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Merle, 70
United States, California, Carlsbad

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About Me

Those who know me well would say I'm hilarious, classy, creative and very intelligent (Meyers Briggs INTJ). I have an addiction that drives me - its called "laughter" - make me laugh and I'll probably follow you (almost) anywhere (probably NOT Nebraska, Iowa, or Alabama, nor the Middle East, as example). I am a passionate woman, on both a physical and intellectual level. The former is for you to discover, the latter would include world affairs and the state of this nation, fate of our children, animals (I'm known as Ms. Doolittle), political issues, etc. I regard myself as a Centrist. I've been alone for some time (fiancee died of cancer 5 years ago) and I am truly ready, willing and able to be part of a partnership but friendship first!! The man I seek will be intelligent and have a passion for discourse; he'll laugh with me (often, even during times of intimacy), he'll share some interests and have some of his own. Like me, he'll wish for some time to himself, but want to share life on many levels. He'll be scrupulously honest, have a spirit of adventure and a passion for travel near and far. He'll appreciate good food and wine (prepared by me or in a fine restaurant). He'll like to spoil and be spoiled - and he'll be romantic, kind, loyal and real. Life goes by quickly and at this point it is rushing by - it would be marvelous to find the perfect man (for me) to share the rest of the journey - combining bucket lists and checking them off. If you are out there and reading this, get busy and write! :)UPDATE: I have moved and now living in a beautiful mountain city to the South of the US - large gorgeous home with fantastic view, simply divine weather, lots of amenities including dozens of fabulous restaurants - much to do, much to see and life is good! IF you have a sense of adventure and have been thinking about relocating to a more relaxed, cheaper cost of living and would like to explore a connection, then DO get in touch. I have found a great place and all that is missing is a terrific guy with whom to share life!note: I am flexible, not wedded to this city or area, and feet are not cast in cement - so geography should not be an issue!Given my relocation, greater planning and coordination is a requisite - but it might well be worth the bother! I love a man who can plan an interesting special date as a surprise, when that time comes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-63

    I am a real woman.Sharp mind, soft body, slightly cynical but with an optimistic streak. Can be a bit of a handful (I call it passion) so I get on well with peeps who are not easily intimidated. I love cooking, literature, film and travel. I enjoy developing property and planning interior design. Quite good at shopping both a skip hound and an auction-goer. I am looking for an Alpha Male with old fashioned values and a modern outlook. Manners are important. Charm, wit and charisma are good. Energy, drive and confidence are a bonus. I would be fibbing if I said looks weren't important, but I am more attracted by personal style than even features and a six pack. I am attracted to self-assured, single men so if you are too shy to post a photo or are worried that someone you know will see that you are on a dating site then I wish you all the very best of luck .....with someone else Footnote: Photos: Guys, what is it about posing in a swimwear, singlet or football strip or with a large glass of beer that is supposed to make us want to meet you? Likewise the motorbike/car/boat. Women dont respond to these visual cues the way your mates might. I want to date a Man not his toys ;-)Words: I can be wooed with words, Hi doesn't cut it. Many men on here describe themselves as "genuine, honest, sincere" and "tactile", "love cuddles", "don't bite" and "ask for more info" zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz If I haven't scared you off I would love to hear from you.For the first meeting I would go for a low-commitment cup of coffee in a relaxed environment where we can hear ourselves speak but others can't eavesdrop.If that works and there is some chemistry I'd be happy to follow up with a Proper Date.

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  • Cara from Carlsbad | Woman | 42 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-52

    I am a teacher who loves her job. I have a master's degree in education, media science and educational administration. I love sports, both playing and watching. I play softball, and coach volleyball. I love to watch baseball (Go Mets!) and football (Go Giants!). I recently took up running and love it. Have done several 5k and keep moving forward. Also did a mini triathalon and loved it! Moving up to 10ks this summer. I also play golf I own a dog, black lab named Casey who is wonderful. I go to the gym when i can to keep in shape. I walk everyday with Casey. I love to travel but don't do it as much as I would like. I love all types of music depending on my mood, the setting and what I need to get ready for.I love to go from a baseball hat and jeans to getting dressed up for a night out.First Date - a nice dinner or coffee. A place where we are both comfortable. Where we can chat and get to know each other.

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  • Shauna from Carlsbad | Woman | 60 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-70

    I am a kind and nice lady with many various interests. My hobbies include reading, music, going to the movies, theaters, concert halls. I enjoy the life in all its variety. I love people. I love nature and all beautiful things. I like to laugh and from time to time I laugh at myself... I have a sweet tooth and can't live without chocolate and candies (I'm joking, of course). I like traveling, outdoors, and just walking in a park smelling fresh air after a rain... I am happy in this life. But I would be even happier if I feel a real man's shoulder next to me...I would be happy to meet a kindhearted, nice friend, a real gentleman to be friends with, and then (who knows it?) maybe it will go to something more serious... I believe that he is somewhere close and wait a message from him...It would be nice to have the first date somewhere in the park or near the river to enjoy a nice day together...

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