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Wendi, 53
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

I am looking for someone to laugh with and have fun! I believe in being truthful, but never mean. I am told I am a wonderful friend, thoughtful, considerate and compassionate. I own my own home and am very happy and comfortable in my life. I love entertaining, spending time with friends and soon to be friends. I'm always looking for a great place to eat, from simple home cooking to a gourmet meal. I am active in volunteer work and I look for ways to make a difference. I spend my time exploring, learning, and growing. I enjoy debating and good conversation. I am an animal lover and you should be too. I am attracted to dark hair/dark eyed men (Bald is a plus). I think a man with a brain and uses it is very sexy and trumps appearance. You like to enjoy yourself, and have interests that you are passionate about. Laughter is an everyday occurrence. Are you nice to your Mom? You know yourself and are comfortable in your own skin. I am looking for a romantic gentleman. Do you know how to cook? Enjoy good food? Do you like to work in the yard? With your hands? ***Friendly? All bonuses but not deal breakers.Something casual, where we could talk and see if we click. Coffee or a glass of wine? Always in a public place in the Providence area for the first meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Play Musical Instrument
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