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Michelle, 51
United States, California, Thousand Oaks

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About Me

Hello, Im Vanessa. This is the difficult bit, trying to write something that is witty, interesting and makes me irresistible, don't know that I'll achieve it but I'm forever optimistic that there is a nice normal guy looking for a nice normal girl like me out there (I am nice and normal, honest!), so here goes.......I work full time in a school for children with severe learning difficulties. I love my job but its hard work and need some light relief sometimes!I have 4 boys, 2 out in the big bad world, the other 2 are living with me! Life is hectic but looking for someone to add to the hectic-ness of it all, someone who will make me laugh, to have fun with, able to have intelligent conversation and debate, enjoys music and discovering new things, and someone who's not willing to slip into middle age without a fight!I enjoy live music, small band in a pub or big gig in a big venue. I buy tickets like other women buy shoes, have a few gigs coming up and always buy 2, it's no fun on your own! I like to do all the usual things people list on here, theatre, museums, cinema, sharing a bottle of wine on the sofa, enjoy being outside, walking, cycling and especially being by the sea, in any weather!I'm an independent woman looking for someone to enhance my life, to share things with, and hold the ladder while I practise with the power tools!Please ask if you want to know more, if not good luck in your search!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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