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Stacie, 44
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

I have 3 wonderful children that I love spending time with. I am a nurse and I absolutely love my profession. I don't want to offend any of you but I make decent money and I don't need a man to support me, I am also not going to support a man. I'm not lazy and I will not have a lazy man. If you are looking for that simple-minded feeble little woman, I am not your girl, if you are looking for a woman to support you, once again, I am not her. I am a very independent woman. But more importantly I am a lady, and although I'm a hard working professional, I want to be treating like a lady, not a piece of trash or a doormat. I am not going to just settle this time around. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE...NO DRAMA...my career provides all the drama I need, I don't want it in my personal life.I go to the gym 6 days a week, have recently become addicted to working out, LOVE IT. I enjoy being outdoors as much as possible. I love to sing, music is a very important part of my life, I was raised listening to country music, LOVE IT. I also enjoy reading. I like camping, really anything outdoors.I love spending time with my family and always look forward to big family get-togethers. I like to take road trips. I'm certain that if you ask my friends and/or co-workers they would say I have a warped sense of humor and a quick wit...and I guess I do...but that is just part of my charm, lol My sense of humor is "an acquired taste" kinda thing, if you are a stick in the mud...you WILL NOT like me, hey life is short...laugh as much as you can!!!I don't believe that sex is the most important part of a relationship, but I do feel that it is a very important part. I feel that is the time when two people connect. I think a strong connection is very important. I am very a very sexual person, I am not shy about sex, I know what I like/want and I don't mind telling you!I am very open-minded and usually willing to try new things. I love an adventure. For a first date....maybe dinner, something that allows us the opportunity to talk and get to know each other, or perhaps a ballgame...I love football

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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