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Jefferson, 52

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About Me

Hi and thanks for reading my ad. I've always wanted to find that special person to join me in this journey but this has yet to happen until then I keep an open mind and heart. When writing a profile sometimes the less said the better. I don't reject this new age of information but I've grown weary of knowing before I get there. Time is what people need to learn about each other not bulk information from a first person point of view. I have lots of hobbies and have a long list of places to travel too; anyone can come along...play your cards right and I'll even give you a ride back... ;o)Now a few of my online dating experiences:Someone wrote to say I was self centered because my ad was all about meOn a hiking date my 48 year old dream girl showed up in a ruffled chiffon top, lounge pants and crocs...she was about ***first date spent an hour talking to her insurance agent; she even walked away occasionallyAnother beaut didn't mention a psycho boyfriend til he showed up kicked & beat her door then he stood in bushes stomping his feetLately I'm getting asphyxiated by heavy perfumeA lot of woman have drug addicted/alcoholic adult children who live with them & play video games all dayOne lady wanted me to meet her son it was on visiting day...I had to empty my pockets and go through a metal detectorA lady once offered me food from a food bank, this was both sad and touching to meAfter using the Meet Me feature I got a two paragraph letter reaming me out for clicking on YESI went on a date with a professional clown, she stretched her picture to look tall and thin...her arms were bigger than my thighsOn a harley ride I took 1 hand off the handlebar my date screamed that's dangerous & started beating me on the back of the headOnce I pulled up to pick up a date and her mother came out to capture the moment with a video cameraI met a lady's friends & family for the 1st time at a party she got so inebriated we all took turns holding her head above the toiletA serial dater who's life consisted of work & school said I was egotistic because all she could talk about was work & schoolThe all time best was a nurse who sent me a picture 10 years and 40 pounds old, her beard and deep voice rivaled my own. I can confidently say the older I get the weirder dating gets!A meet and greet for coffee is the norm but I'd really love to go and do something! A hike, walk, sightseeing, anything but eating another substandard meal with all the appeal of a compost pile served across my face by a shaved monkey working its way through a liberal arts degree.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Wilfredo

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-63

    Hi,I would love to be in a relationship, have fun and feel connected but not smothered.We both have busy lives and want a relationship that complements our already full lives.We accept each others differences and want to spend free time together.I love to travel, and want a partner looking for an adventure. I have two daughters who are grown up, I am at a point where I have the freedom to look for that special relationship. Exercise is a big part of my life, after work you can usually find me at the gym. I find going to the gym a great stress reliever. Weekends you may find me going out to listen to live music or just hanging out with friends.I love to explore new places where ever they may be, in Minnesota or another state.I would like to find that special woman who is athletic, maybe you Hike? Bicycle? lift weights? So do I!!!You tell me what your passions are!I go to the gym daily,I find women with muscles to be very sexy. Lets go to the gym or on a power walk. I love dates that are different, The Arboretum on Thursdays and all the Roses you care to smell. Lets go see a concert at the Excelsior commons, walk by the lake and hold hands. I love to cuddle, hold hands and kiss. I am a passionate person and seek a passionate partner.I like to go out and see live music on weekends. I have been divorced for several years and had one serious relationship since being divorced.I have a lot of great friends and want to find my best friend to share in the fun.I have been told I am a great communicator and that this is a rare quality in a man. I have read many books on relationships. I have a pretty good idea of how to make a relationship work.I am a romantic guy and I want to find that special woman and feel that spark between us.I want to be in LOVE with that "one" special woman.I realize that a great relationship takes time and effort and begins with a great friendship.Send me an *** me what you think!My pictures are current, the one on the motorcycle and at Bayside are from July ***.Thanks for looking DougFor me a great first date would be going for a walk in Excelsior or the Arboretum and maybe a coffee at Dunn Brothers. Let's take that first step toward a great relationship.

  • Mitchel

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-59

    Time for a profile update... Are you looking for the profile of a witty, intelligent, attractive, genuine and young at heart guy? (admittedly most men like to think they are still young at heart and mind but the body lets them down.) You and 90% of the women on here it seems, what you are reading is my profile, make of it what you will. I like to think I speak openly, I am laid back, genuine, caring and honest (so please don't ask me if your bum looks big, if you feel an honest answer will offend - I was asked that question before by a g/f once... she is an ex-g/f now...say no more.)I asked a few friends to describe me to add their comments to my profile, but their responses weren't printable so I gave up on that idea, so you will have to put up with my solo attempt.I have been single for longer than I should admit, believing that something I read many years ago makes perfect truth... 'you can't be happy with someone else, if you aren't happy with yourself.' I am finally very content with my life, doing what makes me happy most of the time and having reached a point in my life where I have learnt to listen more to my head, than my heart (some skeletons in my closet learning that lesson.) The result, by some peoples standards I could be considered quite a hermit, preferring quiet nights in, to nights down the pub. I enjoy cycling (yes I can be found lycra clad, cycling around the lanes of Berkshire/Oxfordshire at the weekends... having ridden ***miles in one day recently - an achievement to which I am proud and not ashamed to shout about) I enjoy movies, travel, occasional camping trips, good food (especially Chinese) and cosy nights in. Oh and I love 80's music, now a regular at the Henley Rewind Festival, every August.To save you asking, I have no children, I have never been married and I don't own my own home. No children as I would only want to have children if I was in a steady relationship. Never married because I never met the right woman at the right time in my life (which isn't saying I never met the right woman... just not at the right time. ) ..and I have been on the property ladder in the past but I am happier with the flexibility that renting offers. Oh and I am a non-drinker (by choice.)I am looking to meet someone I find attractive - both physically and mentally. Someone that accepts me as I am and willing to change me slowly. I can be spontaneous. If I get the urge to do something, let's do it now, why wait?I am actually 48 but am unable to change it on my profile. Not all my pictures are recent but they are all ME and they get changed as and when I get new ones I can bare to post on here. Oh and I am 5'11"it seems a lot of men on here seem to get their height wrong.If you have made it this far and are still awake - thank you. If interested or even intrigued, feel free to get in touch.Any date that leaves a happy smile on your face and a desire to meet again... Relationships grow and change over time, start with no agenda and let things happen naturally, so don't read into the intent comment too deeply.An important lesson for life.... If you don't think you are going to like the answer and you can live without knowing it. DON'T ASK... I have a genuine phone phobia, so please don't get suspicious if I don't offer my mobile number too readily.Finally if I have peeked at your profile or added you to My Favorites but did not send a message, it may JUST be that you have a Mail Setting that prevents me from sending one. That... or I am awaiting a moment of inspiration before sending a first message.

  • Tjean

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 25-36

    Hi! My name is Tjean. I am never married catholic african man with kids from Miramar, Florida, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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