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Josefina, 55
United States, California, Thousand Oaks

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About Me

Looking for a fun, caring relationship. Inspire each other & friendship plus chemisty.My life is happy overall but being with a great guy would be icing on the cake. Not keen on endless ***, (or IM)...think the only way to see if there is a chemistry is to meet and talk.What I am looking for in a man: -positive attitude -sense of humour and someone who laughs at me (at times) and with me!-passionate, affectionate, caring, thoughtful-open to trying new things, meeting new people, good social skills (even if shy) -love of family, friends-enjoys simple pleasures-easy going, (usually) patient, not vain- doesnt have more hair products than most women.-Has independent interests -not expecting to do everything with a girlfriend/partner.-If you are good at a hair/head massage - you would have me at hello. Who I am:- love my job, its very important and meaningful to me -good listener, supportive friend-affectionate, compassionate, generous, funny/witty, smart- variety of interests (creative activities, photography; Sports such as: skiing, golf, have done some sailing, baseball, volleyball. -Love good films, some foreign films and some goofy/funny ones too, enjoy going to see live music, have done some travelling, enjoy reading the newspaper, current affairs, entertaining, arts/culture, live music,good novel, gardening, going up north to a cottage, hiking/walking.- Social person, adore my friends-many I have had more than 20 years... and my family. - Love living and working in T.O and all it has to offer, but also seek the country too to get away. -love to learnI like to meet with someone for coffee or a drink and have conversation to see in person if there is any spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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