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Laura, 43
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Fri, 16 Jan 2026 10:29:28

About Me

Update: Have pretty much decided to do some travel nursing starting in January, ***. No longer looking. Fun, Sweet, Independant and Sassy... The beautiful seasons make traveling amazing... Cooking and gardening are a couple of my passions. I enjoy cooking with that special someone and am extremely happy my cousin is successfully attending culinary school.I get to grill(haha) her for new information constantly(or at least as long as she puts up with it).My career has tons of options so I know I will never be bored and always have room for advancement. My long term dreams include living on the water at least part time and traveling more often. I am lucky enough to work days Monday through Friday.Love to explore new locations. Anything from active sightseeing to relaxing on the beach. In the past I have hiked Taquamanon Falls and this year my plan is to camp at Pictured Rock. It helps that my sister lives in the U.P. so I get to see quite a few places off the beaten path.As you can see from my pictures, I enjoy the Tigers. I also attend a few Wings games each year. I attend live music in the summer more often than the winter. And I know this may be a deal breaker for some;) but have been getting more into the New Country, lately.. Still love old fashion rock n roll... Enjoy the blues more than jazz... My kids keep me up to date on the newest stuff too...I am very happy with my life, but would like to have someone to share things with. If you are looking for perfect or a model, I am not your girl. I am and always will be a work in progress, I love learning and improving myself. I think I need to clarify what I am looking for. I am not looking for perfect, just perfect for me. Be happy and enjoy life. I will always support my partner 100%, but I am not looking to fix someone's life. If your not happy you have no business starting a relationship. And that is what I am looking for eventually... a relationship.. a partntership.. a friendship... That is a lot of ships, :-)... Don't mistake kindness for weakness... I have met enough dishonest people to last me a lifetime so if you need to lie or don't know how to communicate, do us both a favor and move on... First meeting should be short and sweet to see if we have the all elusive "chemistry". After that I am game for suggestions...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Middle Eastern Vietnamese Dance
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