Total users: 61,419,618 Online users: 221,028
Melanie, 36

Offline, last seen Tue, 17 Feb 2026 04:00:45

About Me

“Admit it. You aren’t like them. You’re not even close. You may occasionally dress yourself up as one of them, watch the same mindless television shows as they do, maybe even eat the same fast food sometimes. But it seems that the more you try to fit in, the more you feel like an outsider, watching the “normal people” as they go about their automatic existences. For every time you say club passwords like “Have a nice day” and “Weather’s awful today, eh?”, you yearn inside to say forbidden things like “Tell me something that makes you cry” or “What do you think deja vu is for?”. Face it, you even want to talk to that girl in the elevator. But what if that girl in the elevator (and the balding man who walks past your cubicle at work) are thinking the same thing? Who knows what you might learn from taking a chance on conversation with a stranger? Everyone carries a piece of the puzzle. Nobody comes into your life by mere coincidence. Trust your *** the unexpected. Find the others…”? Timothy LearyNot sure how to put what I am looking for but here is an idea....i am looking for the guy that sits quietly at a party and watches everyone, the guy who most women probably wouldnt notice right away, the guy who can wear beat up clothes and still be the coolest, classiest guy in the room, the guy who keeps you wanting to find out his secrets because you know they are hidden beneath those intense eyes...the guy who doesnt have to be loud and obnoxious to be tough but you always know that even in his silence he would die defending you. It's really hard to explain but that is the kind of guy i like....one who noone else will get or understand but the woman he chooses to give his heart to. I am looking for my diamond in the rough.Most importantly though, a man that will make me laugh. I have learned from trials in life that no matter how hard things may be, if you have someone to laugh with it doesnt seem so bad.I am looking for a relationship so if you are seeking a casual meeting or hookup then move on...I really am very easy going, fun loving, spontaneous to a fault, genuine, passionate...also to a fault i guess. I am extremely clumsy and constantly gettin myself in some sort of trouble :)I love anything from going muddin to a night out on the town, i can be classy and look like a schoolteacher or i can be downright naughty and just let loose...depends on the situation.I am a strong independent woman, however...i am still a woman and would rather not be alone in this big world as it can be a bit intimidating.....I am looking for something and someone real...if you are interested i would love to hear from you. not dinner....too much pressure to force conversation..no movie...too much pressure to snugglehow about a haunted ghost tour or a meeting by the lake?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Tj

    Offline

    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-28

    Hi! My name is Tj. I am never married spiritual but not religious mixed woman without kids from Warren, Michigan, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Jackie

    Offline

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am 39 years old, divorced and have two beautiful children. I am hard working, honest and sincere. I believe in treating people the way you would want to be treated. I love my children and would do anything for them. I love the outdoors, I love doing yard work and planting flowers. I enjoy spending time with my children, but I do go out with my friends whenever I get a chance. I like country music, including the old country. They don't make them like that anymore...I like rock, mostly the older stuff.Top 40, which I can only listen to for so long because they play the same songs over and over. I think he's awesome :)I would like to meet someone who is hardworking and honest. Someone who isn't insecure or jealous. I don't want to be another "notch on your bedpost" and I don't want someone who's going to play games. I have been there and done that, I feel I am too old for that at this point in my life. A first date is open for me. Dinner and a movie, a walk on the beach... I'm open to anything!

  • Althea

    Offline

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    .born and raised...alot of people I meet ask me where I'm from..they say they can tell I'm not from here. I don't wear high heels..I prefer to be barefoot whenever possible. I live simply...I think people have too much crap..and still they want more. I love music..blues, rock, reggae. If you like mostly country..we probably wouldn't make a good match. I consider myself intelligent,,,but I stink at math. I'm very affectionate. and would prefer a man who likes to hold hands and play with my hair .Are you a good cook? I have had quite a wild life...someday I will write that book..I have 3 tattoos..and a couple tasteful piercings..I used to have more piercings..but I have mellowed out a bit..but I still question authority. Yes I am a deadhead..if I have to explain you wouldn't understand. I like a man who isn't afraid to dance. I'm a single mom to an amazing 12 year old boy. Kids love me...but.I don't want anymore..but if you have kids..that's cool. This sounds silly, but if you tuck in your shirt..we are not meant to be. Think unconventional, surprise me, freak me out.

Follow Us: