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Melanie, 36

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About Me

“Admit it. You aren’t like them. You’re not even close. You may occasionally dress yourself up as one of them, watch the same mindless television shows as they do, maybe even eat the same fast food sometimes. But it seems that the more you try to fit in, the more you feel like an outsider, watching the “normal people” as they go about their automatic existences. For every time you say club passwords like “Have a nice day” and “Weather’s awful today, eh?”, you yearn inside to say forbidden things like “Tell me something that makes you cry” or “What do you think deja vu is for?”. Face it, you even want to talk to that girl in the elevator. But what if that girl in the elevator (and the balding man who walks past your cubicle at work) are thinking the same thing? Who knows what you might learn from taking a chance on conversation with a stranger? Everyone carries a piece of the puzzle. Nobody comes into your life by mere coincidence. Trust your *** the unexpected. Find the others…”? Timothy LearyNot sure how to put what I am looking for but here is an idea....i am looking for the guy that sits quietly at a party and watches everyone, the guy who most women probably wouldnt notice right away, the guy who can wear beat up clothes and still be the coolest, classiest guy in the room, the guy who keeps you wanting to find out his secrets because you know they are hidden beneath those intense eyes...the guy who doesnt have to be loud and obnoxious to be tough but you always know that even in his silence he would die defending you. It's really hard to explain but that is the kind of guy i like....one who noone else will get or understand but the woman he chooses to give his heart to. I am looking for my diamond in the rough.Most importantly though, a man that will make me laugh. I have learned from trials in life that no matter how hard things may be, if you have someone to laugh with it doesnt seem so bad.I am looking for a relationship so if you are seeking a casual meeting or hookup then move on...I really am very easy going, fun loving, spontaneous to a fault, genuine, passionate...also to a fault i guess. I am extremely clumsy and constantly gettin myself in some sort of trouble :)I love anything from going muddin to a night out on the town, i can be classy and look like a schoolteacher or i can be downright naughty and just let loose...depends on the situation.I am a strong independent woman, however...i am still a woman and would rather not be alone in this big world as it can be a bit intimidating.....I am looking for something and someone real...if you are interested i would love to hear from you. not dinner....too much pressure to force conversation..no movie...too much pressure to snugglehow about a haunted ghost tour or a meeting by the lake?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Corina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Just looking for friends maybe more eventually! For those of you that use this as a platform to get you some, please keep calm and chive on alright!! I have filled this thing out in length before, not really going to bother this time, if you wanna know something, just ask! 99% of the time i wont respond if your msg is "Hi", im one that likes a little conversation!

  • Kim

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi there ! I am very out going , I adore my friends and family very much ..Things I like to do is fish , camp, golf , swimming .... I love movies and snuggling ..cooking out with friends , enjoy a nice sat with watching Football and Sunday also ! I like trying to new things . and now the dirt races have started .. lets just say way happy about that ... If your looking for just sex keep on looking ... i am tired of games , I am an adult and looking for that best friend . you know that one that makes my heart smile ..And Not trying to sound shallow however, I am looking for someone who takes care of themselves and likes going to the gymif you are looking for sex , keep searching the first date um lets see. maybe movie and dinner . or mini golf . I dont know a wkend of camping and fishing sounds good to me .dancing

  • Flossie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I heard you are a player? Nice to meet you, I'm the coach!Wow! Do you guys go to the beach/pool and belittle every woman there for their choice of swimwear? Why not? Most people wear less at the beach than i am wearing in my pic! Do you not look at magazines or watch television/movies because there might be too much skin showing? That's what i thought! If you cannot appreciate true beauty/art go on to the fat **** that is waiting to model for you.... Don't waste your time here. I truly don't give a sh*about what you have to say! Get it? I don't have much to offer but what I do have is my most valuable possession. I have a heart i can give you... It's in less than prefect condition, a little bruised and battered... Probably even scarred but underneath all it's blemishes it can still love like no other. I only ask that you treat it with the utmost respect, love, kindness, and gentle touch that you can. I have my body a soul which are in the same condition as my heart. Covered in scars and blemishes. Each telling a story of their own. Some are good and some not so good. But these are my stories that I hold dear. Nobody can take them from me. Nobody can change them. All you can do is add to them. The one that I allow this opportunity does not have te opportunity to change my history! However, he DOES have the opportunity to grab ahold of our future and run with it! Create new stories, ones that NO fairytale will ever begin to compare to. No author will ever be able to create a romance novel to compare to our story. Passion at the highest level possible. Love that is unbreakable! He is out there somewhere and one day we will unite :)I'm as real as they get! I am the outgoing, independent, loves to get dirty (real dirt lol) kind of woman. I retired from the military at age 32. Jack of all trades (master of none lol). I work on my own vehicles, sometimes turning wrenches better than most men. Love the outdoors, fishing is at the top of my list, camping, boating, riding my jet ski, swimming..... The hotter it is outside the better! I am always up for a good time. If you want to know anything..... Just ask!UPDATE: Don't send me perverted, unsolicited, messages, pictures or anything of that nature! I am interested in the person NOT your penis!Don't tell me how much money you make because I DON'T CARE!!! Money doesn't matter to me.... It is that simple. I take care of mine, you take care of yours and leave it at that. I will NOT ever depend on a man especially for money. Also, I will NOT support a man financially. I'm not rich and won't pretend to be. If you are looking for a woman to take care of you that is me BUT if you are looking for someone to fill in where your mommy left off KEEP MOVING!Call me shallow if you want but i am one of the few that will admit LOOKS MATTER! Have you ever known a relationship to work if there was no sexual attraction there? Just because i am not attracted to you doesn't mean you are ugly. It simply means you are not MY type. What i find sexy I'm sure is completely different for the next person. If i don't message you back don't take it to heart. I'm simply not going to answer every message especially if I'm not interested and do NOT keep sending me messages repeatedly!!! If i do answer your message that means something about you had peeked my interest. However, that is not a guarantee for a love connection.I usually will NOT initiate a conversation by messaging first because believe it or not I am shy! :/ so if i catch your eye please feel free to message me.If i do send you a message first it does NOT mean I'm into you. It just means whatever i messaged you about was good enough to deserve a comment.I am more attracted to younger men and men my own age but not completely opposed to older men. I guess it all depends on the person.Ohhhhhh and FYI I'm a fool for bright blue, grey, and green eyes. LolOne pic is NOT enough for me to decide if i think you are my type or not! So if you are interested in me i would suggest you post a few pics!If you have NO PIc you can forget it all together!!Send me a message telling me the "things you will and/or can do to me is very disgusting and disrespectful! Treat me the way you would expect a man to treat your mother or daughter. It is that simple! anything outdoors...... 4-..... Mudding.... Fishing.....Just have to wait and see.

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