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Odessa, 40

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And then my soul saw you, and it kind of went, “Oh there you are. I've been looking for you." ~ AnonymousI am a strong, independent woman who knows what she wants in life but just hasn't found it yet. I am a mother, friend, daughter and sister...US Army Veteran and Novelist. I love to power walk, Read, hike, horseback ride, ski and take spontaneous road trips to no where. I am a hopeless romantic trying to survive in a society of non believers. Searching for my match who I know is out there somewhere. I am a sports fan and love the Red sox, Bruins and Patriots but I love Baseball and Hockey MORE. I am looking for that special someone to have fun with, spend time with and laugh with...my best friend and possibly more, hopefully more. I want to share special moments with someone who can appreciate all I have to offer and appreciate me for who I am.I have found through experience that yes, education strengthens the foundations we are built on and guides us on our way... but LIVING LIFE, LOVING with all your heart and definitely LAUGHING till you cry is what keeps us standing every day, year after year and I know now I don’t want to stand alone. I am looking for someone who is a good communicator by conversation. Text Messaging is good for sporatic Hello's and I am thinking of you's but not full conversations. I don't want a text relationship. All you men want to do is text message endlessly...I am sick of playing penpal with a man who is juggeling many women at a time waiting to see who is the best one and then canceling dates at the last minute because someone else has come along. This is not a game and I am no ones second best. I don't think anyone on this site is serious about what they want and it's very disappointing. I am not looking for a pen pal and I'm not on here to waste your time or mine! If you only judge the book by its cover with no intentions of getting to know a person for who they are inside and out but only with intentions of an intimate encounter...BIG...I DONT THINK SO!!!! Save the money you were going to spend on the first date...LOLI'm serious...I am looking for someone to have fun with, share the little things with, act goofy with and see where life takes us...and I am tired of dating Men who say they know what they want and DONT! No one says you have to know where your going...but have an idea of what you want :) and just be HONEST about it!"**Warning - any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein, in any form or forum both current and future. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.*** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. " A first date should be spent getting to know each other and usually comes with some nervousness...lol I am always up for fun (like a ball game), dinner a walk around the city enabling time for talking and laughter but coffee at a small cafe also works well too, I guess it all depends on the vibes one is sending and receiving when talking with each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Melanie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    “Admit it. You aren’t like them. You’re not even close. You may occasionally dress yourself up as one of them, watch the same mindless television shows as they do, maybe even eat the same fast food sometimes. But it seems that the more you try to fit in, the more you feel like an outsider, watching the “normal people” as they go about their automatic existences. For every time you say club passwords like “Have a nice day” and “Weather’s awful today, eh?”, you yearn inside to say forbidden things like “Tell me something that makes you cry” or “What do you think deja vu is for?”. Face it, you even want to talk to that girl in the elevator. But what if that girl in the elevator (and the balding man who walks past your cubicle at work) are thinking the same thing? Who knows what you might learn from taking a chance on conversation with a stranger? Everyone carries a piece of the puzzle. Nobody comes into your life by mere coincidence. Trust your *** the unexpected. Find the others…”? Timothy LearyNot sure how to put what I am looking for but here is an idea....i am looking for the guy that sits quietly at a party and watches everyone, the guy who most women probably wouldnt notice right away, the guy who can wear beat up clothes and still be the coolest, classiest guy in the room, the guy who keeps you wanting to find out his secrets because you know they are hidden beneath those intense eyes...the guy who doesnt have to be loud and obnoxious to be tough but you always know that even in his silence he would die defending you. It's really hard to explain but that is the kind of guy i like....one who noone else will get or understand but the woman he chooses to give his heart to. I am looking for my diamond in the rough.Most importantly though, a man that will make me laugh. I have learned from trials in life that no matter how hard things may be, if you have someone to laugh with it doesnt seem so bad.I am looking for a relationship so if you are seeking a casual meeting or hookup then move on...I really am very easy going, fun loving, spontaneous to a fault, genuine, passionate...also to a fault i guess. I am extremely clumsy and constantly gettin myself in some sort of trouble :)I love anything from going muddin to a night out on the town, i can be classy and look like a schoolteacher or i can be downright naughty and just let loose...depends on the situation.I am a strong independent woman, however...i am still a woman and would rather not be alone in this big world as it can be a bit intimidating.....I am looking for something and someone real...if you are interested i would love to hear from you. not dinner....too much pressure to force conversation..no movie...too much pressure to snugglehow about a haunted ghost tour or a meeting by the lake?

  • Jodi

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hey there...First off let me start by saying I'm not just looking to get laid. I'm actually looking for friendship that could possibly lead to more eventually... I'm not sold on online dating....but here it goes anyways....I'm the girl who can hang with the guys, but is feminine by nature. I'm not needy and obsessive in any way because I actually have a life that I am happy with in or out of a relationship. I'm always up for an adventure and I believe that the soul purpose to life is explore all that you can and do it in a fun way. I was raised with traditional values, but I also know how to bend the rules for the greater good. People tell me I am young at heart and I tend to agree. I have a career that keeps me extremely busy because I love it so much, but I do make sure to take down time with my friends and family often. Balance is key. I love traveling so being a semi-pro photographer means that nothing makes me happier than wandering around a new place taking photos and discovering things. I have a dog that is a huge part of my life, so if you don't like dogs, it wouldn't work. I'm also a tall, curvy, bigger woman so if you aren't attracted to that, I wouldn't be your 'cup of tea' and that's perfectly alright. We all have different things that we are attracted to. I dig strong and masculine men on the outside, but secretly big teddy bears on the inside. Love facial hair and if you are down for some concerts and live music from time to time we'd get along just fine. I also love to travel when I can and have a special place in my heart for the UK.I keep my profile hidden most of the time because I do work in the public eye and I'm very private about my personal life. I'm basically just looking for a partner in crime to just have some fun and laughs and see where it goes from there. One more thing...I am really sick of the texting game...it's hard to get to know somebody when it's just words. I've made a pledge to use the phone more, so if you are up to an 'old school' way of getting to know somebody after initial contact, so am I :)If any of this interests you, feel free to message me. CheersPS. Major bonus points if you know where my tagline is from... a drink at a pub...something relaxed and go from there.

  • Imogene

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi!i love horses,fishing,gardening,motorcycles and just being outdoors.I moving back to N.Y. soon.I'm a country girl to the fullest,i have 3 teenagers,16 yr old boy,18 yr old daughter,and an 20 yr old son.Don't mind dating someone with children,but would prefer dating someone with older children.I'm very laid back,enjoy cookouts.I like country music,but enjoy other music as well.but do prefer country.very outspoken & honest to a fault,my kids come first and foremost!if your looking for a girly girl that's not me! I'm a t-shirt,jeans and sneakers kinda girl i like to be comfortable,although when the occasion calls for it i clean up quite nice!. I' am looking for friends!looking for someone who is comfortable being themselves and doesn't care about impressing others.i have tattoos and a few piercings!sorry if this offends some people,but I'm not into dating out of my race!an occasional drink now and then is fine,but if u need to have a beer every night,I'm definately not going to be interested.not into fighting,drama or dishonesty!just looking to spend time with someone and see where it goes...th something laidback,coffee and a walk,etc...or whatever the couple decides.

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