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Estella, 42

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Okay, Straight up.. No BS. I am 41 years old. Never been married. Two illigitimate kids by two different fathers. 18 and 14.. I have a job. but no car. I am hillarious. but sharply sarcastic. I am a little bit loud. but love quiet. I am a little bit lazy. but love to do stuff. I am flighty and flakey a little, but I follow through . I have half assed I am devoted friend. I have extreamly diverse circle of friends and relationships. I have been single for about year and a half. Not interested in spending alot of time sending messages. You know within mettiing someone within the first twenty minutes if you have a spark or not. I went on just one single online date, ever.. There wasnt a spark. he flat out told me just that. Because he was straight up with me , I will try it again. Im not everyones cup of tea ( or rather; shot of vodka. ) but if there is a spark to occur.. ill light a joint with it and see it it catches fire. also, i hate football, the history channel, public displays of affection and liars. but i adore stand up comedy, thrift stores , road trips and a deep, personal love for eminem,..I hate to make decisons and will never rub your feet (and deal breaker here for many,) dispite my big mouth, i dont like to put certain foreign objects in it. For real, Remember, no BS, so only message me if you want to take me on a date. and i will not have sex with you on the firstdate. for sure. i will not. so dont try. no matter how nice the date is.. and if youre married. then its cash up front and tuesdays at noon. Just kidding .. i would only be a homewreaker if by telling your wife wreaked your home. . sorry. And finally, Who I am most likely to "spark" (nothing hotter than a guy that can fix anything..; ***cm) Faith: Non-Religious MY BACKGROUND Ethnicity: White/Caucasian Education: High School Longest Relationship: 5 years Body Type: Average Has Children: Yes, they live at home Wants Children: No Exercises: 1-2x per week Occupation: customer service Zodiac Sign: Libra MY IDEAL PARTNER•Is between 38 and 50 years old.• No preference if they smoke or not.• No preference about parental status.•Minimum education: High School. FIRST DATE I would like a first date to last however long makes sense. I think a typical first date should be somewhat planned -- I like to have a general idea of what we'll be doing. Not a big fan of decision making. Would prefer to be surprised...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sally

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Show me something different, Im sick of the same kinds of guys........oh and please say what you mean and mean what you say....I have no use for men that have no quality to them hahaha.....Im picky and I will not settle for anything less than I deserve...I own my own house, car and everything else I have, full time job and full time student w/a 4.0 gpa so Im not your average blonde. Smarter than you will think so dont even try to play me :) Honestly this site has become more of entertainment than anything else, seeing that I have not come across one guy that has been worth my time.....other than that, Im a pretty down to earth, chill kind of woman :p I think a first meeting to see if there is chemistry is better than sitting through a miserable meal with someone you clearly do not have any interest seeing again. Meeting at a public place for something simple is waaaaay better.

  • Simone

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am energetic. Fun, lovable, great spirited, outdoors woman. I love all types of music besides jazz. I love being outside with the sun. I love gardening. I used to ride and compete with horses. I love animals. I love my kids. I am a lady and expects to b treated like one.. Hence IM looking to start off slow. U need to b friends first.I am looking for seriousness. IM not ffake nor do I like games to b played.I no what I want and I won't settle for less. IM a very out spoken women. if you r patient then that's a plus. My first date would b a romantic, passionate one. I can't tell u lol cause idk. It's up to the man and if we click or not. But remember it is the first date. I love looking up at the stars. So walking would b good. Slow dancing under the stars is very heart touching. Just sayin

  • Minerva

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Shakespeare once said.. Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind. Sometimes however I think we might need to clean our glasses and take a second look! LOL!Update ***tired of all the crazies, freaks and posers... I truly want to find "that guy" Sick of games.... Like you guys I have a specific man that I'm looking for and when I meet him and am sure that things are going to work out I will be deleting this profile. I really don't want to be on here. I'm looking for the man that compliments me completely. The one I can't live without. ..no pics no response ...come on quit hiding behind your profile! Also, I only date men of my own ethnic background. I'm just not into anything other than that, sorry guys! One last thing, I hate being smothered. By that I mean when im working I can't take calls text are okay but don't get upset if I don't respond right away because I'm probably in a meeting. I will respond when I'm out. I understand communication is the key but I don't think it's necessary to call me 10 times a day for hour long talks. I can't do that. Talking on lunch time, after work and in the evening is cool. *** great as well during my work day. I can do that no worries. The song that best describes how to catch me would be by 38 special. "Hold On Loosely" I'm a down to Earth person that works in the city and lives in the country. I am a single mom and my daughter is my world!Working my tail off and running after a 9 yr old! I think I'm officially a chauffeur! She has more of a social life than I do! Goodness!Seriously, I'm a Web Business Analyst full-time and a Make-up Artist part-time. My daughter and I were blessed to buy our first home so I've really just been focusing on the lawn, backyard...where to put flowerbeds..what color of lawn furniture...dreams of a pergola....you know....girly stuff!I am the "soccer mom" so to speak and I love it. I work hard and come home to my little one. I love it but I'm missing companionship. It would really be nice just to have someone that I could share my day with and them share with me and the story not consist of what happened at recess! Don't get me wrong...I heart everyone of those stories and I'm grateful that my daughter opens up to me. I pray that never changes. :)Movies-- Thrillers, Drama, Action, Romantic Comedies and Comedies. I will watch a scary movie but only in the day time...yes I'm a chicken hawk!Music--I love a little bit of everything but I really can't stand country (the old stuff) the newer stuff is okay I like it...If you listened to my play list you would hear:BEP'sPinkSlither-- She is that which I myself am not. In the act of love, I am pure male, and she is pure female. She is she, and I am I, and clasped together with her, I know how perfectly she is not me, how perfectly I am not her, how utterly we are two, the light and the darkness, and how infinetly and eternally, not-to-be-comprehended by either of us is the surpassing ONE we make.--D. H.!! I honestly feel some place like this would offer both of us a more comfortable environment.What I find sexy about a man....I love a tall man (5'9" minimum) To me the lips, eyes, hair, scent and butt are all great but there's just something about the back of a mans thigh. It's so sexy to me. The front of a man's neck is also another thing I find very sexy. The outline of the SCM muscle on the front of the neck is very sensual.

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