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Cindy, 42
United States, New York, Binghamton

Offline, last seen Sat, 14 Mar 2026 20:13:35

About Me

I love to be outside!! I am happiest in the mountains skiing, biking, hiking, etc.. Im up for any kind of adventure. Best thing I ever did! Ski patrol was on my bucket list...so I took leave from my real job for a winter and patrolled at Snowbasin. If you give piggy back rides, you think throwing a frisbee in the park is fun while shopping makes you want to chew tinfoil, then we will get along fine!I love people. Im a happy go lucky girl! If you are critical, self centered,or tightly wound, we would be a poor match. Genuineness is hugely important to me. Id much rather be happy and leave the games and drama to the other girls. :) Lastly, kindness is key. Im looking for a man who pushes himself every day to grow mentally, emotionally and physically, and is more interested in overcoming his problems than finding someone to blame for them. My photos are all recent and unedited.. Im on this web site to date, not to *** so don't be surprised if I ask to meet you right away, its not desperation..dont worry. Its efficiency! LOL If you are gonna get wierd on me like asking to schedule a meet is pushing for a big commitment, chill out!!.. its just coffee. :) Im not LDS and don't want to be, but I have a lot of respect for the religion. I don't send " sexy" pics, so don't ask. Casual friendships?..fun! Casual sex?..Nope. And please..if you send me a pic..keep your clothes on for heaven's sake! I have FOUR nearly grown children. They rock. They are the coolest smartest kids Ive ever met. I am looking for a relationship with someone I can love, admire, have adventures with and enjoy life together for as long as we bring each other happiness. I probably want to marry again, but im not entirely sure about that, however I love the closeness and intimacy of a committed relationship. If I like you, I can keep it casual, but Ill be honest, if I REALLY like you, I don't do casual very well. I will probably be happiest in that case if we talk for a few minutes almost every day and see each other at least once a week. If I feel reasonably important, Im the happiest easiest to get along with girlfriend ever- (I can provide references lol), but if you treat me like an afterthought, it wont take too long for me to pull away. I provide for myself and dont need a sugar daddy, nor do i want to take care of someone but would love to share this amazing adventure called life with someone who can keep up physically, intellectually, and emotionally. Can you??? ;) My ex-husband is my good friend. I believe that getting along with your ex is the best gift you can give to your children. Ideal playdate would be skiing, biking, hiking, raquetball, climbing, or learning something new. Eating out- love the funky ethnic stuff. Not into movies for first dates... awkward. Im totally fine with coffee or a walk in the park for a first meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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