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SherOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 64 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-55
I'm very outgoing and friendly but a bit shy at first. I usually connect visually but personality can make or brake someone's outward appearance. I am loyal, honest, loving, sincere and looking for someone who shares those same values.
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KatOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 21-27
I'm friendly, shy meeting new people but I easily get confortable, but I'm allergic to bullshiters! So I'm looking for a mature person who likes to take walks along the beach, swim. And enjoy lots of outdoor activities such as gardening, horse back riding, but most importantly being outside in nature meeting different kinds of animals (because I'm a big animal lover).
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DollfaceOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-34
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LeahOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 18-34
I cant seem to be able to reply to messages
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AntoinetteOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I love to be outside walking and enjoying nature. I try to live in the present, ALWAYS! The past does us no good and we can't control what is in our future. I am looking for someone to enjoy life with. I am not a serial dater. My kids are a huge part of my life and would love to be with someone who has the same priorities.I would like to be with someone who likes to travel and experience new things. I would like to meet for a coffee or drink to see if there might be chemistry.
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PetraOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I work in a local medical spa as Aesthetics and Plastic Surgery are my career focus. I have two amazing kids...one is book smart and the other is the life of the party. There is never a dull moment around here. I work with all women and attend classes with all women. I need to meet men. Ha! I am hoping to meet someone honest, athletic, and driven. Someone who can actually communicate with me...not just hold things in and let it all fall apart. I started running/cycling so I would love to meet someone with those same interests. Even someone to go walking/ hiking/ zip lining with!! Someone who is confident and focused but not always looking to put his needs before mine. I'm not on here looking for a hook up nor do I want to send/receive crazy pics. I'm looking for a friend or relationship built on morals, trust, and values.... and exercise. ;***can never have too many friends, right? I appreciate honesty and loyalty. I despise cheaters and liars. Oh, and people who can't spell. That really wears me down. :). coffee, drinks, sky diving. ;-)
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RosellaOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I'm a very optimistic person. I enjoy life, someone once said I'm a light in the darkness. I'm presently attending SEMO to obtain my bachelors in graphic design. I like rainy days, love scary movies, love cuddling on the couch. I am down to earth country girl, with a free spirit. I'm into photography, graphic design, mudding, and all that stuff above. If you want to know more leave me a message maybe we can go out and get to know each other. P.S. Oh I love the outdoors, camping, floating, bonfires, etc. Depends on the person. dinner, movie, a game of pool, drinks, just to get know each other.
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ChristaOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
My children are grown and living their lives, so it's my turn now. I dropped a line in this pond last year...lets just say that looking forward leaves room for more opportunities than looking back ever did. :)Everyone has their 'intolerable list' or 'dealbreakers' so I'll keep it simple for you:If you're into the drug scene, please just pass me by.If you're all about 'party time' and drinking all the time, please just pass me by.If you're just looking to 'get some', please just pass me by.If you can't manage to stand on your own 2 feet, please just pass me by.If you don't know the difference between there, their & they're, please just pass me by.It's a bit difficult to follow all that with any of the usual self-professing positive attributes, but what can I say - I've lived some of my life, and in my 42 years, I've learned to be honest and forthcoming....anything less is unacceptable - on either end! Honesty seems to be hard to come by here in this pond....be prepared - I have a 'bullsh*t meter and it's pretty accurate :)Things I like....cottaging, anything outdoors when the weather is nice - sometimes even when it's not! I'm a romantic at heart, so movies in - never really been a fan of the theatres....snuggling....c'mon - I'm a girl! We all like that! Lol....dinner for two, I'm a great cook - my favourite meals to make are big, company's coming dinners...I've been 'fine tuning' my kitchen adventures to lead a healthier lifestyle.........fishing is great, bonfires, I can be comfortable in jeans/shorts & a t-shirt, or dressed to the nines....I'm big on family; mine isn't huge, but they're mine and I adore them....as crazy as they are :) My "pass me by" list is as real as it gets. I've had some 'interesting' e-mails regarding 'the list'.....so I'll break it down for you......The drug scene thing - shouldn't require any explanation. I'm not an angel, nor will I ever claim to be.....but I'm a grown up now, and would hope that you are too. The drinking thing - there's nothing like a cold beer after cutting the lawn on a hot day.....or a glass or two of wine with dinner, but if that beer is the first thing you want when the clock strikes noon, do us both a favour and pass me by :) The standing on your own 2 feet thing - it's pretty self-explanatory....like my profile reads: my kids are grown now! I have no intention of being anyones' sugar momma...lol....I have a fantastic sense of humour - sometimes a bit on the sarcastic side, but funny is funny! I do my best NOT to be hurtful - the karma gods are watching :)Perhaps I'll finish this part later.... Do we really need to call a first meet a date? I'm all for keeping it simple - coffee, a drink....something easy and stress-free for both!
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JaimeOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
if you have no pix at all PLEASE for the love of anything you actually LOVE ... don't waste your time mailing me ... there isn't a hope in the coldest ice age I will respond pic -less profiles are like glory holes ... absolutely a NO GOEVERYONE says they are *laid back* funny not many are looking for something casual at first... fun... flirty... no drama... no pressure... things have a way of flowing along honestly so i'd like to meet someone who can just let things be what they will be... enjoy life in the moment... and take it as it comes... the fun things in life always happen naturally. I am in no way opposed to the possibility of meeting someone for more than dating BUT I believe these things should evolve organically... Meaning just because you have checked off the "relationship" box doesn't mean you have one after the first date! It should go like this... We meet (yes meet in REAL life) we have a fun time (no we haven't fallen into bed within 30 minutes I haven't agreed to any activities other than MEETING... So don't ask me for a thr33some) after our fun first date we make another ... (or not if there is no reason) we hang out again. And again. Until wow who would have thought we are getting along... It's been a few weeks/months... We still are having a blast. (yes by now we have fallen into bed I'm not a prude)It's a process people. Just cause you meet online doesn't mean you get to skip the part of dating that makes it FUN to get to know each other. The tension that is feeling pulled by nature into someone's company. The I can't wait to see X again feelings. Not well I checked off the "relationship" box why doesn't she want to meet my mom? Trade dirty pix? Talk about our future? Meeting online shouldn't have to be so surreal? !! i am NOT a vanilla ... so please if you live firmly inside the boundaries of a Noah's Ark archetype... don't message me we will not vibe of that i am 100% sure In the meantime... I'm more than fine with casual good times. BUT I have to like you , be attracted to you, YOU have to be sane, and I don't want to listen to you blather on all day about stuff that isn't sexy. This is not my job. **** funny taking some flack for this... men this is how you have treated us for centuries get yourselves a grip **** I have never been really "traditional" relationship motivated. I'd like to spend time with someone I respect but that doesn't have to be bunched into a Noah's ark two by two type thing. If it evolves ... Well I'd consider it. But it's not MY holy grail. Not looking to be someone's mistress. Cheating on your wife/ partner is your thing not mine. Looking for a man I can be seen in public with not one I have to sneak around with or never get to see. I'm sure there will be plenty of ladies willing. I'm just not one of them. I am fun. Funny. Sarcastic. Sharp as a tack and if I'm interested in you I will keep you on your toes... In a good way. ;)I would love to meet a man secure enough to allow for a "you a me AND an us" not someone who needs to be in the same room every moment. Giving both parties a chance to get out and live a life that keeps them BOTH interesting therefore INTERESTED. healthy. ;)Men on here are good at saying not much or too much about what they are looking for. I'm going to keep it simple. YOU should be sane as in not crazy as the above examples... I prefer fit men. FIT is stressed. I am fit ... I won't date squishy men. It's my preference. I like tattoos. I have tattoos. I don't need a guy to have tattoos but YOU should have some edge to you..... we have nothing in common ... I like a man who isn't afraid to get dirty OR clean up. Balance guys. All this being said its not a check list set in stone I have dated outside my usual preferences in the past quite successfully. But we ALL have preferences. i am not all that great at nor do i want a pen pal relationship... if you really want endless chat or to say *let's do something on such and such day* then not follow through please... let's not waste each others time... we are all way too busy for the wishy washy now-a-days... good luck everyone and remember REAL LIFE IS LIVED OFFLINE! coffee... something light... we can decide from there if we want to continue
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AlissaOxnard
- California
- United States
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Hello, I am a mother of 4. My children are 20, 18, 13 and 12. As you can see, they are at the ages that I am able to find ‘me’ time. Ironically, when the kids were much younger and I so wanted ‘me’ time, it was difficult to find that time. Now that the kids are much older I find myself content in staying home to relax. Go figure, lol!! Moving back down south was the best decision I have made in years. Life has had it’ However, since moving here - things have slowly improved and we are all much happier.I have been on and off meetville for quite some time and have come across some very interesting people. I am saying that with a positive and also shocking tone. :) With that said, I figured I would update this section of my profile based on experience here at meetville.I am not someone that casually dates nor am I looking for a friend with benefits. I have developed a process to how I proceed with men that I communicate with on meetville. After a message or two, if I feel that we both have an interest in seeing if there is chemistry I will suggest going a step further and communicate over the phone, if the man has not suggested it himself. I believe in having a minimum of a couple of conversations before discussing if we should meet face to face. Again, the reason for this is because I do not casually date. I have never been good at it and just don’t like it. I feel if two people give of themselves in the communication process over the phone, you not only feel that initial chemistry you can start the process of building a solid foundation to something that could turn into wonderful commitment. I can tell you, without a doubt, I will know prior to seeing you face to face whether I want to see you more than that initial get together. I believe and have seen it happen, that two people can fall for one another in those phone conversations. I am not saying that they fall in love; however, two people most definitely can decide two concentrate on one another exclusively to see where the relationship goes. Once we decide to move forward exclusively - I do not believe it is fair to stay on any dating site. I believe it is only fair to hide your profile and focus on one another. Once we meet and the sparks seem to fly, then removing any and all dating sites from our lives is a must.I also believe in setting boundaries with others of the opposite sex once in a relationship. I do not believe in me having a girls night out and the man having a man’s night out. I do not believe in us, individually, hanging out with the opposite sex without one another. I believe in doing things together. Now, most of ya’ll men do hunt. Okay, that is your ‘man’ time away from me. I accept that without any issue. Fishing? Sometimes I would enjoy going, however, again, I have no problem in that either. However, I think it is only fair not to take advantage of that. Let’s face it, the time traveling to and from work and working takes a lot of the day away, when you get home I want to spend that time together. Even if it is just relaxing at home. I am not one that has to go out all the time. I am a very passionate person in my beliefs and in loving the person I am with. I have a lot of love to offer. I am looking for my best friend. Someone that I can trust not to use anything I share with him against me at a later time when we are not happy with one another. That is a huge mistake some couples make these days and it is totally wrong to do that. I want to trust you with all that I am, and why I am the way I am today. I want to give myself completely to the man I end up with. And I want the same in return. I need that type of relationship. And if I do not find it, then I would rather remain alone.Okay, I am in my mid-forties, you will be around that age as well. We all have a past and we have all gone through some bad times. I have NO problem in you sharing your past with me, I would LOVE to know about it. And, I have no problem understanding that because of our pasts, it is sometimes hard to trust the person we find for our present and future that we are interested in. I get that. We ALL just have to remember, we are NOT that person from our past. And I know the type of person I am, I am willing to help you move forward, as well as hoping you will help me move forward together. It’s a process, and sometimes it goes slow, and sometimes we feel it is so right that it moves forward quickly. Either way, it will be fine as long as we both remain open and honest with one another and COMMUNICATE. I want to communicate about the smallest of life to the big things in life. We all of weaknesses, the great thing is - hopefully I can be your strength and motivator in those areas and you being that for me in my weaknesses. I want to have individual goals that we both support one another on as well as have goals together that we continue to work towards daily.Another thing, if you are waiting for life to be at a perfect time before you allow someone close to you, you will be waiting for a very long time my friends. That is not how it should go. The person you end up dating should accept where you are at and be there for you, etc. I am not one into wasting time. If we like one another lets go for it and see where it goes.If you work odd hours? Let ME decide if I can handle it, don’t say “It’s not fair, wait til I get a better job with better hours or wait til I get better hours at work.” You are underestimating my ability to accept you for who you are and where you are in life right here right now. Again, life is too short. Let’s enjoy the hours we can, regardless of when they are in a day. As long as I know we are committed to one another, I will go to Infinity and back with you.I will be completely open and state - I am not working at the present time. However, in NO way, shape, or form am I looking for someone to take care of me financially. I am okay. If a woman has to be employed to meet your standards, then I guess you can continue to view other profiles. However, I will say, I think it is unfair to pass judgment and assume I am not worth it as a possible partner because I am not working right now. I can and will explain this to the man that grabs my attention and I feel a connection with. And I will close with this. I do not have a particular type I am attracted to as far as hair, eyes, etc. I just know it when I see it. As for body type? I am not rock hard, but will be going back to the gym here in the next week and plan to tone up (not build up). I am not going to require that you be rock solid either! Nor am I attracted to someone that is obese. I am sorry, I just have to be honest. I am NO Depends on how close we have become. Meet at Starbucks and then move forward to dinner, movie, and or a very romantic evening.
