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WinterOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
This was my original post two-plus years ago when I signed up: " Looking for a long term - it doesn't have to mean marriage...but I want someone who wants to actually DO boyfriend things! Hang out, go places..... I do not want a friend with benefits.... If it's going to work, I come with two little boys and a big black lab...and I want that person to actually WANT to know about the boys ...not just know about me :) Sexy to me means...more than physical..I want someone who can get attached emotionally, who is smart and motivated, who I can have conversations with or just watch a movie and share some wine. I want to relax and I want to feel warm in that person's arms. Is it asking too much to want to finally feel like a princess? ha ha....well?"So after a few years of dating here and there, meeting interesting people who stayed in my life....and quickly did not...even though some of us never even met..ie. a guy who who owns a PT/Massage therapy business who I never met (you know who you are) but over the short years gave me advice about whatever I needed, and the guy I met once but only once who became the only knowledgeable one to give me the best and most profitable financial advice, etc...I made friends, I made simple "acquaintances" and in one *** short term relationship turned in to what is most likely a life long friendship... I had one real long term ...10 months anyway....my record.. ... and he was not a guy from meetville ...but he was great and wonderful to me and my boys....and I just dont know... We ended it mutually and for personal reasons. I guess I learned that putting in that "I want a long term relationship" thing is harsh but this site doesn't give you detailed options. I think I know what I want in a man.... but ...I know I won't settle because even if my boys really like that guy....(of course i want only the best for my kids!) but when they leave for college years later....it's me and that guy....and I want it to work in a chemical, loving, best-friend, physical/sensual/sexual way. I hope I don't sound selfish....not sure I'm explaining it all but I'll be honest at this point....Relationships...I'm not sure I know what I want in a relationship...I just hope it comes some day and "boom"...I just know it's whatever it should be ........ I learned that I need a companion, a best friend...but one who is also attracted to me in so many more depths ....and can talk about anything....someone who loves me first (so we dont get wrapped up in family life before we know each other one on one, ...next phase...that person wants to love my boys and supports the life I lead and the structured way I can be sometimes so I can be everything to my family ..I'm the mom and the dad, and I work hard ...(freaking 100,***times that I hear..."but it's only 99 Cents!" downloads.....) ...etc I am a person who needs personal space and time alone with my kids.....go out on boys night! Just be happy. I need my time, too. I'm not a jealous person .....if you're trustworthy. I will give 110% and I hope it's reciprocated....unconditionally. So this is my latest attempt at updating my profile. Be true to thyself. Ps. I'm a Taurus ... Not sure why meetville picked up Gemini .... meet for coffee or drinks ....a meet-&-greet and figure out if there's a second date at hand....you pretty much know in the first 10 seconds.......
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DollyOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I stand up for what I believe is Right and that includes anyone who is with me. I\'m a firm believer when I say "stand your grounds". I’d like to find the same firm person with strong values.
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AideenOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I'm a great girl who just so happens to be looking for a nice, respectful guy to hang out with and enjoy life. I am not looking for one nighters but I am open to dating and or just spending time together. No long distance friendships with the promise of meeting one day which never pan out any ways. Guys that I am interested in must live in CT or nearby states. They must also have a job and live on their own. I prefer someone close to my age as well. I am confident and outgoing. I treat people the way I want to be treated.I'd like to think of myself as a smart person. I'm always learning and growing in my profession. I have a good job that pays the bills but keeps me busy. I am independent and live on my own but I would rather spend quality time with a great guy. I don't think that a first date should be very serious...too much pressure! Maybe go to a coffee shop or meet for a drink. Another good option would be to do something outdoors, taking a nice walk or exploring a farmers market. We could always plan a second date if things go well.