazing banana bread!), the gym/being active, laughing until my stomach hurts, a good Belgian ale, Old St. Pat's church/my faith, volunteering and the teens I mentor, cooking healthy, trivia at dive bars, debating current events, my friends and family, dandelions, living by the lake, Millennium Park, reality TV, wine &..Things you will quickly discover I dislike: olives, heights, people who forget their blessings, ChardonnayMy friends say I am loyal and kind to a fault, always believing people have the best intentions - but that is who I am and hope you are too. I am independent and am blessed with a great job, amazing group of friends and a good family. I have a ton of energy, am always smiling and laughing and have a very upbeat personality. Would be great if you are similar! :) I am super outgoing/friendly and love meeting new people - I rarely am nervous on a first date.

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  • Muriel from Chicago Heights | Woman | 35 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I've relocated back to my homestate after grad school and a 12 year hiatus and would like to meet some new people in the area.. lots can change in a dozen years, right? . Perhaps you want to show me around your favorite places or take me with you on an adventure.. I'm always game for exploring or having an intellectual conversation, or just having a few drinks and a bunch of laughs. I don't have time or interest in hitting the bar scene on a regular basis, but I do enjoy the opportunity to get out and scope out new venues for good food, drink and entertainment.I'm a strong independent woman who tends to scare guys who aren't self-confident off, but I'm really a passionate and sensitive person who wants meaningful relationships just like everyone else. I'm totally down to earth, confident in myself and enjoy art and music as a way of life. I am creative, educated, inspired by nature and know how to have a good time. I would love to find someone who I could share adventures and experiences with, both good and bad. Life is indeed too short to go it alone. However, I would rather do my own thing than put up with someone else's bullshit. Friends and family are very important to me; I am happy to say that there is no drama to report here!. I really enjoy cooking gourmet meals and I would love to have someone to share them with. It's hard to picture where exactly I'll be in the next five or ten years, but I do know that a strong community around me is really important.If I haven't scared you off yet..please read on: It would be nice to find someone to share adventures and quality moments with... creative, funny and outdoorsy guys get bonus points. I don't intend to design what the perfect guy should be; that's not my goal. I like a self-confident, intelligent man who knows who he is and doesn't need me to 'make him happy' but someone who enjoys me for who I am and also loves to do his own thing. Show me a great hiking spot or share your passions and I'll share mine. I am very attracted to hard working men who are not afraid to get dirty but can clean up nicely when necessary! Spending lots of time in my studio makes me happy! I'm a bit of a romantic too. Sunset strolls on the beach, candlelight dinners, picnics and adventurous getaways, or a night of snuggling with a good movie are my idea of a fun time. I don't watch TV, and don't care to; Netflix is a decent compromise.. soaking in hotsprings under the moonlight.. discovering beauty in silence and laughing until it hurts.I enjoy a wide variety of music and enjoy going to see shows or just checking out what people have on their ipod or in their album collection.. I love a good and funky bassline and clever lyrics. Lately I've been listening to lots of bluegrass. Always open to listening to new music. I am always happy to meet positive an intelligent folks no matter where I live. I'm really looking forward to establishing gardens again and getting back to my roots. Positivity can get a person everywhere in life. And a strong sense of humor somehow helps us get through all the crazy sh*t that is going on in this world. I'm pretty liberal.. so please don't try to start a political argument with me. Drop me a line if you think we have similar interests. Robo-muscle men, conservatives and those looking for a one-night stand need not respond. Depends on mutual interests... Maybe meeting up for tea or coffee or other fine beverages and we can discuss whatever comes up.. see where it goes from there... something fun and an opportunity to talk and laugh is ideal.

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