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Sophia, 51
United States, Illinois, Naperville

Offline, last seen Mon, 20 Oct 2025 02:35:11

About Me

This site is filled with nothing but disappointment and men that need to learn how to be honest, caring and truthful. I never liked fishing anyway... Peace out...Disclaimer #1: Please... NO hookup seekers...No sexters...No one night stands (in case you don't know what a hook up is). Make sense? If not, then you should probably stop reading here and best of luck to you! :o}Disclaimer #2: If you are just separated, still living with your ex or in a complicated relationship please don't involve me. I do not want to be re-bound girl or the girl you date until you figure out what you really want. I want to be THE girl. I only have one heart and it can only be dented so many times before the warranty completely runs out. So please be kind...Disclaimer #3: If you consider your best buddy's couch your "home", are toothless, job less, vehicle-less (is that even a word) and/or dependent on the state for assistance, we're probably not going to be a good match. I have my own house, all my teeth (except for my wisdom teeth-just being honest here), a great running car, been at the same job for 7+ years and am financially responsible for myself. Can you believe it?? Yes, I added a 3rd disclaimer AND changed the order...if you caught this you really are paying attention and that's mega brownie points with me! Right now you're either thinking "what a ****" or "hell yeah! A woman with a brain AND not too bad on the eyes"... it's up to you but I'd go with the latter rather than the former...just saying.... That all being said...holy crap ya mean there's more??? YES! There is more! Now may I continue? Thank you! If you are looking for a long-term partner to share your life with, laugh with and to experience new things with, please pull up a chair , crack a cold one and enjoy my novel...you've already gotten a taste of my short stories, let's see if you can handle the novel as well! I may not be the prettiest girl, I may not be the thinnest girl (no that does not mean I'm fat) & I may not be the richest girl but, I do have a heart the size of TX, a pretty good sense of humor and know how to make my man feel loved, wanted and needed. If you're looking for someone into extreme sports, aerobic barbie I am not.... I've gotten back to walking several times a week and that's my speed for now. I'm not opposed to checking out new avenues of exercise with the right person's encouragement especially if that's something they enjoy. But no marathons please. By the way all my pics are current so if we were to meet you don't have to worry about meeting my mother...I'm not into "serial dating" and am not looking for someone to "just date". I am looking for just one guy for the long term, good times and bad. I am loyal to a fault and probably way too trusting. I am a very passionate person in everything I do, whether it's making sure my son graduates college (which he just did in May...woo hoo!), going to flea markets to find that undiscovered treasure, or spending time with a special guy that loves to cuddle, hug and kiss. The most important thing is that you must be open, honest and trustworthy. If there are no lies, there is no deceipt and thats a key ingredient I am looking for in a guy. At this age most of us have our share of "baggage" but I'm all about keeping the past in the past and looking forward into the future and hopefully we have learned from our mistakes.I respect a guy who is actively involved in their kids lives, young or older. Mine is out of the house so my time is pretty much my own and would prefer a guy who has the same or has at least enough time to incorporate me into his busy world. I do have two dogs that are my babies but have a great dog sitter so I can getaway on the weekends.Although I've lived in TX for many moons now, I still claim my yankee heritage. I've lost the accent but not my love of the east coast, ocean air and gorgeous "real" fall colors. Love all types of music, classic rock, blues/jazz, country, except rap, that's not really music. I love to ride motorcycles, as a passenger, not a driver and I know when to hold on tight. I also know when to give my guy space to breath as I hope he would me. But, for the most part, I am looking for someone to spend most of my time with. So if you're looking for something every other weekend, I'm probably not yer gal. I love to hold hands, cuddle and kiss so you must love PDA! I firmly believe that long lasting relationships are based on honesty, trust, respect and communication, oh and attraction is important too. I'm not perfect and I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect but I do think there has to be a physical attraction to get things moving forward. I can dress up or dress down, whatever the occasion but I always like looking good doing it! Well, I think that's all I have for now, yup, I've never been accused of being short on words, but, what I say I mean and I mean what say. I would love to hear from hard working, hard playing guys that act younger than their age (in a good way) and... if you are tall, have brown eyes and/or own a motorcycle with a comfy passenger seat...that's extra bonus points in my book! lol! So if anything I said sparks an interest I'd love to hear from you!! An for those who have fallen asleep....WAKE UP!!! Drinks and/or dinner, flea market, motorcycle ride, trip to the lake - just depends on the person and where they are and the time of year.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Metal Traveling English Irish Italian Adventure Animation Comedy History Singing
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