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Catalina, 42
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

First of all, get comfortable.... I guess this part is kind of like being interviewed. But if you are still reading and interested at the end, let me know.I have been in education for 19 years, so I am truly happy with my job. At the same time, it can sometimes make you really question your own intelligence as to why you are trying to teach and discipline kids. Just remember, don't believe half of what your child says about us and we won't believe half of what they say about you.I have 2 wonderful daughters, ages 14 and 10. They are my #1 priority and keep me on the go alot. My friends and coworkers consider me as a very sincere, honest, caring, and dependable person. My sense of humor can be all over the place- I love to laugh, have fun, be silly/goofy at times, but can be serious when needed. I don't sweat the small stuff.......don't have time for that or the drama. From my understanding, many women or "drama queens" are out there in the dating world. Nope! Not me.... I just like to smile, get along with everyone, and be happy. Sometimes to my disadvantage, I am a very independent person. I work full- time, am a sports mom who goes to practices and games, fixes things around the house by myself-for the most part, and don't like to ask for help. (I am learning how to ask, but it's hard.....guess that's being a single parent for you!) Since I have my girls most of the time, I have a lot of responsibility with them and my job as well, but wouldn't have any other way. My children come first period. However, unfortunately, a lot of guys don't really want an independent, career and family-minded woman. That's o.k. though......everyone is different. But this is me and how I am. (I would actually LOVE to not be so independent all of the time)As for things to do? I like to do just about anything. Really..... I am not indecisive, but I am truly up for just about anything. I guess I am just one of those people who can have fun doing all kinds of things. I love any kind of sports whether it be playing or watching and I also enjoy traveling and seeing all kinds of new and old places. However, I am just as happy to stay at home in front of a fireplace and watch movies. Not really into the "club and bar scenes," but I will go with a group of my friends on occasion to listen to live music. So.. who am I looking for?I am looking for someone who is honest, dependable, thoughtful, caring, respectful, ambitious, and just an all-around good guy. He would have to love children because my girls and I are a total package. This does require a lot of patience, especially when getting to know each other at first. I don't let my girls meet a guy who I just go out with one or two times. Therefore, my schedule can be a little less than flexible due to the schedule with my girls. Yes, I can and do go out. It just requires a little bit of notice, which requires a little bit of patience. I am really easy to please when it comes to going out on a date. I like to do just about anything at least once-except for jumping out of a perfectly good plane and anything having to do with snakes!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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