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Ophelia, 51

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About Me

I like country music. I love taking care of people. Am a little old fashion. i like to travel. Am from Philly and New Jersey.I have two girls. I'm 4'10 brown hair, brown eyes. I am fun company as long as the company is fun.I don't mind staying home watching TV. Going out to dinner. I like to go bike riding. I love watching Life time. I like to watch some sports. I played basket ball in high school. I like going for long walks. Just going for a drive is nice. And just talking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Angelique

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    Woman. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-66

    I love all kinds of dance. It is great exercise physically & mentally. I love all the partner dances. My weakest is Tango but I am willing to learn. [I studied then taught ballet so I usually pick things up quickly.] My strongest is West Coast Swing. AND I would love to start a worship dance troupe. [Friends first, please.]I love adventure travel.I have traveled extensively, especially Asia. I prefer to go solo rather than not go at all or be slowed down by overly cautious/unadventurous. I do not race through a country but 'set a spell' to appreciate the culture. I can say 'Thank you' in Mongolian, Kyrgy, Japanese, Chinese and the typical European languages. I used to know how in Malagasy, Greek, Samoan, Thai, Hindi & Malay. I stay at hostels to keep it cheap, but there benefit from meeting people from all corners of the planet. Backpacking, I can go the distance just not at breakneck speed. I love kayaking, camping, hiking, SCUBA, white water rafting, canyoning, skiing. I have done tandem hang-gliding, tandem sky diving, abseiling & bungy jumping. [Friends first, please.]I love the arts.I enjoy drawing, painting, photography, sculpture and acting/theater. There just are not enough days in a year to do it all! Music is great - especially if there is dancing with it. [Friends first, please.]I love trivia.I'm a decent partner on a trivia team. My best topics are geography and science. I know almost zip on popular culture, sorry. [Friends first, please.]I like natural/whole foods.I read labels before putting food in my body. I go for low processed, real food but I am not a fanatic. [Friends first, please.]I love nature.I'm an environmentalist/nature-lover/pet owner. I currently have two cats, three reptiles, one arachnid and dozens of insects - the non-mammals all low maintenance & well caged. [Friends first, please.]I love fun!My dream car? A Nissan 350Z convertible, 6 speed. I've got lots of saving to do before I can buy one, though. [Friends first, please.]I want to contribute to society.I volunteer when I can at three different organizations. I wish I had more time for such. If only I didn't have bills to pay... [Friends first, please.]I try to listen when Jesus says, 'Follow Me.'Because "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God" the Bible is central to what I do. The commandments I try to follow are: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' 38This is the first and greatest commandment. 39And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' 40All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments." Keep it simple! I celebrate freedom in Christ: "21'Do not handle! Do not taste! Do not touch!'? 22These are all destined to perish with use, because they are based on human commands and teachings." I dance, play cards and drink in moderation. Life in Christ is FULL! [Friends first, please.]My goals are to do more of my hobbies better.I hope to travel more, become a social dance teacher, get my current business up and running, get back into professional photography, 'teach mankind to fish.' [Friends first, please.]I live outside the box.I am an odd mix of interests and abilities. I rarely get into funks. I cry easily at touching stories/moments. I am loyal but not a bleeding heart over a hang-nail. I like to analyze and make decisions based on best reasoning. I get along with most people even if we have great differences - I appreciate diversity. I spend more time working to pay the bills & living my hobbies than cleaning house... Hey, no one is perfect! [Friends first, please.]I mostly listen to contemporary Christian music & dance music.Gospel artists I like: Jamie Grace, Geoff Moore, Michael W. Smith, Greg Long, Fernando Ortega, Margaret Becker. I tend to go for the more lively, rock styles. I love "Wait Wait Don't Tell Me" on NPR. Yes, it's liberal from time to time but intelligent humor is the best. [Friends first, please.]If you are still reading...PS I'm an old-fashioned girl, VERY old-fashioned. I won't do anything that would make my Pastor blush/frown/cry. Are you patient and old-fashioned, too?? [Friends first, please.] Notice a trend here?? :-)Now for the challenge!Are you man enough to NOT be photographed with a house, car, boat, motorcycle [especially motorcycle!]? I don't want to see your possessions [or worse, your compensations], I want to see the man.Are you smart enough to NOT post a selfie taken in a bathroom? Come on - just... gross!Are you wise enough to NOT include pictures of yourself with children and grand children? This is a public site - who knows who is browsing people in your life that you should be doing your darnedest to protect. Are you serious enough that your profile is NOT almost empty [trying to keep the 'not' theme going!] Guys, one sentence does not tell me enough about you. Please pretend you are more than one dimensional.Are you confident enough to NOT beat around the bush but actually ask a girl out? Some of us are old-fashioned and want a man to be a man. If you want to go out with us, ask!Are you fit enough to NOT look pregnant? I like beer, not beer-bellies. I don't expect a Mr. Universe but a person who eats wisely & is active will not look about to give birth. There. Now you know I'm opinionated. :-D And have a nice day![Note: please don't request a Chat, I will decline not because I don't think you're a good candidate but because I don't like to be tied to my computer. A few *** by 'coffee meeting' is much preferred. Thanks for understanding!] The coffee shop get together is great because it is simple, cheap and non-threatening. A game of Trivial Pursuit in a public place over coffee [or beer]? Perfect! Sorry, I don't like the phone calls or internet chats.Date? Maybe. Friends first, please.

  • Juliette

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    Woman. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-66

    Ok , here it goes I'm a very down to earth person with good morals and a great heart, good personality love to laugh.Looking for someone with a nice personality who also enjoys having fun and few laughs to see what develops.Good luck to allPSLaugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't changePlease no pen-pals! long distance! endless phone calls and text message loljust talk and meet simple!

  • Josefina

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    Woman. 59 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-69

    Totally loyal lady seeking that one special guy to make me feel like I want to face each new day with a smile on my face and more than eager to end the the day and jaunt into the evening with a glint in my eye. Please take the time to read the rest before you contact me, it will save us both a lot of time. ( If you can't be bothered to read about a person, you can't really be that interested in them.) I'm honest,trustworthy,kind,but no push-over, can spot "bull-shit" a mile away. I don't mean to sound awful but I'm NOT a nanny,nurse,taxi or sex-toy.if that's ALL your looking for sorry guy's I'm not the gal for you.I could if it was necessary be most of those things if I was in a relationship, but not starting one off that way. Nor do I give out pass-ports. And please don't ask me for money as A)I don't have any and B)F-off usually offends. I don't come with any baggage nor will I take any on . I am not at present working and this seems to be bothering a lot of chaps. Why? I don't know, as I won't be living with anyone so they won't be keeping me. Sorry guys not many heiresses around and most widows are clued up nowadays. I believe that you can meet someone and know *** there is an attraction between you, then it's just a case of personality. You could look like Brad Pitt but if you act like a prat I'm offI did want to meet someone to live with etc, but as time as gone on I have come to like living on my own and doing my own things when I feel like it. So not quiet sure what I'm looking for now, guess I will know if and when I find it. A friend to start then lets see. I do know that I don't want to meet any "Peter Pan" wanabe's . Prefer someone to act their age, not into all this trying to stay young by doing what kids do. I prefer quiet places with minimal people. Not boring but I am a 59yr old and although I'm not ready for the sitting on my a*** all day phase in life, neither am I trying to recapture my youth. I'm a realist, would prefer to meet the same. Nor do I take kindly to the bossy types, if you want to *** get a dog (or not, for the dogs sake.) Would like someone who has time for me even if it's just taking a walk or getting stuck into the garden together.. I don't do the "neighbour thing" I'm more into the middle of nowhere. I would be an ideal partner for a farmer or the like. (I don't mind getting stuck in and helping out with the animals etc). Or you do that and I'll make sure your dinner is on the table when your done. (I do have rather old fashioned values). I don't socialize very well, sorry, I don't want to socialize, unless it's close friends and family, would rather potter around the garden. I dislike party's and the like, would rather sit and watch the sun go down.Love all animals and can't abide cruelty in any shape or form.You could say I'm more an animal than people person. But I am not a veggie. At present I have 1 chicken and 1 guinea pig.I'm not into flash cars ,clothes (although I do seem to have rather a lot of them , especially shoes), jewelry and the like, money doesn't impress me but I'm not a fool, I appreciate what it can buy and would rather have it than not. Mind you, you would be amazed at how much one can save if they don't spend it on crap. If I want something I will save until I can afford it. I do not have or "do" debt.I have varied interests,love driving, reading, walking, Car-boot sales (the selling part). I'm a very good cook, love DIY and have a vast range of power tools,lol (soz my mind wandered there for a mo) and have made all number of things, Including my fitted wardrobes from scratch. I would like to meet someone a wee bit taller than myself but your personality is more important. I love country walking and now and again it would be nice to have a companion to do this with. Must have a vgsh (you will need it.) I want someone to take me as I am but be able to hold his own with me.(no pun intended).I love flowers, silk undies, making love in front of the fire,camping in the woods, all the usual and sometimes unusual romantic gestures. I am an early to bed early to rise person ( Up at around 5/5.30 bed around 10pm) so someone who loves the night life is not for me.I am T-total and don't go into pubs. I know this will put a lot of men off, but I'm not looking for a lot, just "the one".I put chaps on my fav list so I don't lose their profile until I have had the chance to have a good read through them etc. Please do not get shirty if I do not reply to to a message you have sent immediately as I'm not on the computer ***boring). I will reply even if it's to say "not interested" when I get the time to look through them. Also I have no intention of "Upgrading" so clicking that you want to "Meet me" is a waste of time. Much better to send me a quick note. Thanks Here is a small list of a few of my favorite things.Fav comedians, Billy (the master), Jim Davison, Eddie Murphy, Lee Evans. Fav films, Always, Somethings got to give, Old dogs (do not be drinking anything whilst watching this film, sooo funny.) Man on fire. It's complicated. Gone with the wind. Most historical movies.Fav food, Italian, Indian, some chinese. Caribbean. which I cook, I also make a mean Shepherds pie, and I love baking.Fav music, Motown, soul, Dido, Annie Lennox, Westlife, Most golden oldies including "The king"Fav Authors, Lee Child, Martina Cole, Mandasue Heller, James Patterson, Kresley Cole, Gena Showalter (To name but a few, bit of a bookworm.)Not much for watching TV, but will watch a good film. or a series that has been wiped of all adverts.Sex- Yes I like it, but will stick with my imagination and a good supply of batteries until I find the right guy. Nor am I into any of that "I bought you a meal so now you have to drop your knickers" crap.Anything else you want to know just ask.I will always meet half-way in the daytime for a cuppa. My belief is that anyone can have a cuppa with anyone no matter how they look or act and i will always turn up, it's only good manners. After that i can't say, it depends on who i meet and what they are like etc,etc. Punctuality and manners are very important to me. Also guys when you arrange to meet a lady, if the venue is your choice tell her what type of place it is as most of us like to dress appropriately.So sorry but as I have already stated above, I do not go into pubs, nor will I meet anyone in the evening. One is meeting a stranger for the first time after all. PS, Chaps, If for some reason you change your mind or something comes up which makes it unable for you to keep the date, please have the decency to *** can't by at least the evening before. So many game-players on here it is untrue. Thought it was a dating site. If that's not what you want go on another site. Manners and consideration don't cost anything.

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