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Lucy, 41
United States, New York, Binghamton

Offline, last seen Thu, 04 Jun 2026 20:12:14

About Me

I'm loyal, caring, active, adventurous, and passionate. I enjoy dressing up and going to a nice restaurant or working out and getting muddy. Tennis, volleyball, walking, yoga, golf, zip lining and hiking are just a few things on my list but pretty much willing to try anything. I enjoy obstacle courses such as the Warrior Dash and hope to do the Tough Mudder someday. I'll dance the night away, hang by a bonfire, watch a beautiful sunset, walk along the beach, go to a football game, shoot pool or cooking a nice dinner together. Traveling is a passion. I've traveled to many tropical islands. I'm eager to continue exploring other places both in and outside the U.S. I'm searching for a friend to share these times with. I'll try most anything once with the right company! I'm looking for someone taller than me as I like to wear high heels. I'm looking for a faithful, compassionate, trustworthy guy that is physically fit with a warm smile. There has to be attraction, chemistry and a mental connection. I'm a quality time type of person (from a book, The 5 Love Languages.) It's a must read even for men. It helps open our understanding of relationships. Many people want a best friend to share there time with, but few work to keep relationships together. I know that I need someone that will be active, make memories and communicate with me. You must be able to hold a conversation, text more than one sentence and actually ask questions. Please respond only if you are looking for something meaningful. Although the casual thing may be fun and exciting, it's not for me. So if you write to me, please say more than HI or HOW ARE YOU? I really do enjoy conversations.So what do you say, should we talk?I read inspirational quotes n self development books because if we are not growing than we are stagnant. I am happy with my life. I have two kids, friends and family that are important to me. My kids are with me half the time. I own my house and have been renovating it (No not myself. I'm not that handy. LOL). I have 5 pounds of fat that I want to turn into muscle, so I'm all yours if you want to help me with that. ;)Lots to say but rather do it in person. Something casual but fun. Going to the beach and walking. Going for a walk in the park (maybe even with my dog). Although I'm not a big drinker -- Going to an outside restaurant, having a glass of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Caribbean Middle Eastern Animation Documentary Dirt Bike Racing Ice Hockey Outdoor Hobbies
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