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Ashlee, 41
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Sun, 21 Dec 2025 00:20:11

About Me

***I REALLY AM IN SEARCH OF MY LAST FIRST KISS!***I am a true, caring, affectionate, sincere person who is very outgoing, adventurous, and outspoken. I believe trust is a two way street and that it is earned and not just given freely. I am open-minded, adventurous, and love to travel and experience new places and new cultures. I love exploring and learning about people and places around me and afar. I love to fly, but do not care too much for cruises.Equally, I enjoy relaxing nights at home, especially when snuggling. I think "down time" with each other is just as important as being on-the-go. I love to be spoiled and to spoil others, and not by material things necessarily. I think what a person likes and dislikes is mostly a choice so I try to choose to like most things, in reason of course. I think that one should not worry about what others think or say about you. You have to know who you are. I fully believe in the saying... "Those who judge me don't matter and those who matter don't judge me." I believe too many people in this world get wrapped up in what others think..Why? You have to know who you are!I absolutely love music and going to live shows and concerts. I think music can be a pathway to the mind and soul if allowed. It is definitely a staple in my life. Music can definitely set a mood...whatever mood that may be. Camping, fishing, hiking, sporting events (Go Tigers and Saints!I like to have fun and laugh a lot. I also like to make others laugh, even if I have to be the butt of my own joke. Smiling is a must! I try to visit as often as possible.As far as a perfect match...My perfect match does not have to share all of my interests, but having an open mind is a must. I try not to place unnecessary restrictions on myself just because something may be different than what I am accustomed to. He should also be sincere, adventurous, and like to travel. Must value family and like to experience life and all that it has to offer. Also, my match should like to talk about anything and everything because I love great conversation and learning about an individual...the journey. There's nothing better than learning about someone you are interested in-exploring. If you are guarded or not comfortable with authentic conversation on all topics or if you hide behind a “mask”…I’m not the one for you! I’m looking for someone who is real and has no problem keeping things real-honest. Honesty is of utmost importance. One should be honest, even if it hurts or isn’t the most popular view.He should like to be on-the-go, but also enjoy quiet nights at home. Must love to kiss and and be a great kisser. Since I love to kiss, I prefer a clean-shaven man. I think hugs are underrated and love to give them as much as I love to receive them. I believe romance and sensuality are two of the many spices of a relationship and life.I don't believe everyone's special someone lives around the block or in the same state, for that matter. Distance is relative. After all, one can be in the same room with someone and still feel distant with that person.In short: I believe some people swim on the surface of life and others swim in its' depths. I prefer the latter... What I would like to do on a first date would depend on whom I am going on the date with because I would like his interest to "count" as well. It would definitley include excellent conversation and wouldn't be at a coffee shop! :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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