SIMILAR PEOPLE
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BenjaminaOnline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
First off, I have no time for players who just want to serial date, or see how many women they can meet. I run into that too often from guys on here, and am just about ready to give up. Always seems to happen with the more attractive guys who obviously want a certain type that isn't me, like younger, prettier, whatever. They can have you. So, don't bother to message me if that's the case. Thanks. I'm 44, have two kids, a daughter, 14 and a son, 17. They live with me, but I can date. And they're with their father every other weekend. However, whomever I would potentially date would have to understand my schedule with them, (their activities) as well as the time I spend with them. I am not one of those mothers who goes out every weekend leaving my kids on their own, despite the fact that they are teenagers, or put whomever I'm dating before them, spending every weekend with him and *** kids. I like to be around for them, as I said, even though they're teens and may have other plans. So I mostly go out when they're with their dad, with an exception for something planned once in awhile, or during the week occasionally, depending on their schedules. I have brown hair, brown eyes, and am petite. I've been described as cute with a 'bubbly' personality, pretty, sexy. Don't know about those things, I'd let the guy be the judge of that. I am confident, but not conceited, and am perfectly aware that there are plenty of beautiful, sexy women out there that I can't compete with. However, as I said, I am confident, and feel good about myself and how I look and feel, being over 40. More importantly, I'm very friendly and outgoing, fun, funny, and in a relationship I am loving, sweet and affectionate, flirtatious, playful, open and honest, and say what I want and how I feel. What I don't want in a guy is someone who won't talk, or communicate, game playing, particularly messing with my head, lying, cheating, or telling me what they think I want to hear for their own selfish reasons. I want someone who makes me feel GOOD about myself, not who makes me feel unwanted and bad about myself, and hurts me or plays with my emotions. Yes, I am emotional, not a nutcase, just show my feelings and say what's on my mind. I want someone who treats me with the respect I deserve, respects my feelings, not takes advantage of them or me, and in return, they would get the same from me and much more. I am just not into getting hurt anymore. I am NOT bitter or hating men, on the contrary, I love men. :) I've just learned that I give too much sometimes to people who refuse to give back and take advantage of that, then disappear. So I'm just a bit more cautious now, simple. :) I also would like someone funny who makes me laugh and who likes to go out and have FUN, not sit around doing nothing but watching TV all the time. However, I do enjoy staying home and watching a movie sometimes too, just like everyone else. Sorry if I sound harsh, just want to be honest about where I am right now. If you're not interested, that's fine too. **There also must be a spark right away~I believe in chemistry. Having said all of that above, I certainly don't expect to jump immediately into a relationship with someone I may meet here. I don't even want that right away, frankly. I need to go slow and work towards a relationship if that happens. If I meet someone I really like, and we hang out for awhile and like eachother, and a relationship develops, that's cool too, I just don't want to dive straight into it.I like going to see bands, like just about any type of music, eating out, (like trying new places) going to fests in the summer, concerts, hanging with friends and family, sporting events, (Cubs games or Blackhawks games first two on the list) and anything else interesting and fun. I can pretty much have fun doing anything, and am not difficult to please.*If I do not answer a message, I am not interested. Not trying to be rude, it's just easier than wasting time going back and forth with explanations. I get non answers too, and I don't get offended, I move on. Thanks.A song about love that I looooove~ *** Whatever, talk and decide together
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JazmineOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
My adult daughter thinks its time I found someone special now that her and her siblings are grown and on their own. She's right! Been a single mom since they were babies and time to concentrate on me. Never married but hoping that will change one day. New to dating....
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BrandeOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Well first of all,, my friend set this profile up-without my knowing! Guess she just wants me to find happiness!!Anyway,,,,,,,, I dont really like to talk about myself...but Im a country girl at heart. Enjoy the country lifestyle and country way of life. Since my divorce I no longer live in the country but hope to eventually! I am a mother of two amazing and beautiful daughters, who are on there way to starting their own lives and planning weddings. So I guess its time for me to start thinking about myself some and get back out there in the dating world, so I am hoping to find a good, honest, caring, compassionate man. I was in a long time marriage/relationship of 20 yrs together and was never treated right, but still tried over and over, and finally decided I need and deserve more. Only thing is, I love with all I have and all that I am,, its so hard to be alone, but I will be ok!! (i keep telling myself that)lolI am shy at first and am kinda nervous about getting back out there. I am scared alittle to let put myself out there and fear of being hurt again, but I guess that just goes with the territory. Just very hopeful its all going to be worth and the reward will be sooooooo worth it!!I work full time, love my job! I have always had a love for animals. When I had the farm, I had many types of animals, and have raised many animals. I have horses, mostly just trail ride now.When I can find time.Country music is my first choice, but I like other types of music too.Fall is coming up very soon, and its my favorite time of year!! Cant wait for the change of the season and the scenery is soooooooo pretty. I hope to someday in the near future get my own motorcycle. Guess Im just into horsepower.lol whether its four legged or two wheeled! :-)Sorry for rambling on, if you have any questions, please feel free to askThanks, M Somewhere we both mutually agree upon. Meeting for the first time is kinda nerve racking, so Im thinking someplace neutral and comfy for both of us.