SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Kay
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Well, here we are. I assume people have different reasons for posting here. Mine is that I work a lot (I don't think that dating those you work with is a good idea) and don't have a whole lot of time to actually get out there and meet new people. I will make this short and sweet.-but I do like the blues and a little jazz on occasion). I am not an on-the-go person all the time. I also enjoy lounging on the couch watching a movie or reading a good book. Spending time with family is important to me too.I'm a say what you mean and mean what you say kind of person. If I tell you I am going to do something, I do it. If I tell you I am going to be somewhere at a specific time, I'm there. Dependability and trustworthiness is important to me. I'm very hesitant about this internet dating, even as I am typing this, I am smiling because, if I know me (I am working on that... lol) I will probably overthink this and deactivate this account before too long. But we shall see....I'd like to add that I am by no means racist, but I do not date outside my race.
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Cindy
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I love to be outside!! I am happiest in the mountains skiing, biking, hiking, etc.. Im up for any kind of adventure. Best thing I ever did! Ski patrol was on my bucket list...so I took leave from my real job for a winter and patrolled at Snowbasin. If you give piggy back rides, you think throwing a frisbee in the park is fun while shopping makes you want to chew tinfoil, then we will get along fine!I love people. Im a happy go lucky girl! If you are critical, self centered,or tightly wound, we would be a poor match. Genuineness is hugely important to me. Id much rather be happy and leave the games and drama to the other girls. :) Lastly, kindness is key. Im looking for a man who pushes himself every day to grow mentally, emotionally and physically, and is more interested in overcoming his problems than finding someone to blame for them. My photos are all recent and unedited.. Im on this web site to date, not to *** so don't be surprised if I ask to meet you right away, its not desperation..dont worry. Its efficiency! LOL If you are gonna get wierd on me like asking to schedule a meet is pushing for a big commitment, chill out!!.. its just coffee. :) Im not LDS and don't want to be, but I have a lot of respect for the religion. I don't send " sexy" pics, so don't ask. Casual friendships?..fun! Casual sex?..Nope. And please..if you send me a pic..keep your clothes on for heaven's sake! I have FOUR nearly grown children. They rock. They are the coolest smartest kids Ive ever met. I am looking for a relationship with someone I can love, admire, have adventures with and enjoy life together for as long as we bring each other happiness. I probably want to marry again, but im not entirely sure about that, however I love the closeness and intimacy of a committed relationship. If I like you, I can keep it casual, but Ill be honest, if I REALLY like you, I don't do casual very well. I will probably be happiest in that case if we talk for a few minutes almost every day and see each other at least once a week. If I feel reasonably important, Im the happiest easiest to get along with girlfriend ever- (I can provide references lol), but if you treat me like an afterthought, it wont take too long for me to pull away. I provide for myself and dont need a sugar daddy, nor do i want to take care of someone but would love to share this amazing adventure called life with someone who can keep up physically, intellectually, and emotionally. Can you??? ;) My ex-husband is my good friend. I believe that getting along with your ex is the best gift you can give to your children. Ideal playdate would be skiing, biking, hiking, raquetball, climbing, or learning something new. Eating out- love the funky ethnic stuff. Not into movies for first dates... awkward. Im totally fine with coffee or a walk in the park for a first meeting.
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Jillian
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I've been divorced for nearly 2 years. Wounds have been licked and I'm ready to get into the dating scene again-I guess I am a glutton for punishment. Plenty of fish says I should talk about hobbies/goals/my uniqueness and taste in music...here goes:Hobbies: gardening, walking for fun and fitness, fishing, dancing, travel, camping, reading, card and board games. I am fairly competitive but can take a loss with minimal tears and tantrums.Goals: personal goals are finding a partner to share my life and interests with. I have 2 beautiful grown children who have been my primary focus, but now that they are grown I am excited to focus time and energy on myself. Currently I'm in the process of buying my first home as a single person and am looking forward to remodelling and decorating it. I think men who know how to use a hammer are SEXY! Though it's not a deal breaker to just hire an expert-recognizing and accepting strengths and weaknesses is attractive in and of itself :) Professional goals involve possibly returning to school to finish my master's degree within the next 5 years. What makes me unique...hmmm, with 6,000,000,000ish people on Earth, I don't know that anyone is really THAT unique. However, some qualities I have that make me who I am are an ability to be nearly always happy. I am genetically geared towards a positive outlook, and it's not something I have to work on. I have a permanent smile and a slightly twisted sense of humor. I consider myself to be above average in intelligence (doesn't everyone?), and enjoy conversations with funny, intelligent people. I know, I TOLD you it's difficult to be truly unique! Although my family is very conservative and somewhat religious, I am not. Through painful trial and error I have learned that I need a partner who not only "tolerates," but shares my liberal views.Music tastes: I gravitate towards Indie and alternative rock. Although I can usually find songs within every genre to enjoy, I really don't care for gangster rap and country music. The first is too hateful and the second is too whiney and depressing for my tastes. Guilty TV pleasure: toss up between Americas Next Top Model and So You Think You Can Dance (you would think I'm 15yrs old). Uh, I'm not...pedophiles need not apply. An ideal first date would be somewhere intimate with a good****ail where we could discuss our interests and hopefully find common ground. Best case scenario would be lots of laughing, though not to the milk coming out your nose extent, because that is almost never sexy. I think the mark of a good first date is losing track of the time. If you find yourself checking your watch every few minutes it's probably time to cut your losses and agree to "just be friends"...both knowing we will never be friends. :)Another fun first date would be deep sea fishing... because if you are still attracted to someone who smells like bait you are on the right track. Or maybe a wine tasting tour. I am completely *** wines and would appreciate some guidance on the subject. Plus the smell of the aging barrels is much better than fish bait.