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Hmmm. Tomboy looking for a buddy. If you want someone who has a weekly nail appointment and wears pearls or high heels. I am not your girl. ( I have dresses, but I REALLY need to be in a mood to wear ***So just don't expect chiffon or silk. More of a flannel and wool kinda' girl. Love it here. Bought my house for the view. I have been renovating ever since. In a couple years it will look just awesome. ( My vision ) This is my first house all by myself. So it is a special project. ( I call it the money pit ) Ha. So I don't have any friends out here. That keeps me out of trouble and off the streets. ( Okay, I admit, I have never been in trouble.... but I THINK about it and THATS the important thing . Chuckle ) I would never go into a bar by myself, ( but I thought about it ) but I drive by and people look like they are having fun in there. I guess thats how people meet, but it's just not me. ( Geez. What a geek ) Whatever. Okay, so anyways I am a nice person , a good human and I save lives. Thats gotta' count for something.... So if you wanna see a movie sometime or go into one of those dance places.... Call me. Yeah. I don't want one of those face to face interview things while politely nibbling appetizers. Let's DO something. Hike, tennis, raquetball, Game on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Iva

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Ok, I've been off this site for most of the summer, thinking I would give myself a break thought I'd start fresh now.......Well here goes.....I'm not good at this so bare with me. Why is it that while I'm sitting here writing not much comes to mind? LOL I know I'll think of things once I'm done submitting this.As you'll see in my interest I like a varity of things, will try most anything once (then I'll know if I like it).Hobbies, I used to have a lot, now I work long hours. Don't have anyone to do things with. I love people, like to be goofy but have my soft/quiet side.I have 4 sons, 35,31,28,17 and 3 Beautiful grand daughters 15,6,4 that I do not get to see often, they are in Il where I'm from. Lost both parents within the past ***so my boys are all I have. I'm an only child.I look in the mirror and see a person with a halo/tiara and 1 horn......LOLI'll be 52 in Oct. been "D" for over 12 yrs and I'm looking for my Last 1st kiss. I know what I want, won't settle. I know what I have to give to that "1" Special man. I want a man, don't need one, there is a difference. If this sounds harsh it really isn't just that I don't want to play games. I'm older and like myself the way I am, as do others.I have lots of good friends that I know I can count on if I need them, I think that if I wasn't a good person that is something I couldn't say.I'm upfront and honest, expect nothing but the same. I want communication, faithfulness, sense of humor, friend, partner, lover, romance, respect, shall I go on?? I expect respect as I will also give it.I like cowboy boots as I enjoy wearing them myself. I like the country boy but also city man. I dress up well but can use a chainsaw and get my hands dirty helping with the cars/bikes.If you have questions just ask me, I have nothing to hide. No fake here, I'm all real. I like it that way. Want the same!All I ask is NO GAME PLAYING PLEASE! Brunzwick or Dave and Busters, something that we can be ourself and have fun. Be different than other 1st dates.

  • Alexandria

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    So Im changing my profile. How do you talk about yourself and sound sincere without someone thinking ????? I can honestly say I love to laugh, live, have fun, indoors or out. I want someone to be romantic, silly, make me laugh and dont sweet the little things. At this time in my life I want someone there for me. Laugh with me, have fun with me, always be thinking of me. My bucket list is to enjoy life, dont take things for granted and be the best person, friend or lover I can be. I hope the guy out there to meet me, will appreciate life and love to laugh. Dont be afraid to do silly things or say silly things. Our age is just a number, our hearts and souls are what make us who we are. Oh and this is being added on ***if I sent you a hi and u have nothing nice to say back, please dont respond. Talk a little first, then maybe meet for a drink where we can talk an see how it goes.

  • Terry

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    ). Independence is healthy, but that doesn't mean I don't have the capacity to be vulnerable enough to let you in and take care of me in the ways that are important. I have values that I live by, and that means that I'm not looking for casual FWB, but someone willing to invest time in a relationship that can start off as friends, and with the right combination of chemistry and compatibility, has the potential to turn in to a forever relationship. Ultimately, I'm looking for my best friend.;We need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet... I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things... all of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness'.". Isn't that what it's all about, and what most of us really want? A witness to our lives...that's powerful, don't you think? I have the glass as half-full mentality, always looking for the positive in pretty much any situation. I enjoy staying active, and love to spend time outdoors, when possible. My favorite form of exercise is walking, but am working to improve my swimming, so am spending a bit more time at the pool these days. One of my short-term goals is become a certified scuba diver, because as great as snorkeling is, I really want to go further into the great big world of water. I'm also shopping for a bike to add to my outdoor activities. Only problem is, I haven't ridden in years and could use a teacher - could that be you?As for music, I enjoy jazz, contemporary Christian, country (new over old), and soft rock. I LOVE my Sirius XM subscription!I attend a non-denominational, church, and try to get there on a regular basis. My faith is very important to me, but it doesn't mean I'm a religious fanatic...and there is a difference if you know what I mean! I think the truest example is the quietest one...others just "know" because of the way I live my life.Two of the biggest traits I look for is tolerance and forgiveness. Add communication to that and you have some important keys to healthy relationship.I prefer to dress casually, and spend as much time as possible in jeans. In fact, I work in a company with a comfortable environment, so jeans are pretty much my normal. I'm also all about being healthy, and if you're also that way, then we'll probably get along very well. However, it's my personal choice, so don't be afraid I'll push it on you...there are plenty of ways to make compromises when selecting menus at home, or eating out! The main thing here is that it's an important part of who I am.Part of dating is that awkward time of getting to know each other. I plan to "just be me" from the start, so there are no surprises later...how does that sound? Hopefully it will take some of the pressure off, right? First Meeting: I like the idea of meeting for coffee or a drink, and take it from there. The main thing is that I can hear what you're saying and we can talk without shouting over the patrons or the band.First Date: let's plan that together!

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