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Fanny, 66
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

As of June 20th I am retired from teaching full time. I am very liberal, not affiliated with a party but more to the best choice. I do not attend church, I put my time in daily at an Episcopal girls school so logged in enough chapel time to kill a horse and now believe that each has their own beliefs. On June 20th I turned 65, retired, and became a gramma all in one week. Now it's time for me to get out and play and figure out the next phase of my life adventure. I am passionate about fly fishing and the outdoors. I love walking along a river bank, Greenlake, beach, or mountain trail, especially if there's a place to cast my line into, and getting off shore in my kayak is heavenly. I am an early riser and early to retire for quiet decompression time. If the weather forces me inside, a good movie or play , book, puzzles, invent a delicious soup, seeing a good comedy act or going to a cozy pub and smoozing with the locals. There's always a walk in the rain or facing the storm wind in my face, waders on, bundled up. I lm an avid road tripper, seeking trout streams and lakes, beautiful vistas, and little backwood towns, and out of the way places. My Hyundai and I travel most of the summer fly fishing or paddling and visiting family and friends along the way. I am hoping to travel more extensively, learn a new language, paint and draw, and read the piles of books on my shelves. I know retirement will open my life to new adventures and relationships. Of course with a new grand baby I will be spending time with them too. My parents are still here, in their 90s, a blessing for sure. I have a quirky and sometimes twisted sense of humor often laughing at the darker side of life, as well as looking for humor in what life has to dish out, especially the humor in our aging minds and bodies. Better to laugh than to cry, eh? Which brings me to this part of my sales pitch, I've tried dating sights before and have met some really great people but have not clicked with a love interest yet. My life is full with friends and family and many things I want to do, one of which is getting to know someone and be with him easily and comfortably and if meant to be romantically.Someone indicated that my summary indicated that I never sit still. I am an introvert, I seek time to myself to recharge. I like time to myself whether in my kayak, reading a good book, or working on my laptop, cooking, writing, or watching TV. I am not on the go all the time, but enjoy planning adventures, implementing them and returning to the cozy place I call home.First Meeting: Go for a walk and/or coffee, happy hour, somewhere public and easy for both of us to get to and visit. We can take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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