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Ilene, 41

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Ok here we go.. enough questions about my profile! "Yes I know it looked like I was drunk filling it out" No I wasnt! I didnt have the time or keyboard to fill it out and the minimum keystrokes was very high! so I just hit keys to get through it!I am a very independant woman who owns a few homes, has a dog, and a good job. I havent been married and do not have any children. I like 80s music and country! Hate Rap and dance music. I like reading, especially vampire books. I work on my own cars-have two. I like listening to live music on occastion to local bands. ( I do know a few) I do enjoy a festival or two in the summer. (not a big summerfest fan though) I am a family person and normally spend time once a week with them and my new nephew. I love traveling and watching movies when time. During this month I go out with groups to go through haunted houses-so cant be a wimp. lolI am looking for a minimal drinker and bar person, occasional is fine. A honest, good sense of humor and likes dogs a big plus. A guy that can fix things is great too! If you are at the bar all the time after work or is a smoker or loves strip joints dont *** your gone every weekend up north hunting, dont *** get me wrong, I have hunted in my life, and fished and even have a snowmobile, also camped. However, I dont have a big interest in that too much anymore. I do like however going up to a cabin upnorth and target shooting and doing fireworks over the 4th of July. I do not want a player either and very sick of the bar scene. See band or meet for a drink, or coffee, tea or go for a walk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eve

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Love music, and dancing..pretty much anything except country and jazz. I love to laugh, a quick wit is sure to get my attention. I'm told I somewhat have "guy" traits..as in I don't do drama, not a big crier, i'm even keel, and don't wear my emotions on my sleeves. I don't know if that's good or not...? I am big on chemistry, basically it's just either there..or it's not. I selected I want a relationship on the drop down list, but thats because there wasn't one for "not really sure, possibly date (yet i am not a big fan of dating..)..so im just here taking it as it comes." -if that would have been an option to choose, it woulda been my top pick. ; ) let's meet up, have a couple drinks, and if we end up laughing and smiling a lot..guess we could talk about some actual plans.

  • Staci

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I like to be adventurous, but not dumb. I absolutely love to dance, but I\'m not looking to party every night or weekend. If you’re a hangouter, we’ll do along, looking forward to your message.

  • Cara

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    *****I'm looking for a long term relationship.*****Chemistry and attraction is vital to a relationship meaning I need to be able to relate to you on a physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual basis.We have to be able to laugh and have a great time together, we have to be able to trust and give each other sound advice, we have to have each other's back at all times, and of course we have to be able to satisfy each other completely. If you're looking for the same thing and you think your mature enough to fit this bill then great by all means *** isn't so much an issue for me but if you're not spiritual then that's a deal breaker.If your profile says "casual dating/no commitment" then I won't respond that's a RED FLAG that you are not looking for the same thing that I am.*****Also if you're profile is hidden another Major RED FLAG.*****Also if you are my age and never been married RED FLAG.I need someone that can fit into my life and understand me. I'm a divorced single mom with kids. So I need a family guy, a relationship type of guy, a mature guy.I'm best described as a good woman with a good head on her shouldersI'm responsible I take care of business so to speak. I'm articulate, I know what I want and I'm happy with me and my accomplishments thus far in life.I have my own condo, my own car, a good job and a bright future.I would however like to find the right gentleman to spend my days and nights with, someone who has eyes only for me and gets nervous and excited every time he lays eyes on me.Yes I have kids as most do who are my age. Yes I love them with all my heart but they are my responsibility.Their father is in their life but there is absolutely no drama. We realized a long time ago that it was no longer about us but it was about them and creating the best environment for which they can thrive and become productive, responsible adults one day. They are well on their way. They are respectful and will treat my special someone with good manners and respect.A little about me: I'm outgoing, well spoken, educated, successful, fun, loyal, interesting, classy, old school in some things, respect my elders, but I'm also romantic, sensual and down right sexy.What I would like from you is integrity, be a man of your word, be spiritual, be spontaneous, be fun, be loyal, be a relationship type of guy, be mature, have your act together ie. have your own place, own car, a decent job. The amount of education you have or don't have isn't an issue for me as long as your making an honest living. You must however not smoke, do drugs, be married. You must be attractive to me. I don't have a type per say but something about you has to lead me to a connection with you. I don't mind being with an older man but I don't want someone to mistake me for being your daughter either.I'm pretty down to earth I can fit in almost any group whether it be rich or poor or a different ethnic culture.I'm sincere and genuine but also extremely diplomatically honest.If you look and don't write then I will assume I'm not for you. If you do write be sincere and respectful. If it's not a love connection I will be polite but also not waste your time.The Notebook is my favorite movie. If you've seen it mention it in your *** I know you read my profile.Happy Fishing and Best Regards,Always Romantic Girl Coffee no need to invest a lot of money or time until we both know if there is a connection.

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