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Esther, 52
United States, Illinois, Naperville

Offline, last seen Thu, 08 May 2025 23:46:38

About Me

I'm updating this profile. Sometimes the bait gets a little stale and you need to chunk it and put some fresh on. Looking up there at tips for being successful on POF: Talk about your hobbies. Talk about your goals...Talk about yourself. Hmmm Let's go at this another way.I love to play tennis and a lot of other things outdoors; fishing, but don't get to go that often. Fishing would be a great date for me. I have a love of learning.I am often doing physical work, mowing, weeding, painting, whatever is called for to get the job done. I like to do a lot of things. In any given week, I can be found in the gym, in the grocery store, at Best Buy, at Lowe's, in my pool, on a bicycle, inside a vacant house, shooting baskets on my driveway, at the stove with a frying pan in my hand...you get the idea. ;) If you don't like a partner that stays busy, don't stop here. Me: I'm definitely a chameleon and don't mind getting dirty but I dress up pretty well too. I sleep in a t-shirt most of the time. I know I'm not perfect and I don't care to be. You don't have to be either. I do like straightforward people who use tact and know how to give and receive. I own a business and I live a busy, active life. I like my independence and I will respect yours. I am loving and caring and enjoy spending time with people who love sports, being outdoors, travelling and discussing things that matter.I've been trying to pay attention to what attracts me. Here are a few things important to me: Be physically active. Active could mean any sport, woodworking, hiking, camping, fishing, carpentry, etc. It's not so much what you do but how you do it that interests me. Be mentally fit and searching for more. I like people that never think they know it all. Be a fixer. Help with mechanical things much appreciated here. Be a gentleman that knows how to respect others. I like a partner that isn't afraid to do what it takes in this life. I think all people should be well rounded and know how to cook and clean and earn the bread. My idea of a good partnership is one in which each person knows how to care for him/herself but in the partnership, gravitate to the things they do best and cooperate to lighten the load. It seems simple to me but I haven't met many men with this mindset. If you have it, like adventure, can go with the flow and run with the bulls, message me.P.S. I'm from a long line of Texans, just in case that is important to you. ;) I love music. Have a variety on my Iphone. Love country with bluegrass influence the most. (That will probably knock out a few of you!) Whatever suits us both...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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