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Kitty
Online
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Just a normal girl looking for a normal guy. Must also be family oriented and trustworthy. I am VERY family oriented. Love to laugh and have a good time. I am a single mommy with full custody of my daughter - I am a proud Uniparent :). I also wanted my daughter to be able to grow up around all her cousins like I did. I am looking for someone who is drama free, honest and sincere. I am an upfront, honest person - what you see is what you get. I am a total girlie, girl so if you are looking for someone who likes to wear jeans and enjoys taking a ride on the back of your hog, I am NOT the girl for you. I am tattoo free and only have my ears pierced. I love the beach and warm weather. I am definitely not into snow activities :). I have been on Plenty of Fish numerous times in the past, and have had no luck finding someone who didn't turn out to be a total whack job, so if that's what you are, please keep moving on! I do not have the patience anymore for games or insincerity. Being a single mom, is time consuming, but I am more than willing to share that time with the right person for the right reasons. I refuse to "settle" at this point in my life and don't like to waste time if things don't feel right. I believe love is "meant to be" and shouldn't be "made to be". My ideal match should also feel the same and should have a great sense of humor, old fashioned values (I like doors to be open for me etc...), and again have family values. I have a great, huge family, and we do many family things together and I would love to find someone that would enjoy my family as much as I do. I am probably the least possessive girl you'll know, I believe that everyone needs their space, including myself. I prefer "leashless" relationships and as long as I trust you, you will never hear me question you unless it's for the simple fact of having a conversation. I apologize in advance, but I am hesitant in exchanging phone numbers or conversing on the phone until after we've met, if we hit it off. I have had to change my number a couple of times already because I gave it out more freely than I should have, and I just don't feel like going through that again, I hope you understand - (related to the "whack job" comment above as well lol).If you'd like to know anything else just ask! And please don't send me any pictures of your bare chest, your biceps, all of your "ink" and/or your butt, they are NOT selling points for me....p.s. I apologize if I do not get back to you right away, I do the best I can to do so, but I'm usually reading my *** I am chasing a toddler around so I can't always respond right away. Also, if you live far away, I will probably not respond, just for the simple reason that I barely have time to date as it is and having to travel to do so would be extremely difficult. Something quick and simple to see if there is a connection first....:).
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Charlene
Offline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I'm currently back in cosmetology school to complete my *** I have been doing hair for years and decided it was time to share my experience and knowledge with others. I enjoy spending time with my kids and my chihuahu. I love to laugh and have fun! I'm very easy going. I listen to everything when it comes to music. I'm not very picky when it comes to that. I love to go out and dance, or go bowling, or possibly something more adventurous. Message me if you'd like to know more.
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Marlene
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I have decided to update my profile. We should all do that every once in a while shouldn’t we? Reexamine ourselves…So first let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am a single mother of two wonderful teens that live with me 100% of the time ***cats). I recently went back to school and now work with special-needs children, which I really enjoy. However, I am contemplating going back to school in the fall to work towards a diploma. I am happy and in good spirits 99% of the time regardless of what life throws my way. I still consider myself a ‘happy endings’ type of person. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I have been described as quirky and like the fact that, at times, I can be a big goof. I don’t mind laughing at myself and love to make others laugh. I am not afraid to make an ass of myself and consider myself a pretty confident person. I still sing Christmas Carols badly, eat chocolate, snore, and dance around the house (without good dance moves). I love to read, am a movie fanatic, enjoy cooking, and am trying to find the motivation to be a more active person. I am still very curious about life and think I look and act younger than I am.Here’s the main reason I wanted to update my profile. I’ve noticed a lot of people state that they don’t want someone with scars or emotional baggage. But doesn’t that just mean that you haven’t really lived or loved? I have scars, how can I not? At 42 I can say that I have loved and I have been hurt. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to try again, and it certainly doesn’t mean that I am not a trusting person. I still believe in true love. What I have noticed is that, as we get older, we tend to think our perfect match will be perfect from the get go and I’m not sure that’s realistic. We all have faults, no one is perfect. I have blue days, I don't yell often but it happens, my ass is bigger than I'd like it to be. Basically, I'm human. There are going to be things about me that annoy you. The question is, does the good outweigh the bad? Can you look past those idiosyncrasies, even get a chuckle out of them? I’m looking for a partner that will compliment me, not complete me. I am hoping for a mutually supportive, fun relationship full of romance, caring, tenderness, and laughter.I have been divorced for over ten years. While it was crushing at the time it was the best thing to happen to me. I have become a confident and capable woman in that time. It made me the woman I am today and a great mother. I am a catch (excuse the fishing reference)! So, all those scars and baggage help make us the person we are – and propel us to become the person we wish to be.I’m going to end with a quote by Marilyn Munroe, “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” And my best is pretty damn good!I don’t mean for this to sound materialistic but it has been an issue in the past so I will address it. I am a single mother supporting two children on my own. Finances are always an issue and I live on a very modest budget. I cannot afford fancy trips or expensive dates, not that I wouldn’t enjoy them. I just feel guilty that I cannot reciprocate. Many in my age range seem to be at a more comfortable place financially while I see myself as just getting started, or starting over. Hmmm, I'd like to start with a few *** phone calls and then we can chat about a get together, maybe a walk or coffee/tea?... We all know there has to be some kind of physical spark.