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Lena, 41

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About Me

I am honest and DO NOT believe in lying and games (guys I might look young but check my age...lol)!!!!!! I am a sweet and smart person who is not afraid to speak her mind, sometimes people do not like the honesty but...I believe its the best policy! Right now I am focused on studying for my Occupational; Therapy Board and Licensure exam. I am looking for a man that understands, things come to those that wait and those that wait for the right things are worth giving my all too. I am a romantic but I am not impractical. I understand what it takes to make a relationship. I am looking for someone who can offer me friendship, love, companionship, and also understands that it takes two to make and two to break a relationship. You live and grow together or you grow apart, not to say that we are not separate but to succeed you should know that principle. Please guys I hate to say this in my profile but if you are just looking for sex, please move on. Life is short and sex is easy to find you don't need to be messaging someone saying you want one thing when you are only looking for another. Please don't waste my time or your's!I do speak the truth and I hope I didn't come off harsh but I would like someone to respond to me because they not only notice my looks but I am a mutli-layered person with a HEART, SOUL, MIND and Great Personality! I love photography...I write..I am into arts and science...LOVE a challenging convo...Like dogs not big on cats..lol And I adore kids.....I have a huge family with tons of little ones (nieces and nephews) and they are great! UPDATE: Dating doesn't mean a causal hook-up. It means taking the time to get to know someone. Hanging out together and seeing if the person is worth getting to know better, keeping as a friend or not. Not pretending you are not dating, seeing each other when its convient, its not FWB and getting jealous if they are talking to a friend. Thats what's the dating world seems to have come to look like these days. We need to get back to the days where dates was dating, when calling someone your gf/bf was the in thing and people were secure with it.That was when people were happier in relationships and had better healthier connnections to each other. Throw out the computers and the cell phones and think about a simpler time when it was ok to sit across the table and have a conversation with somebody without the phone ringing or a text interupting. I do and it was so great!I am up for anything that could be a new adventure, Or arty or a quaint little place and have dinner. Take a drive and see the veiws.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Verna

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    Woman. 64 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 54-74

    " To love at all is to be vulnerable." C.S. LewisSmart ,a zany sense of humour,a joie de vivre attitude,down to earth,very romantic and loving, kind,adventurous, unpretentious, curious, spontaneous,generous, highly compassionate, hmmm....need more descriptors? :))A no drama, low maintenance lady that lives simply and enjoys quality. I'm a born optimist ,but a realist. Touch is one of my major love languages, and I love snuggling with my man, stealing kisses in the rain..Outgoing with a few places of shyness.Family and friends are such valued treasures. Be forewarned.... smiling.... as gentle bantering can be expected.Eclectic and varied other interests are part and parcel of who I am. I also love animals, although I've been without a dog the past few years. . I would term myself as a country sophisticate...a boots and jeans,chicks in the oven and calves in the bathtub type of gal,as I'd lived on a cattle ranch for many years- and then it was off to the symphony that night.I adore music as it's part of the fabric of my life.My tastes run all over the board ,from Verdi and Haydn,to Sting and Roy Orbison ,as well as R & B ,doo-wop,and yes, even the opera ! :) Slow dance ,cheek to cheek with me to Etta James's "At Last" in the parking lot ...I love to read, and haunt bookstores and the library.Theater and symphony season tickets enrich and color my world ,as does attending concerts in the park,musuems and art galleries.I live my life simply, but enjoying every day. I listen to NPR, enjoy Klick and Klack, A Prairie Home Companion, a good hockey game as well as the Cougars or Seahawks. I'm a talented cook in the kitchen,- think Julia Child ! :***and would love to have you be my permanent ,full time sous chef ! A kitchen dance, a glass of wine....Smiling...Travel is something I'd love to do more of,especially with a co -adventurer. There's alot of beauty to be savored and backroads to explore together .And I'd love for someone to teach me how to fish,and yes,even golf.You up for it?:))Camping , boating /sailing are enjoyed ,but even more so if I have a decent bed, and a hot shower is available.I want a full partner and a best friend to go through this autumn season of my life with - a wingman - where we feel as if we've come home when holding each other....authenticity,being vulnerable,gentle bantering with each other,being able to be silly at times, sharing wonderful deep discussions about everything and nothing,loads of laughter ,making memories,being supportive of one another and nurturing the relationship .... having a smoking hot love affair that rocks and endures the rest of our lives. !My Christian faith defines who I am and how I live my life.....and I'm looking for a partner who also shares those beliefs.With that goes being a conservative politically. I'm looking to develop a friendship that might lead to marriage....." If a man is worth knowing ,he is worth knowing well "You're a man of character and depth,you have the courage to do your road less traveled,and laughter comes often and easily.You are that man who desires romance,love and respect in a relationship ; is searching for his forever best friend . You're spontaneous and fun !! Young acting and thinking... intellectually stimulating ,have integrity and you're an open communicator , plus being emotionally available .Loving,kind and compassionate.In other words- you live out your core values,not perfectly, but certainly with effort.You know how to ask for forgiveness and extend it freely. You choose to do the right thing, even though it may cost you. Our interests certainly don't all have to coincide ,but we can celebrate our differences .You will have a zest for living life , the wonder of a child exploring God's creation. All topped off with a touch of class ,and a splash of polish -smiling....And yes I do recognize a good man when he comes along into my life. I'm more interested in your character and personality than your looks, although you do need to be attractive to me. Yes, women are visual as well,but not like men are ! ;)And ,you may be younger than me or a younger acting older man. Ages ***.So much more to discover..... let's do forever together.;) !!Also ,if you tag me in the MEET ME and you have mileage restrictions on your profile,I cannot contact you,so change your parameters.I am open to long distance....with the right man... certainly not Pollyannish about the unique obstacles that distance can present ,but these are short term risks that may have a life time bonanza. A heart that has found a home.A first meeting would be a coffeehouse.... like Starbucks, or a glass of wine at a quiet restaurant, or...perhaps even a winery.Walking along the riverfront with lots of conversation is another option. Lets do something fun together! :) If the magic is there, and if we're left with wanting to see more of one another........the sky's the limit!If not, we can gracefully acknowledge that.Oh,let's just run away to Tuscany, and listen to Bocelli sing in the amphitheatre, and we'll dance under the canopy of a midnight sky filled with the brilliance of the stars....too far ? ...well,a girl can dream,hey ? teasingly said...LOL!For a first date....,that's after we've met ,right ?smiling.... and then ....ahh,you'll have to meet me first....

  • Ava

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-44

    Back in the fish pond after a bit of a hiatus, so it's time for a profile overhaul... I'm a successful professional looking for love. My friends describe me as the "catch of the century"... although I would tend to be a bit more modest. I'm a farm girl transplanted into the city, and not afraid to get my hands dirty. But in less than an hour, I can look like a million bucks for a night out on the town. What I'm looking for in a guy... - My "type" has been tall, dark and handsome... but feel free to prove me wrong! I'm definitely a sucker for a guy with blue eyes. - I'm a Christian and attend church regularly, so I'm looking for someone willing to join me. - I have all my "shit" together so to speak, and I'm looking for the same from a guy... no baggage, good career, financially stable, independent and at the same stage of life as I am. If you're a full time student or work out of town most of the time, we likely won't get along very well.- I've learned how important communication is in a relationship, so I value openness and honesty... without it we won't stand a chance.- I'm looking for someone spontaneous who is ready to hit the road or hop on a plane in search of adventure at a moments notice. I love to travel and want to share the experiences with someone special.- Physically fit and healthy... gotta be able to keep up when we hike up a mountain somewhere!It would be amazing if I met the guy of my dreams on here, but I'm not holding my breath. Let's start with a great friendship and maybe something more will develop from there. Ultimately, I'm looking for a best friend to laugh with, cry with and enjoy the rest of my life with. I'm serious and won't date anyone unless I think there is long term potential. If you're game and I haven't scared you away, send me a message! I'm definitely worth the time :) P.S. Tell me your favourite colour so I know you've actually read this far!I find that a quick hot chocolate or drink is a good way to see how communication flows and if there's any interest. Low pressure!

  • Shirley

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-52

    Hello..A little about me. I'm NOT ***friendly.....I like to take the good with the bad focus on the future and live for today. I like to have a happy and positive attitude, that doesn't mean there won't be bad days it just means you deal with them and make the best of it...Because life is short. SO, why not try and make the best of the day Enjoy the sunrise or sunset or play in the rain.I WOULD LIKE to find someone who wants to date and continue towards a relationship. I am all for taking time to get to know each other. But after 6 months goes by and you still don't know how you feel don't waste my time....I am:A mom.. Caring Compassionate LoyalGiver and receiver in [all] aspectsTrustworthyHonest PatientAffectionatecommunicator..LoverI love romance as well as giving Creative No games... would you choose pizza and a movie on a Friday night or a hole in the wall bar with live music or pool?Where would you like to take me? FoodFunI enjoy many things. No Booty calls....

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