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Tabitha, 37
United States, California, Carlsbad

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About Me

I am a single mother of a 14 year old girl, she will be starting high school this fall. She is the most important person in my life. Her father isn't in her life at all so there is no baby daddy drama. It is important to me to find someone who accepts her and knows that she is part of the package. I am looking to find someone that is willing to take it slow and get to know each other first...become friends and then see where it takes us. I think it is important to have your partner be your best friend as well as your lover. I have been single most of my daughters life because I chose to concentrate on being there for my daughter, especially since her Dad was abscent in her life. So I put my personal life on hold, but now I think it is time to go out there and see what there is to offer....don't get me wrong...I did try for a little bit but I haven't been lucky. Most of the guys I have met are either immature and still want to be in the bars/clubs every other night, don't accept my daughter, don't have their life in order or just want a friend with benefit. I am just at a place in my life that I feel I am ready for a new chapter in my life. I do enjoy going out every once in awhile but the whole bar/club scene gets old real quick. I would enjoy going to watch a band, take a walk, go watch a game or something different. I enjoy the water, being outdoors, camping, sports (Hook 'Em) I mostly like watching college sports but do watch pro as well. I am pretty open to try new things. Well I think I have said enough...if you are still interested after reading this then send me a message. I look forward to hearing from you....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Hispanic

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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