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DenverOffline
Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54
But, its not so we go through the process and hope for the best and not just good enough.About me-I am a single and sole parent, with my youngest being 12yrs old. I enjoy coaching youth baseball and have done it for many years. I work as a consultant in the environmental, petro- Most of my work is done from my home office but I enjoy getting out into the field when I can. What I am looking for-HONESTY!!!!! Please, be honest with yourself and with me. I want a friend, someone that actually knows what a "FRIEND" is and how friends treat each other. Someone I find attractive, I understand when we are all in our 70s what we looked like 30 years ago wont matter. BUT... we arent in our 70s (if you are, I am not interested in dating), I want to enjoy the person sitting accross the table, inside and outside. Someone who talks! I normally find woman attractive that are on the petite, average or athletic side. Some woman have that gentle look in her eyes that says "she cares". To me that is captivating to say the least. What I am NOT looking for-A woman to clean my house, do laundry, make dinner, drive the car pool or take my youngest to his doctors appointment. I handle that pretty well myself.What I can offer-HonestyTrustfriendshipand the rest depends on the dynamics of a relationship (or at least thats what I think)Note: if you expect a guy who is smooth and experienced at this dating thing, that's not me. I will be awkward with every turn but I will also be real. DINNER! something I didnt have to cook and I wont have to clean up afterwards :). Adult conversation......Not an over the top dinner but just a nice place with a woman that no matter what dinner taste like, I will walk away feeling it was great!After dinner, maybe a drink, movie, walk, whatever. Then part and take the oppertunity to digest what we learned and decide if a second date was warrented. So, any interest?
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EmmettOffline
Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54
But you decided to read anyway. I warned you, so you have no one but yourself to blame."From quiet homes and first beginning, out to the undiscovered ends, there's nothing worth the wear of winning, but laughter and the love of friends." Hilaire BellochA door has opened and I'm learning there's more on the other side than I allowed myself to imagine when a partner and I were trying to cope with a marriage that should have been a friendship.I want to explore the world again with you. I would like a relationship that includes intimacy, and sexual and physical love. I miss the scent and touch of a woman, her desire and need. I adore a woman's pleasure more than my own. If you're not into intimacy and sexuality, and turning your man on because you like to, I can't live without that magic interplay.I would like to find someone I cherish and adore. And she would want to be adored.Its not realistic to feel that straight away, though how awesome if it was. And a date just for fun (and good practice!) would be great.Maybe you and I can give each other something we need. I adore women and have a lot to give. If you're alone and would like a man for company, and this crazy profile somehow appeals to you, please send a note. I also enjoy using everything I've learned about repairing and building things to help out around a home. Recovered intellectual, recovered vegetarian....Read all of Anais Nin's autobiography by twenty while doing silly things with fast cars and bikes. "Fast cars and whisky, long-legged girls and fun" Johnny CashYou can't understand Shakespeare when too young.I don't mind if you don't shave.Always carry a towel.Animals like me.)Descartes doesn't seem as clever as everyone makes him out to be if you read past the first bit.I was always the one friends counted on to get them home. (Very slowly) Miss farming and will find my way back soon, on a small scale.I can do so many things, but sometimes don't know what to do first.I like women who can be lovingly assertive when they need to be. When women are strong willed and tell me what to do, it feels good and I don't know why, even though I am strong willed myself. I've read about FLR and FLA relationships and I don't completely understand why, but there is something that fascinates me. Maybe it's just an interest in things being more balanced. I'm strong willed and would like someone equally so. If it didn't enrichen a relationship I'd drop anything like a shot. But with the right partner it could be an awesome and joyful journey. I got to see him read!I read less now than I did when young and was looking for answers. Jung said something about reaching middle age as a turning point.Fly airplanes for work among other things, and work with super high tech zillion dollar gizmos, have a professional certification, but don't have to look like I do. Dropped out of college five times. May have been six. I don't remember.I have a wry sense of humor that quietly comes out in everything if you're listening, but not in this profile....I have entertained the possiblility that the humor is actually not at all wry, it may be that it just isn't very funny. All the caring and love you can give can't change someone into wanting an intimate and sexual relationship, if for private reaons they don't and can't. As a young man I believed I could heal harm done with the care and committment of marriage. But you can't. And if something is not in someone's essential nature, you shouldn't. So a marriage is finishing the transition into something like the brother and sister we were in the first place.Twenty years ago I made a promise I'm going to keep. Because of the rural life a partner chose to lead with me *** developing her career, I'm determined to see her housed, through her schooling, and safely reestablished in a new career while divorced.We both want to see each other happy. She wants me to have a real partner and find a soul mate, and I want her to finish school. You have to know she is my friend.I think about Joy and sex and love and roles. Sexuality and eroticism, Orgasm, Denial, Chastity, Desire, Need, Hunger, Gender, Masculinity and Strength, Feminism, What the sexes gained, What they lost, Men's sad portrayal in media, Knights and Queens, and Philosopher Kings.I think about how it happened that women shouldn't have shape and curves, and how much harm that's caused. A woman's scent is intoxicating but its made embarrasing to sweat.I think about the miracle of a woman's pleasure, and the desire and need created by being chaste only to her.Ethics and Morality, and how all things turn out in ways we couldn't have imagined.Family and Fathers. I regretted not having the experience of passing on so much of what I learned. Has that door opened too.Will my love of women who are sometimes strong and assertive, make women think that I'm not strong and assertive in life, in decisions, and in the bedroom. Will a woman think I won't be strong when she needs it. I'm increasingly skeptical of spending too much time *** and forth. I listen to women, really anyone I'm talking with *** I think an internet conversation can get deep fast, but it really needs to translate into something that feels good in the real world. You and I are probably smart enough to have a good chat through *** it isn't just words and abstract thoughts. If there's some mutual interest, let's go have a glass of wine or beer, or coffee, or whatever you prefer, in a place you are comfortable in. You pick it. I can pick something another time. The worst that happens is a nice conversation between good people and interest in seeing each other again or not. No biggie. I can tell you about the crazy things I shouldn't have put in a profile, and you can talk for hoursa if you like. I'd like to hear what you have to say.Plus its good practice for us. Let's go have a fun.
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GalenOffline
Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54
***************************************************************************************************************Just to be honest from the beginning~When I made this profile a few years back, I was playing around and said I was 44 years old.(Sorry) Explainations: After a month I tried to change it, and couldn't. I would have to post a whole new profile. So, I kept it the same, and have to tell you all here that I am 49 yrs. old. I think my reason for doing it was mainly because I am a single man, never married, and started getting women contacting me, that where over 50. I am hoping to still live the dream of meeting someone either with or without kids, and putting a small family together, and living happily ever after. ***************************************************************************************************************I basically try to be an honest person, and have goals. I enjoy the simple things in life, working out (when I can), dining out, coffee shops, or just taking it easy. My hobbies include: gardening(If I had the space to grow one), and some sports(but not a total sports buff).)Favorites are U-; on...***************************************************************************************************************Liking my career in Aviation Maintenance. So, I am not a pilot, I just fix them. Pretty much "Jack of all Trades", and am capable of fixing the brakes on a car to putting up a new deck, etc... I view my life as the sky is the limit^^, and would enjoy the journey of making a life with someone. I am really hoping to meet someone that does not have children yet, or maybe has 1 or 2 and still wants to have another child.(I hate writting that because it may scare someone away, but it is something I wish to fulfill) ***************************************************************************************************************A woman with good communication, honesty, capable of loving others, also with positive goals, are all pluses. Things I dislike are people that smoke in enclosed areas, someone that won't let you get a word in edgewise or won't talk at all, and someone who makes bad decisions.*************************************************************************************************************** I am a sincere, honest guy. I usually remain an optimist, and hope you all are too. I try to remain active myself, and am health consious. I like eating healthy foods. I like to stick and stay with someone, and am honest, without drama. *************************************************************************************************************** I am kind of used to living alone, and it gets kind of boring sometimes. I do get out with some friends once in awhile, but on a usual night I am home watching TV, paying bills online, and trying to rest up for another day at work. I am liked by most everyone that I know, some don't like me when I tell them things they don't want to hear. But, what are friends for? I can also accept constructive criticism as well. I believe that money can't buy happiness, but some helps. I want an honest, intimate relationship with someone that is seeking the same thing. So, if you are looking for the same, please respond.***************************************************************************************************************Bottom Line, I am a hard working person, and looking to find a girl that is realistic, and wants to either have a family, add to a family, and work towards Happiness. I am capable of true Love, are you? If so get ahold of me ~~~~ Thanks for reading.... Meet for Coffee, Drinks, Dinner, Movie, traditional stuff, etc... We could decide!