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Nell, 42
United States, New York, Binghamton

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I want a simple life with simple things; the things that are important. I believe in always doing the right thing and always being honest. I may seem old fashioned. Maybe because I don't have any tattoos, or because I actually want to speak on the phone and not just text indefinitely. AND I have never been arrested!! Lol. I’ve been told my “type” is strong-willed and independent. I suppose I am, but I believe in compromise and am usually the first one to bend for someone I care about; family, friends, or significant other. I very much want to find my one and only, always and forever. I want a man in my life for the right reasons. I don’t need someone to take care of me financially or otherwise, but I am tired of being Miss Independent. I want a best friend and partner in life with a soft shoulder and a compassionate heart. I need a strong confident man who will treat me like a lady. I describe myself as stable, rational, caring and extremely loyal. I have zero drama in my life. I have my flaws, and as we get acquainted I have NO problem disclosing them. We deserve to know the truth about each other. I have a good job and I'm very good at what I do. I don't have a lot of accomplishments to list, but I wouldn't trade my gift of common sense for anything. I have been divorced 6 yrs after 16 yrs of marriage. I'm not damaged or carrying emotional baggage. I may actually propose to the first man I meet that I can get through more than one date or phone conversation without hearing the words "my ex". Don’t know why, but it really turns me off. Guess I’m selfish and want it to be about “us” and not our pasts. One thing is for sure, I am a home body. But I can easily be persuaded to get out. I can have fun doing any activity if it is with someone I enjoy. I like being outdoors, especially at a pool or lake in the summer. I love watching football in the fall. I love horses, but never have a chance to be around them. Mostly my girly side will show. I like my fingernails and toenails to be painted at all times. MEETING: I believe the first "meeting" IS a meeting and I should pay for my own dinner, drinks, whatever. It’s not fair to men to meet women and pay every time when things may go no further. There are women out there with questionable intentions, but I’m not one of them. It won’t offend me if you insist on paying, I just don’t expect it. If we begin dating I have no problem letting you pay, but I wouldn't expect it all the time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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