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Estella, 42
United States, New York, Binghamton

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Dec 2025 18:23:05

About Me

Okay, Straight up.. No BS. I am 41 years old. Never been married. Two illigitimate kids by two different fathers. 18 and 14.. I have a job. but no car. I am hillarious. but sharply sarcastic. I am a little bit loud. but love quiet. I am a little bit lazy. but love to do stuff. I am flighty and flakey a little, but I follow through . I have half assed I am devoted friend. I have extreamly diverse circle of friends and relationships. I have been single for about year and a half. Not interested in spending alot of time sending messages. You know within mettiing someone within the first twenty minutes if you have a spark or not. I went on just one single online date, ever.. There wasnt a spark. he flat out told me just that. Because he was straight up with me , I will try it again. Im not everyones cup of tea ( or rather; shot of vodka. ) but if there is a spark to occur.. ill light a joint with it and see it it catches fire. also, i hate football, the history channel, public displays of affection and liars. but i adore stand up comedy, thrift stores , road trips and a deep, personal love for eminem,..I hate to make decisons and will never rub your feet (and deal breaker here for many,) dispite my big mouth, i dont like to put certain foreign objects in it. For real, Remember, no BS, so only message me if you want to take me on a date. and i will not have sex with you on the firstdate. for sure. i will not. so dont try. no matter how nice the date is.. and if youre married. then its cash up front and tuesdays at noon. Just kidding .. i would only be a homewreaker if by telling your wife wreaked your home. . sorry. And finally, Who I am most likely to "spark" (nothing hotter than a guy that can fix anything..; ***cm) Faith: Non-Religious MY BACKGROUND Ethnicity: White/Caucasian Education: High School Longest Relationship: 5 years Body Type: Average Has Children: Yes, they live at home Wants Children: No Exercises: 1-2x per week Occupation: customer service Zodiac Sign: Libra MY IDEAL PARTNER•Is between 38 and 50 years old.• No preference if they smoke or not.• No preference about parental status.•Minimum education: High School. FIRST DATE I would like a first date to last however long makes sense. I think a typical first date should be somewhat planned -- I like to have a general idea of what we'll be doing. Not a big fan of decision making. Would prefer to be surprised...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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