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Dale, 42
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

I'm a very out going but go with the flow kind of girl. I'm very put together with how I look and am a little insecure but people tell me I shouldn't!Occasionally.. i love to go to the club to dance.I'm not looking for a husband but if I met the right guy I like spending time with I'm pretty high maintenance with the time we spend together! I want to feel like that guy wants to be with me more than any other place! I'm a very nurturing woman and always make sure my man is taken care of and happy! I hate drama.. So I choose not to fight and argue but I'm sure everyone has differences in opinion and I respect that.. I am fun, funny and live to have a good time because you only live once but there is many definitions of fun! I'm looking for someone who's honest and not to proud to share his dreams and goals with me and vice versa! Must have a career.. And has career goals! I'm a very outdoorsy person.. I love to workout, swim, bike, run, hike, play at the beach. My kids play sports so I love watching them. I adore my children! I have a puppy that is like a child. she goes everywhere with us and i look forward to her geowing so she can run with me! I love to travel- financially permitting but traveling is a passion. Love to explore new places, cultures and I love learning history! I'm polish and I love to cook and am very clean! A complete homemaker! The just of the guy I'm looking for is someone who cares about their health, their body, a nice smile is a must and loves life as much as I do and has a life that can be adjusted to accommodate a good woman that will enhance their life! Undecided... Every person and situation is different so I suggest we mutually decide what works best together.. Prefer to leave smiling!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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