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Paula, 42
United States, New York, Binghamton

Offline, last seen Thu, 06 Nov 2025 05:59:42

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UPDATE: So… I shouldn't have to say anything here... but I have been stood up FOUR times within a 2 week period from folks on this site. (4 separate men.) PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't contact me unless you are serious about meeting someone. I am not a serial dater, and I lead a busy life… I promise not to waste your time... so please don't waste mine! Exhale... I truly hope to find that one special person to share my life with… I’m worth it! OK... back to your regular scheduled programming... ;-) I'm attractive, well educated, and have a zest for life that often leads me down the roads less traveled. I am sometimes described as one of the quiet ones... but often surprise people with a penchant for unexpected wild streaks. I am an explorer of sorts, have a wide interest in many music styles (thank goodness for Sirius radio!), and have been touted as a pretty fabulous communicator in most realms. Honesty, generosity, compassion, forgiveness, loyalty, and trust are all traits that I hold in high regard and expect from others both in friendship and in dating. I will stand behind my partner 100% as long as that goes both ways... I got your back. =)The search for the perfect partner (for me) has proven to be a lot like hunting for a mirage on a cloudy day! ;-) I am not seeking perfection by any means... but I am seeking that unparalleled balance of humor, strength, attractiveness and companionship that seamlessly compliment all the positive attributes I have to offer. I've been in the PHX area for over 2 years now, and I would love to meet someone who doesn't take life too seriously. Meeting people online is not always easy (bait and switch photos, the person is 10 years older than they stated, yadda yadda)... so simply put... my hopes are for lots of laughs and some companionship... that's a great place to start! =) My karma tank is full, so with a little luck in Cupid's aim... my numbers will come up!A few tidbits...• I have a cat that plays fetch.• Thai curry chicken is one of my favorite things. • I can field strip my own gun.• I enjoy reality TV... it's like watching a train wreck! =P• Rice cakes have come a long way.• Favorite Quote: The probability of someone watching you is directly proportional to the stupidity of your actions.I’m hoping to find my partner in crime to seek out adventure, capture inside jokes, conquer the world with, and to ultimately get me off of this site for good! ;-) Bring it!! To be honest, meeting people online can be such a tricky deal... so a first "date" is always something like a coffee date. A simple meeting in a public place where neither one of us is committed to a long date... just in case! =P There could be a million ways to have a perfect date, but what sets them apart from the rest, is when I’m left with the overwhelming desire to see that person again. =)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Shopping Indian Korean Action Sci-Fi Thriller Golf
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