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Esther, 52
United States, Illinois, Naperville

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About Me

I'm updating this profile. Sometimes the bait gets a little stale and you need to chunk it and put some fresh on. Looking up there at tips for being successful on POF: Talk about your hobbies. Talk about your goals...Talk about yourself. Hmmm Let's go at this another way.I love to play tennis and a lot of other things outdoors; fishing, but don't get to go that often. Fishing would be a great date for me. I have a love of learning.I am often doing physical work, mowing, weeding, painting, whatever is called for to get the job done. I like to do a lot of things. In any given week, I can be found in the gym, in the grocery store, at Best Buy, at Lowe's, in my pool, on a bicycle, inside a vacant house, shooting baskets on my driveway, at the stove with a frying pan in my hand...you get the idea. ;) If you don't like a partner that stays busy, don't stop here. Me: I'm definitely a chameleon and don't mind getting dirty but I dress up pretty well too. I sleep in a t-shirt most of the time. I know I'm not perfect and I don't care to be. You don't have to be either. I do like straightforward people who use tact and know how to give and receive. I own a business and I live a busy, active life. I like my independence and I will respect yours. I am loving and caring and enjoy spending time with people who love sports, being outdoors, travelling and discussing things that matter.I've been trying to pay attention to what attracts me. Here are a few things important to me: Be physically active. Active could mean any sport, woodworking, hiking, camping, fishing, carpentry, etc. It's not so much what you do but how you do it that interests me. Be mentally fit and searching for more. I like people that never think they know it all. Be a fixer. Help with mechanical things much appreciated here. Be a gentleman that knows how to respect others. I like a partner that isn't afraid to do what it takes in this life. I think all people should be well rounded and know how to cook and clean and earn the bread. My idea of a good partnership is one in which each person knows how to care for him/herself but in the partnership, gravitate to the things they do best and cooperate to lighten the load. It seems simple to me but I haven't met many men with this mindset. If you have it, like adventure, can go with the flow and run with the bulls, message me.P.S. I'm from a long line of Texans, just in case that is important to you. ;) I love music. Have a variety on my Iphone. Love country with bluegrass influence the most. (That will probably knock out a few of you!) Whatever suits us both...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    This site is filled with nothing but disappointment and men that need to learn how to be honest, caring and truthful. I never liked fishing anyway... Peace out...Disclaimer #1: Please... NO hookup seekers...No sexters...No one night stands (in case you don't know what a hook up is). Make sense? If not, then you should probably stop reading here and best of luck to you! :o}Disclaimer #2: If you are just separated, still living with your ex or in a complicated relationship please don't involve me. I do not want to be re-bound girl or the girl you date until you figure out what you really want. I want to be THE girl. I only have one heart and it can only be dented so many times before the warranty completely runs out. So please be kind...Disclaimer #3: If you consider your best buddy's couch your "home", are toothless, job less, vehicle-less (is that even a word) and/or dependent on the state for assistance, we're probably not going to be a good match. I have my own house, all my teeth (except for my wisdom teeth-just being honest here), a great running car, been at the same job for 7+ years and am financially responsible for myself. Can you believe it?? Yes, I added a 3rd disclaimer AND changed the order...if you caught this you really are paying attention and that's mega brownie points with me! Right now you're either thinking "what a ****" or "hell yeah! A woman with a brain AND not too bad on the eyes"... it's up to you but I'd go with the latter rather than the former...just saying.... That all being said...holy crap ya mean there's more??? YES! There is more! Now may I continue? Thank you! If you are looking for a long-term partner to share your life with, laugh with and to experience new things with, please pull up a chair , crack a cold one and enjoy my novel...you've already gotten a taste of my short stories, let's see if you can handle the novel as well! I may not be the prettiest girl, I may not be the thinnest girl (no that does not mean I'm fat) & I may not be the richest girl but, I do have a heart the size of TX, a pretty good sense of humor and know how to make my man feel loved, wanted and needed. If you're looking for someone into extreme sports, aerobic barbie I am not.... I've gotten back to walking several times a week and that's my speed for now. I'm not opposed to checking out new avenues of exercise with the right person's encouragement especially if that's something they enjoy. But no marathons please. By the way all my pics are current so if we were to meet you don't have to worry about meeting my mother...I'm not into "serial dating" and am not looking for someone to "just date". I am looking for just one guy for the long term, good times and bad. I am loyal to a fault and probably way too trusting. I am a very passionate person in everything I do, whether it's making sure my son graduates college (which he just did in May...woo hoo!), going to flea markets to find that undiscovered treasure, or spending time with a special guy that loves to cuddle, hug and kiss. The most important thing is that you must be open, honest and trustworthy. If there are no lies, there is no deceipt and thats a key ingredient I am looking for in a guy. At this age most of us have our share of "baggage" but I'm all about keeping the past in the past and looking forward into the future and hopefully we have learned from our mistakes.I respect a guy who is actively involved in their kids lives, young or older. Mine is out of the house so my time is pretty much my own and would prefer a guy who has the same or has at least enough time to incorporate me into his busy world. I do have two dogs that are my babies but have a great dog sitter so I can getaway on the weekends.Although I've lived in TX for many moons now, I still claim my yankee heritage. I've lost the accent but not my love of the east coast, ocean air and gorgeous "real" fall colors. Love all types of music, classic rock, blues/jazz, country, except rap, that's not really music. I love to ride motorcycles, as a passenger, not a driver and I know when to hold on tight. I also know when to give my guy space to breath as I hope he would me. But, for the most part, I am looking for someone to spend most of my time with. So if you're looking for something every other weekend, I'm probably not yer gal. I love to hold hands, cuddle and kiss so you must love PDA! I firmly believe that long lasting relationships are based on honesty, trust, respect and communication, oh and attraction is important too. 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  • Jacqueline from Naperville | Woman | 52 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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