Lynette, 51
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Well, my friends say I am the "Firecracker in the Pants of Life," but I tend to think I'm more "Miss So Far Left, I'm Right" not politically per say, but more so in life. In reality, I'm a down to earth girl with a positive personality, infectious laugh and mischievous energy... the cup is half full!!! Albeit, I have a deep, passionate, inner lust for life and sometimes I never stop. Some may find me hard to keep up with but hey, there's never a dull moment. And, most importantly, I'm drama, regret and guilt-free! :) Three things I will always believe in are God, time and music; as all are eternal and healing.No time to waste on game players and I find it pathetic the people at my age who still try to manipulate and play b*llsh*t head games. Sad, they will never find happiness and may one day find their self on the receiving end. But they should be ok beings they've mastered the game. However, it's a pity some feel they have to lie or manipulate to think they've 'won' the 'game' or whatever it's called when technically they have no other means to get what they want except to manipulate. I call it lame and it actually takes a bigtime LOSER to master the 'game' per say. Remember there comes a time... Karma never forgets. Also, I'm a bit quirky and have a very twisted sense of humor, so it's best to wear the Depends when we go out. And the quirkiness is an inherent trait due to being an artist. Or so 'me thinks'! But, I do enjoy to draw, paint and write. I am very creative and appreciate others who are too. I prefer to chat with people who have triple digits on the intelligence scale as I am an attentive listener and deep thinker. We can always learn from others. I value diversity. But I can also be honest and say a weakness is that I cannot tolerate *** a closed-mind. One of my favorite quotes is, "Don't be afraid to be open minded. Your brain isn't going to fall out." I'm a massive music lover. Rock, alternative, metal, jazz, gospel, old school R&B, Blues, Celtic and even those old Gregorian chants. Gary Moore, Jeff Beck, Steve Vai, Joe Bonamassa, Joe Satriani, Jimmy Page, Michael Schenker, Richie Kotzen, Richie Blackmore, Eric Johnson, Zappa, Small Faces, Pink Floyd, Stones, The Who, Deep Purple, Clapton, Winwood, Roy Buchanan, King Crimson, Badfinger, Warren Haynes, Harry Nilsson, Zepplin, The Winery Dogs, Black Country Communion, Robin Trower, Richie Sambora, Ace Frehley, Skunk Anaise, The Motorhomes, Stereophonics, Kina, The Black Keys, Muse, Beth Hart, Joss Stone, The Beatles, Sam Cooke, Robert Cray, The Small Faces, Paul Weller, The Cure, ***'s rock, blues, 80's hair bands, 90's alternative, the local scene such as Foxy Shazam, Over the Rhine, Revelator, DV8 and Ultrasuede. And, I enjoy discovering *** looking so a cool museum, a ride far in the country, inhaling what has been here before and far after humanity, taking walks along the river or the beach, preferably the beach, lol, or discovering/checking out something mysterious. Once in a while and if a good band's playing, I enjoy the bar scene, but if that's your every weekend type of fun, I'd soon become restless and uninterested, just being honest. But concerts YES!!!:)Also, I love to lay in bed in the early am, while it's still dark.. and listen to Mother Nature showing that "Hell hath no fury" with a massive thunderstorm, while listening to the trains rhythm in the distance. And even though a train killed my best friend June of ***, I still do not let that harsh, shocking memory take away from this. I say she had to get to Heaven first so someone could sneak my happy *** in the back door! But I still cuss out the trains when I go over the tracks. And, something about trains signaling in the distance encourages my thinking processes and just seems to soothe me. That's also when I take time to reflect and create some of my more creative writings, paintings, ideas and the such. I feel at times that I never stop thinking.. even in sleep! Currently, I am a volunteer for the Red Cross disaster services. I enjoy giving back to my community and helping others during their time of need. It's very self-rewarding to reach out to others. As for heritage, I am part German, part Cherokee Indian, believe it or not.. I think as far as the Cherokee Indian part goes.. physically, I inherited the rosy skin and high cheekbones, spiritually, I am very intuitive and seem to attract nature, ghosts and children. Yes, wild animals have eaten from my hands and I still have them.. the hands, that is. :-) Figuratively speaking.. I am not your "Average Josie."A good friend once told me, "Katie, I love you because you see things through an artist's eye, you speak with a poet's tongue, and see the world through the eyes and mind of a Goddess." It made me appreciate her and her beauty as well. I am blessed to have many insightful, soulful friends who are close by in spirit, soul, heart and body.But seriously, I have also learned over the years that as we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down might very well do so. Whether unintentional or not, it will happen. Your heart will be broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. Learn from that and don't judge ALL because of ONE. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love.And good advice: Seek the roses along the way but beware the thorns. Know that anger is a waste of energy and will drain you, leaving you bitter. Heal yourself from the inside out not the opposite. That way all your pain has the universe to dissolve in to and will not lie compacted within your soul. Remember, those who hurt you, will eventually do harm at their own hands. The player has to lose at his or her own game eventually. Forget them. Put it to rest, and prefer Karma's deliberate, just way of 10-folding those whose intent is a deliberate injustice to your well-being. And decide to put angst to rest. I promise you that this is a part of the secret to everlasting youth. So don't be afraid! Fear is only what what we tell ourselves to fear. Our minds are very powerful so live hard, love complete and get out there!! Take too many pictures, take a risk, laugh too much, and for the right person love with a strong passion, like you've never been hurt. And remember, every sixty seconds you spend sad is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Finally and most of all, love yourself because if you can't nobody else can either, therefore shutting out the inner beauty that we all inherently possess. Life is meant to live, love and laugh. So rock on! m/m/My first date would be something more in tune for two people to meet and get to know each other. Possibly a cup of coffee in the afternoon or an evening out to dinner. Or maybe to an art museum to check out some paintings or even a fair or carnival. Or better yet.. let's take a stroll through Home Depot, lol.. really.. I love that place. "Meet me at the hardware store in half an hour, heh, heh..." hahaha.. Down the road a concert, flea market, antique store, arrowhead hunt or even a walk through a cool city. If it becomes something good.. I'm even up for some fun road trips.. maybe to Chicago, New York.. who knows!Or we could get really creative and carry around a few coolers loaded with ice and try to convince various hitch hikers to get in the truck, "Come on in, rest your bones. Where ya heading?? Don't mind these coolers full of ice..."One disclaimer: If we go on a first date and you do not see an attraction or feel the desire to pursue more dates, then keep your mouth off me. We don't ALWAYS require a hello/goodbye 'kiss' or whatever that is. And even though we are females, we aren't so weak as to not be told straight up if there is no connection. So save face and be blunt, please and thank you. Women APPRECIATE honesty. Thank you, Rant over. :)
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