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Lidia, 44
United States, Oregon, Eugene

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About Me

Liberal Conservative/Conservative Liberal seeking outgoing man close to my age who has a pulse and his sh*t together. Must like bbq's, social gatherings, and be able to handle an imperfect, independent woman.Here's my wish list:If you have kids, you put them first 100% of the time.You don't want any more kids and have taken steps to ensure you won't have any more.You are a good mix of light hearted and lion hearted. You can easily roll your eyes and laugh when the situation warrents it.You are looking for a partner, someone special and not an *** word means something to you.You wouldn't dream of dating an 18 year old.You believe in and actively practice monogamy.You are not old enough to be my father. I already have one...don't need another.Frankly, I don't care what you do for a living as long as it's legal and you're happy with it. That's what's really important.Who I am:I'm not the type who can decorate a room, but I can tear down walls and make the house more functional.Before I bought my house I trapped bugs in glasses and called the landlord. 80's music, Alternative music, Rock, Blues, Dance music...all allowed and encouraged in my world.Once made lamb chops with a mint sauce out of mint extract and sour cream....horrible but comical at the same time. (I can hold my own in the kitchen 98% of the time, but I do like to try new things and occasionally I totally butcher them).My friends can show up anytime unannounced and I think it's wonderful.In business, I am a shark with an east-coast mentality. After hours, I'm a pseudo-hippie chick. Work stays at work...well, most of the time.I am thrilled to be an adult because I can take showers that don't have a ten minute deadline.I don't eat chineese food without chopsticks.I am a smoker. I have no intention of quitting any time soon. You have to be ok with that.I've been on this site for a while and have met some really cool people and some real psychos. Still, I am hopeful that somewhere out there is a good man looking for a good woman.I don't like to text and personally think it's a waste of time to chat on the phone for days on end before actually meeting. I say let's just grab a cup of coffee or a drink at happy hour and see what we have in common.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Cooking
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