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Ann, 41
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

This is always the hardest part. Having to write about yourself. The whole idea is to standout and give people an idea of who you are. In the end we all seem to sound the same. So I have been told my profile needs some work. ;) So I thought I would update it. I enjoy time with my friends and family. I am very dedicated to both. I feel like my friends are my family and my family are my everything. I love to cook (typically while drinking a good glass of red wine) and love to cook for others. I think I am an easy going person who likes to laugh, even at myself. Actually maybe more at myself then anything. I believe that everything happens for a reason and we are to learn from all of our experiences. The good ones and the bad ones. I am a positive person and almost always have a smile on my face. I try to maintain a healthy lifestyle (at least during the week) and enjoy going to the gym. I like to go to the movies, walks, staying in on a cold winters night, hanging with good friends and also like going out. I am a pretty social person but do enjoy down time.I am looking for an honest, good and grounded guy. No drama. Let's start with a drink and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Japanese Spanish Vietnamese Cricket Dirt Bike Racing Soccer / Football
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