SIMILAR PEOPLE
on 377 reviews
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OttoOnline
Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54
Well,Im an easy going person who has Done alot with his life thus far. I enjoy life, music my kids, ,And going out having a couple losen up and laugh. Not taking life to serious anymore, Been there done that. Love going to concerts like camping, like going to city,love to travel. Also a musician from the 80s/ early 90s . basically making a good living and having fun. Too much BS in the world these days First Date, Well Im easy I would definetly ask you what your interested in , If I have to make decision it would probably be a cool resteraunt /bar, loosing up is key to getting to know each other
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AbellOnline
Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55
My intent is a little different from the options i was given to choose from above so i would like to elaborate. Yes, i am looking looking to date, and i'm not trying to rush anything but if the right woman comes along than i am in fact looking for something more serious. In my spare time I enjoy going out to see bands at different bars and the interesting atmosphere they have. Rock music is my favorite. I'm very laid back and pretty much get along with everybody unless given reason not too. I get along best with people who have a very unique sense of humor, someone i can laugh with who won't take offense to everything. A strong woman who knows what she wants and can hold her own if need be. Lets be honest, We're all here to find someone that completes us, someone that we connect with and want to spend time with getting to know, but we shouldn't try too hard at it. Putting in effort is of definately important, but you cant push too much or you will ruin whats in the process of being created. One of the problems we face in relationships seems to be that the effort put into getting that person is not being applied and continued to keep them.I don't like headgames and don't have the time for drama. I see it as unnecessary stress added on to the already hectic lives we may lead. I'm a complete night owl, so having someone to cuddle up and watch movies at the end of the day with or go out and have a good time with would be the kind of girl im looking for. The most important quality in a woman is her ability to just be herself, be real. No one is perfect and everyone has a past. The only real way to know who i am and what i'm about though it by taking the time to get to know me. "The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it." Im a pretty simple person and im just about up for anything but I would like to start out by meeting up somewhere interesting and having drinks, laughing, and taking the time to get to know and understand eachother. If you know somewhere cool to hang out i'm up for discovering new places also. If we happen to click, than we can take it from there and see where it goes. If not, at least i made a new friend. No expectations or obligations.
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MeredithOnline
Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54
I am new to the area, so like a small town boy moves to the big city...a little out of my element. I moved to NJ, for career a little less than a year ago. I guess I am more old fashion than metro...so I apologize if you are looking for the hip guy...I am more like the hipster-dufus. But I have been told I wear a suit very well, and have more than one pair of jeans (work and dress). I do not take my self too seriously, and have no problem laughing at myself when I am being a dork.I have been a farmer, cowboy, and my professional career is in college athletics, though my passion is developing and training athletes and non-athletes. Yes, I do own a cowboy hat, used to own two but lost one on the side of a mountain in CO, my father owns a ranch there. I grew up with simple values of putting in a hard days work, friends and family first, smile and say hello to everyone, and treat a woman with respect and affection...well, the last one I know on my own.Have been divorced for over 3 years, lived a very quiet, simple non-social life as I have had to be like Andy Dufresne and crawl through a river of sh*t to come out clean on the other side. Father of identical twin teenage boys...Lord help me, and a 10 year old princess. My kids do not live with me, and I am a very proud and involved father, so you need to know my priorities. And yes, I co-parent so their mother will always be in my life but there is no drama.Some simple thoughts:**Yes, I take very good care of myself physically...No, I will not wear a banana hammock at the beach or take my shirt of in front of people.**Yes, I have no problem being brave and killing (or removing) the spider in the shower...No, I will not take on the three WWE wrestlers that looked at you at the bar, though I will explain to you that it is a compliment, and I am the lucky guy taking you home.**Yes, I am confident enough in my own self to go shopping with you...No, I will not stand in the underwear section while you hold them up, bring them home and show me in private.**Yes, I will always think you are beautiful...No, I will not spend a half hour convincing you what you are wearing looks good. Trust me, by the way I look at you, what I whisper in your ear, and how I treat you when we get home...you will know you look amazing, and I appreciated it.**Finally, cause from what I understand on this site, this is important: I am physically, mentally, financially, and emotionally stable. And my pictures are me and not from ***, I had much longer hair then...no I did not have a mullet.I still believe in bringing flowers to a woman, opening the door for others, and my grandmother taught me how to hug someone like you mean it. The honest truth is no matter what I write here doesn't show me as a man, friend, father, or lover...the same goes for anyone reading this...just take the time to say "hello, and we can go from there...hey, what do you have to lose. Keep it simple...find a quiet place to sit or walk. Just talk and make eye contact. See if there is truth in a connection or maybe just a great friendship. I always like the thought of a "non-date" date...like get rid of the pressure and just be yourself.