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Patti, 49

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About Me

Let's just cut to the chase - here's my laundry list of what I look for in a man:Honesty - just say what you mean and do what you say. It's that simple.Education - this can be formal or informal. If the thought of reading a book is unappealing to you, then I'm not the gal for you.A sense of humor - everyone says this, but not everyone has the same sort of humor.An appreciation and love of dogs - I have two big dogs and they come with the package.A readiness to date - this means please be over your last relationship and have the time to spend with someone new. If you are looking for a text buddy, then please move on.And really guys - why do you put up pictures of your cars and pictures of the insides of your car and pictures of your car's engine? Seriously? If you want to grab a woman's attention - show us a row of desginer shoes on sale. I'm up for most anything. I did have a first date go terribly wrong once when two police officers asked my date to step outside the restaurant for questioning. I couldn't make that up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Annmarie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    First of all, it's a nose ring, not a bugger:)That being said:I am politically progressive and hopefully you are too. I’m a lefty, but I can’t stand extreme political correctness either. I don’t believe that people should be so hung up on words, or that there should be so many rules about we’re “ allowed to say”. Stereotypes exist for a reason and some of them (but certainly not all) have more truth than people are comfortable with. I’m a big fan of political satire, Salsa dancing (my new passion), and good film , esp. foreign and indie. I love music.) I'm not big of religion and definitely prefer secular humanists/atheists/agnostics etc. If you're a fairly religious person (esp. of the Judeo-Christian persuasion), there will not be a meeting of the minds. I prefer science based, critical thinkers. I'm also a big animal lover.I’m a pretty honest and direct person, sometimes even a little abrasive, but I’ll take that any day over passive-aggressive people. Just say what’s on your mind. What’s the worst thing that can happen? Someone may dislike you? You can’t please everybody.I'm 48 but I look considerably younger. When I'm in love I'm very nurturing and devoted and I appreciate open communication so if you're one of these guys who can't talk about something that needs to be talked about, please don't respond. You must have good communication skills and know how to broach the subject if something's on your mind, *** trying to send me signals in some roundabout way. I do not respond well to passive aggressive behavior. If you're terrified of confrontation, you're not the one for me. Communication is key.You should be ***, intelligent, romantic, nurturing, relationship oriented, and above all, honest. I'm really partial to tall, darker skinned men; brown more than black or white; Middle Eastern, mixed race, Indian, Latino, but so far, the cultural differences have proven to be challenging. I'm occasionally attracted to Black and White men, although it is rare these days. I seem to always end up with men younger than me although I do like men my own age as well. But let's be clear something; if you're in your 20s, you're too young. We will not be looking for the same things. And I am not in a position to breed nor am I looking for something short term. Dinner, conversation, a long walk in a pretty place. Hard to say, I guess it really depends on the company.

  • Verna

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am young at heart, have a great sense of humor and just looking to meet someone new to hang out with a day or two during the week. I work long hours on the days I work, my schedule changes weekly and I work some weekends. Looking to broaden my social horizons. I've been separated 2 years, just working out details. A nice dinner, not too fancy but not Burgar King....lol. good conversation and laughter.

  • Luann

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    My friends tell me that I am fun, nice, caring and sensitive. I have strong family values and enjoy spending time with my family....I like to celebrate all the small things and all the accomlishments around us so we tend to have a lot of bbq's and parties with friends and family... I really adore life....... I also like staying at home and relaxing. My favorite weather is stormy, maybe because we don't see much of that out here but also it's a time when you can light the fire and cuddle..... It really is hard to describe yourself and your desires in one "simple" paragragh so if your honest, truely available and don't want to play games... the best way to find out about me is to contact me....look forward to hearing from you. My dilemma has been trying to find that person that is right for me. I am looking for someone who likes to have fun, and likes to enjoy life to the fullest, whatever that might be :) I enjoy tall men who are not afraid to display affection, who care about their appearance and their security within themselves. I am honestly not looking for perfection but I do tend to be a little picky. I'd be lying if I said looks were not important but for me that's what starts the "spark and chemistry." However, looks are in the eye of the beholder...Also, looking for someone who enjoys an intelligent conversation and can also joke around, I love someone who can make me laugh!!!!!

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