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Brandy, 50
United States, California, Carlsbad

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So.Cali girl who is Single, Hispanic, Fun Loving, Outgoing, and enjoy being with friends, or walking on the beach, I have big brown eyes, and a beautiful smile, I'm not phony, what you see is what you get, a devoted Christian Woman and HE comes first in every area of my life. What makes me unique is that I love Culture different Foods, and People, I'm fascinated with language even though I only speak Spanish and English I have lived in many parts of the world as a military dependant. My dad (RIP Jan ***is from Puerto Rico and my mom is from Guadalajara, Mexico I was born in Japan, lived in Brooklyn N.Y, Texas, Panama (Pacific and Atlantic Ocean) Germany and I have traveled to Europe, when I was younger. I have 5 kids (they are all grown out of the house, and 2 are married) and I'm Only raising the youngest, who is 16 a Sr in High School, she is half black, (I split the time ***with her bio dad), I Don't Drink, Smoke, and definately No Drugs but I'll go to Clubs to Dance, or Karaoke, (mostly watch) I enjoy Life, Movies, Bowling, Camping, some Hiking, Game Nights, BBQ, I like to Laugh and have a Good Time, Cuddling, Sharing good Conversation, Encouragement, Flowers, Smell Goods, Chocolate, Jewelry, (but I'm Not materialistic) You are: Honest, and have Integrity, For my Man to be the Man, You do NOT lie and like Open Communication, and You also Love God above all else, You are a Giver of Time, Talents and Treasures if needed. You enjoy Giving Back to the Community, and You are My Best Friend, You have a Sense of Humor, You are Not so Serious All the Time, but you are Sensitive to the Needs of Others, you Pray and Read the Word (the Bible) in private or out loud. You are Spontaneous, and you Like Last Minute Plans, You Like kids, and you Like your own Family. You are a Family man, and you like Pets, you are also an All Around Fun Loving guy, with good finances, You are not in large debt and you Love to Laugh. I have lost 30 pounds in the last 4 months and I still workout (circuit training) I enjoy Sports, (yes I'll go to a live game with you) I'm just Not Athletic, but I Am Comfortable in my own Skin, I'm Smart, Funny, and I have a Big Heart for People, and I learned early in life, to always Serve, Honor, Encourage, and Respect your Man, no matter what the situation is. I can roll with the rest of them and at times I can have a sarcastic humor. (insert foot in mouth) I like to try New things, and go on Adventures Outdoors. I Laugh, I Cry, and at times I can be Moody, (you know that Latina Temper, but just keeping it real) I'm a Great Encourager and Prayer Warrior.I Also need Lots of Encouragement in return, Lol Truthfully, I believe, We All have some form of Stress in our life; Finances, Jobs, or lack of work, in relationships, etc...you get the picture... but It's how we deal with them that makes a difference and matters. Are We Defeated, or Do We come out Victorious and that's what I'm talking about...Why aren't we Up Front with one another, Honest, and Real? Also, Please do Not say you are going to call and then don't. To me That's the same as lying or making promises you can't keep. My pictures are True to what I look like I have nothing to hide, and there is just more of me to love. Well, If you have read this far don't judge me by the image you are after, or what I look like, I really am a nice girl, get to know the real me and then decide, I'm also finding that most men do Not really take the time to even read the profile so why am I wasting my time trying to write anything down, right?!?! Take a chance on me. LolI think the private date is really uncomfortable and overated on both parts. Small talk is nerve wrecking, because you have to be so proper. Maybe, for a First Date, a Group Event out Bowling, or Dancing, or Getting Together with other Family or Friends that have Similar Interests, a Beach Bonfire, Something a little More Casual and comfortable for both, like Karaoke. I really like going to the movies, but Not for a 1st date because you sit and watch the movie and you're not getting to know the other person, maybe for example, if you (a guy) have a softball game, I could go watch you, in other words Include Me in Your World, something that you have an Interest in, or something you are passionate about, or going out for a cup of coffee, or ice-cream, Something Simple but Lots of Fun. I'm really Not picky or high maintenance.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Hispanic

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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