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Iva, 41
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

Looking for a friendship that will hopefully turn into a companionship. I chose divorce after 20 yrs. of being with my ex. My goal in life is to help my daughters be the best at whatever life throws at them, because we all know life is a challenge and you only get out of it what you put into it. I have 3 daughters who are my life. My youngest 2 still live at home, week on week off.I'm currently looking to date hoping to find someone who is willing to stand by my side until my daughters are on there own and then I would love to have someone join me in living and growing old together. I'm not sure about the rest of the world but the thought of growing old alone does not sound appealing to me.I currently live in the city which I am not enjoying at all. I'm a Country Girl. One of the beauties I miss most is waking up before dawn with a full moon and the ground covered in snow to see deer feeding on the acorns. No words can describe the beauty I have found in watching them.I could go on forever as to who I am and who I'm looking for but I would prefer to meet you to answer your questions. Give me a hollar! Just about anywhere, that I can hear you, to be able to get to know you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Gardening Canadian Korean Portuguese Thai Music Rodeo
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