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Ethel, 43
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

About MeSweet lovable cuddly girl seeks like minded individuals for dating, possibly more.I work hard and play even harder. I am a very loving and wonderful catch and would be a valuable asset to your life in regards to supporting the person I am with and loving them to the best of my abilities. I am sweet and have a shy streak, sometimes I require coaxing to open up. I have been burned in the past but who hasn't? I haven't allowed it to color my opinion of others, everyone deserves to be trusted until a reason is presented otherwise. I have remained single for several months in order to recover from my last relationship, I have done this to break a cycle of rebound relationships and in doing so have found myself and learned a lot about myself in the process. I believe people can change, and everyone deserves a second chance, people aren't perfect and they will make mistakes, its important to realize that. Presently I would like to meet a man who would like going out for walks, dinners, and meaningful discussions, if that leads to something great, if not, well that's ok too. I'm open to forming new friendships as well.I work a lot, and in my free time I enjoy living life to its fullest. My greatest aspiration is to travel to far off places I have never been to, preferably with someone I care about. I share custody of my sons with their father, so I do have some "off" time to dedicate to nurturing a relationship. I take pride in my appearance and enjoy dressing up for a night on the town, yet I can still rock a pair of blue jeans, tshirt and leather jacket and stillettos as well as a pair of sweats. I subscribe to the old adage you are only as old as you feel, in which case, that would bring me to my late twenties. lolAbout YouYou are a hardworking man, who can appreciate and love a good woman. You will let me put my head on your chest and make me feel loved and safe.You don't play games with peoples hearts and emotions, and want to have something real and true. You want to share your life with someone special.You like to go out for nice dinners and weekend road trips, jacuzzis and red wine, a pretty girl on your arm with a beautiful smile and a warm heart.Drop me a line Walking in the leaves on a beautiful Autumn day.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Middle Eastern Vietnamese Martial Arts Music Sport
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    This is always the hardest part. Having to write about yourself. The whole idea is to standout and give people an idea of who you are. In the end we all seem to sound the same. So I have been told my profile needs some work. ;) So I thought I would update it. I enjoy time with my friends and family. I am very dedicated to both. I feel like my friends are my family and my family are my everything. I love to cook (typically while drinking a good glass of red wine) and love to cook for others. I think I am an easy going person who likes to laugh, even at myself. Actually maybe more at myself then anything. I believe that everything happens for a reason and we are to learn from all of our experiences. The good ones and the bad ones. I am a positive person and almost always have a smile on my face. I try to maintain a healthy lifestyle (at least during the week) and enjoy going to the gym. I like to go to the movies, walks, staying in on a cold winters night, hanging with good friends and also like going out. I am a pretty social person but do enjoy down time.I am looking for an honest, good and grounded guy. No drama. Let's start with a drink and go from there.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I keep a smile on my face! And I try not to take things too serious, life is too short not to enjoy it. I love to do anything that requires laugh and fun. Look for people who can enjoy their lived and don’t mourn much.

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  • Kathie from Oxnard | Woman | 43 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Looking to meet new friends hopefully find that one special person. Is he out there?I'm beginning to doubt it, LoL.Looking for fresh start and new life Have two great kids and 2 wonderful grandsons. Not looking for someone to take care of me, I have done an OK job of that the last 20 years, lol.If you want to know more, just ask. ***Update-Would like to add what I am NOT looking for. I do not need friends with benefits, I will not meet you in some parking lot for a one night stand and am not into casual sex. I am looking for a long term, serious relationship. May even want to get married again sometime. Don't worry, not looking to marry overnight or looking for someone to support me. And on the other hand not looking to support someone either. Relationships are a two way street, you get what you give. Soooo.......if your looking for the same, take a chance! Life is much to short to sit at the computer forever, LOL Something casual and low stress. Just be honest. Be yourself. And please be single.

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