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SallieOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-60
Is there actually a man on this site that is real, not pretending to be someone else, that loves to live life to the fullest and not live in a bar or sit on a couch for their entertainment and just overall wants to find a mature relationship with their significant other, exploring life and all it's treasures? Whew, that was one really long run on sentence, sorry...LOL.DO NOT contact me if you are not an active person who loves to get out of the house for adventures? I do like to have some down times at home, but it is not my lifestyle. I like to do work outs and jogging with some 2 mile/3K's and while it would be great to have someone to do these things with, it's not a necessity and we can just support each other in our hobbies. I do believe in mutual physical attraction so no harm if one of us doesn't like the other. I am a bit quirky at times but I love to laugh and have fun, life is fun, so enjoy it! I am not on the "meet me" aspect of this page so please just send an ***, but make sure you actually read my profile as I wrote it for a reason :).P.S. Yes I have short hair now and hate to say, but it has seemed to affect the interest of men to me on this site...related???? Hmmmmm.Lets meet for an appetizer, a coffee or a glass of wine and see how it goes :). Can we get to a first date and not just communicate via *** texts?
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DenaOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-61
Hello..and welcome to my profile. Yes..its a longer one..but I think being clear on who I am, and who I am looking for saves us both time. You have a fairly good idea if you want to contact me. :-)All my pics are very recent...some within the last few months, all within the last year or so. Please make your pics recent too. :-)"We did not change as we became older...we just became more clearly ourselves". Lynn Hall"Aging is not lost youth but a new stage of opportunity and strength." Betty Friedan ***"When we tune into the essence of joy within us, rather then either avoiding the pain or seeking joy from external situations, we become our own beacon of light. We have a smile that cant be shaken." Sherry Bezanson"The whole secret to existence is to have no fear."~ BuddhaA few of the lessons life has taught me so far: you've got to roll with it :***the punches)...have a plan B and C when plans fall through, and live life to the fullest each day, even if one is riding solo. Aspire to become fearless, not reckless, but fearless. Find wonder (little miracles are all around us) and humour in the everyday, and treat yourself well.How would I envision the man for me? my one and only?Looking for an enlightened guy...he has learned many lessons but knows there are an infinite number yet to learn. He knows that a good relationship is based on a deep friendship...and that is where we would start. He smiles easily because, like me, he gets it. (When you get it...life becomes easier...because you know everything is meant to be..and you exhale.) He is happy within himself.He knows life is made up of moments, and he treasures the little things. He is practical and likes to fix and or create(even if only with words...or music.) He considers himself even tempered and his emotional baggage is stored appropriately. He knows his own personal power..he has 'grown up', and he doesnt need to come on heavy. Hes all about exploring life but loves his down time and doesnt have a problem with just chilling, reading or chatting sometimes. Hes an optimist..a positive person; he loves to laugh, even at himself at times, but can be serious too when he ponders about why things are they way they are and he figures there could just be more to THIS life then what we can see. He uses his brain as much as his hands...an intelligent man is a turn-on! :-) He has an affinity with animals (like me, he most likely owns a dog) and he has had children, as I think having the responsibility and challenges of raising kids, especially on ones own, takes a person to a different level. He has lived enough that he knows who he is...what he stands for(so he wouldnt fall for just anything)...and he would call himself sincere. He, like me, knows good communication is vital to the success of any relationship, and conversely, lack there of, leads to its demise. Communication is HUGE for me.The trials and tribulations in his past have made him the man that he is today, as we are all the accumulative sum of all our past experiences. A complex past that he has grown from and moved forward from is ideal. After all, 'adversity is the stepping stone to greatness!'He is independent yet wants a true partner, a monogamous relationship, someone with which to multiply the joys and divide the sorrows.Me?I am a single mum born of European parents, with a full time long term technical career; my one and only child a son, is 20 and is a mature young man living on his own, but still likes to check in with Mom about the important stuff. I am goofy and fun, but I am wise, the kind of wise that comes with embracing all of my past challenges; I see many facets to one thing or one concept. I like to stay active in both body (walking my dog, time at the gym, swimming..gotta back to yoga) and mind. I LOVE to read ..nose in book frequently!! (My departed Mother read until the day she died..and was as smart as a whip!) At least one book a month.. more if they are page turners (lately its one book a week), & research anything that is of interest to me. I love the Arts but also Science.(The higher you go...the more these two intertwine) I would like to learn something every day for the rest of my life. I see the BIGGER picture..and am fully aware that I am a spirit living a physical existence to learn what I need to in this lifetime. I believe in being optimistic despite any circumstance; seeing the glass as half full or look for the 'silver lining'. Being out in nature, or being surrounded by animals (even party animals on occasion :***are passions of mine. I love to cook and taste; to combine diverse flavors by just using my nose. Creative leftovers rock! Spicy ethnic food..make it or take out are both good!I love my red wine(sangria in the summer!..or an ice cold beer.)I love my libations, but everything in moderation; I know when to say when. And you do too. :-) If the mood isnt right or if Im doing a body cleanse...weeks can pass with no 'bevie'.Music is huge for me. I love to check out a band with friends. The sound track to my life..everything from the 70's and 80's, jazz, big blues fan, top 40, Beatles and Stones are corner stones, reggae, soul, and classical (classical is where I live)... CBC R2 while concentrating or on sunday mornings with paper and coffee or driving in hectic traffic. And sometimes all I want to hear is the wind through the trees..and the birds chirping...or the waves crashing on the shore. (YES puleeZ! :-)Love to travel. Now that my son is grown and I am officially an empty nester, I am becoming a renewed travel bug. I was in Aruba recently, and I would love to plan a trip to the Mediterranean with my guy.I cannot handle cigarette smoke...so if you are a smoker (of tobacco or drugs)...we are not a match.I am a forthright child at heart ( I took an online test to see how 'young at heart' a person is..I got 16 yrs old. lol)..and wouldnt make it through my life without my sense of 'haha'. We all should be able to see the humor in life. Life is hugely amusing when looked at from the right angle. ;-)If you made it this far, thank you! for taking the time and having the interest. Good luck in your quest! ~Lets see where this adventure takes us, shall we?~ "The mind has a thousand eyes; the heart has but one". ~Zen"Your life is not your master...it is your child."~ Emmanuel“Try to become not a man of success, but try rather to become a man of value.â€
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JosefaOffline
Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-45
Genuine Girl looking for her soulmate. I miss having someone to share things with, such as going away for relaxing weekends, visiting the theatre, cinema's and going to gigs. I love travelling round Britain, caravan holidays, camping, finding secret places to explore, urbex and taking photographs, especially of castles and abbeys. I have a degree in Fine Art and enjoy paintings and doing other crafty things in my spare time. Bit of a geek tho too, and like to relax on the Xbox occasionally.Music is also a big love of mine, i have a wide taste, generally anything i can dance to, but rock/metal is by far my fave, into anything from Devildriver to Alterbridge and most things inbetween, although i do have milder tastes lol. I prefer quiet nights in these days, going for meals , I'm not one for getting stupidly drunk these days.I guess I'm looking for my missing link, that one person who can give you butterflies. A real man who is capable of looking after me, even though I'm fiercely independent, although new friends who have similar interests would be great too. I can be shy at first, so if you catch me peeking but not messaging, im probably just trying to build up the courage lol.*Really not interested in anyone who has children*Anywhere and anything where we can have a good chat & get to know each other.