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Ila, 36
United States, Texas, Beaumont

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About Me

I was born and raised in a very small farm town in upstate NJ. Growing up I was that scabby kneed tom girl who's favorite things were to climb trees, ride bikes, play in the mud, play freeze tag, and catch fireflies! Disclaimer: Another words ~ since I could walk I've been an outside kinda girl. So, if your idea of a fun weekend is to sit on the couch all day and watch sports (or TV in general) don't bother messaging me...it's a waste of our time. I left that small town and joined the Marine Corps soon after high school. Very early in life I married a fellow Marine to whom I was with for 14 years and married to for 12 years. I have two extremely beautiful, talented, and well behaved girls who are now 15 and 11. Much of my free time is spent involving myself in their school activities, sports, and most importantly raising young ladies. In my spare time I like to work in the yard/garden, run, swim, cook, travel, read, camp, fish, shop, watch movies or relax with my two girls. I enjoy staying busy and making the most out of my life each and EVERY day. The truth is, I can have a good time doing just about anything! I am passionate about spending quality time with my family and friends. What I am looking for... A man who is up for anything; a spontaneous weekend trip or just relax in the pool and day drink on the patio. Someone who will look forward to coming home to me everyday...one day and in due time.A man who wants to be my best friend; share his dreams, failures, and successes with me. A man who works hard to play harder. A man who understands that disagreements / struggles are suppose to BUILD a relationship...not break it. A man who isn't trying to be a father to my children but an outstanding role model with great morals and values. I don't expect perfection, I do understand from my own life that adults / parents DO make mistakes. Ultimately, a man of integrity who wants a long term relationship and who can and wants to withstand the test of time together. What I'm NOT NOT NOT looking for... A hook up, booty call, one night stand (whatever they call it these days).A pen pal on meetville OR a texting buddyA couch potato.An addict (pills, alcohol, drugs). An ideal first date for me would be somewhere relaxing to just talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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