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Kitty, 44
United States, California, Orange

Offline, last seen Tue, 09 Jun 2026 08:31:24

About Me

Just a normal girl looking for a normal guy. Must also be family oriented and trustworthy. I am VERY family oriented. Love to laugh and have a good time. I am a single mommy with full custody of my daughter - I am a proud Uniparent :). I also wanted my daughter to be able to grow up around all her cousins like I did. I am looking for someone who is drama free, honest and sincere. I am an upfront, honest person - what you see is what you get. I am a total girlie, girl so if you are looking for someone who likes to wear jeans and enjoys taking a ride on the back of your hog, I am NOT the girl for you. I am tattoo free and only have my ears pierced. I love the beach and warm weather. I am definitely not into snow activities :). I have been on Plenty of Fish numerous times in the past, and have had no luck finding someone who didn't turn out to be a total whack job, so if that's what you are, please keep moving on! I do not have the patience anymore for games or insincerity. Being a single mom, is time consuming, but I am more than willing to share that time with the right person for the right reasons. I refuse to "settle" at this point in my life and don't like to waste time if things don't feel right. I believe love is "meant to be" and shouldn't be "made to be". My ideal match should also feel the same and should have a great sense of humor, old fashioned values (I like doors to be open for me etc...), and again have family values. I have a great, huge family, and we do many family things together and I would love to find someone that would enjoy my family as much as I do. I am probably the least possessive girl you'll know, I believe that everyone needs their space, including myself. I prefer "leashless" relationships and as long as I trust you, you will never hear me question you unless it's for the simple fact of having a conversation. I apologize in advance, but I am hesitant in exchanging phone numbers or conversing on the phone until after we've met, if we hit it off. I have had to change my number a couple of times already because I gave it out more freely than I should have, and I just don't feel like going through that again, I hope you understand - (related to the "whack job" comment above as well lol).If you'd like to know anything else just ask! And please don't send me any pictures of your bare chest, your biceps, all of your "ink" and/or your butt, they are NOT selling points for me....p.s. I apologize if I do not get back to you right away, I do the best I can to do so, but I'm usually reading my *** I am chasing a toddler around so I can't always respond right away. Also, if you live far away, I will probably not respond, just for the simple reason that I barely have time to date as it is and having to travel to do so would be extremely difficult. Something quick and simple to see if there is a connection first....:).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Watching Movies German Indian Middle Eastern Adventure Martial Arts Music Sport
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