SIMILAR PEOPLE
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SusieOffline
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-63
It's a new year, and here are new pictures of me just taken two days ago, on ***. Now I am updating my profile as well. I have learned from losing precious people in my life unexpectedly that life and living waits for no one, so no time like the present!! I want to make concrete statements and hopefully I will get a better response and be more understood. I'm not trying to sound negative at all, but just saying that most men who have contacted me in the past are game players and only wanting sex as their main criteria. I have been on this website for way toooo long and have just thought that maybe just maybe there is someone decent that is looking for the same in a relationship as I am. I am not wanting to be anyone's pen pal, added to your favorite's list, and or be your mom! A real relationship consists of, as far as I'm concerned, a meeting of the minds, if you will, being on the same page, having the same aspirations and goals, desires, wants and needs. Surely there has to be give and take in any relationship, however, on major issues, they have to be connected! With that being said, I am an animal lover, have two dogs, and two cats; if I lived on a ranch probably would have many more and horses and bunnies to boot!! And,, I have four adopted children from the foster care system, who are all grown now,, however,,, they will always be first and foremost in my life. I know how to prioritize and have time for myself and hopefully a special man that I can cherish and compliment, however, my "kids" will always be in my background and life. IF YOU are prejudice at all regarding any race, please just stop reading and go onto someone else. I was not raised to be superior to anyone, and all anyone can expect of me is to always try to do the right thing and to be considerate and compassionate for all people. I have raised my kids, and countless foster kids in 21 years as a foster parent, that, no one is perfect,, I surely never will be, nor do I expect them or anyone else to be!! So without writing a book here,, suffice to say, I love to cook, am a good cook, am very spontaneous,don't wear a lot of makeup, can be ready to roll and go somewhere in 20 minutes,, love to live life to the fullest and in the fast lane. By that I mean, I'm open for anything, that is legal and we both consent to!! I enjoy time alone and also being with someone that knows your thoughts before you say them; that would be the icing on the cake.Ok, your turn, I'm waiting to meet someone in my general area, and go forward with life and making more precious memories with them.RegardsFirst date, meet for coffee, basic chemistry and physical attraction ok, go on to maye a walk in Pasadena, look thru all the stores, while talking and getting to know each other. Stop for dessert and/or sandwhich, m ore talking getting to know each other's likes, etc. Or, go anywhere,. beach, park, downtown anywhere area to just chit chat and find out about each other's personal preferences, see if we have any similarities,???
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RevaOffline
Woman. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-70
I imagine I am a lot like you and never expected to find myself single at this age but I'm making the best of each of day and strive to live life to the fullest. Life is good but I'd really like to have someone to share it with.I strive to accept people "as is" not as a project for me to develop....but I am also very supportive of a partner's goals and believe part of loving someone is supporting them in their efforts to do what's best, even if it is not best for you.Like you, I understand want and need and believe I have spent years post divorce reflecting on what I want, need and have.I have some baggage but it's checked in a bag I leave by the door, after all, who really gets through life without any. If you have children, great, so do I and I'd welcome yours with open arms. When I was a child, I dreamed I would become a good woman with open arms and a strong heart. I wanted hands like my mother's and brown eyes. I admired women of a certain age, their beauty from a life well-lived, their faces full of character, their eyes graced with laugh lines. I wished for someone to be in love with me, who wrote messages out on bits of ripped paper, holding them up to me one phrase at a time. ...I miss you / I love you, simple words from the heart.When I was a young woman, I dreamed I would find a good man, with steady hands and a face carved by mountain winds. I dreamed I would bake him bread and he would take me to the country to live... raise cabbages and goats and carry sleepy-eyed children off to bed after an evening of chasing fireflies and we'd live happily ever after. Years passed as they always do. Dreams changed – only a few came true.When I was a middle-aged woman, I dreamed I would be a good woman, soothing the world with a bowl of soup and a hug for those who have no one to hug them back. I dreamed I'd find a man more precious than gold, not on a bicycle on some quiet back road or sitting in the park savoring the cherry blossoms, but in springtime.I often thought I might find him in a coffee shop, perhaps he'd be drinking hot chocolate and I'd see his face reflected in my coffee and we'd talk for hours, hours that turned into days where we would understand, finally, the weight of human hearts and just how fragile they can be. Perhaps we'd find a place to live and lounge all day in jeans and sweatshirts, eating cold plums and listening to music....or drinking German beer while I listen to his tales of where he has been, his hands waving and me leaning far forward, watching his face and the way his history and words roll off his tongue.Perhaps share a bottle of wine on stormy nights listening to the crickets chirping as the evening rolled in or perhaps morning would arrive and we'd share coffee wrapped in old blankets watching the sun come up.And certainly the passing years would have taught us that no matter how bad the day that we would always come together in the night and become whole again.I hold these dreams with clenched fists but love with an open hand and open heart, for I know no other way.I still dream dreams filled with wants and needs but they are more vivid now and I feel the lack in my life so clearly.My life and the rooms in it, are often lit only by candles, I see my silhouette in the window – measuring the passing of time by the changing of seasons, Waiting, waiting,waiting.My hands wear his absence -the absence of a man I have yet to meet.I fall asleep reading Pablo by candlelight and listening to the sounds of a cello.In my dreams my thoughts are restless, there are no uttered words, no known languages, no poetry even. There is no urgency, only the sense that I will wait a lifetime if need be. In my dreams I am learning to process this, learning to let it settle upon my skin like warm breath in the middle of the night.I am a work in progress.I take not one minute for granted, I sleep with the hope I find another day.You can never go wrong with simple pleasures such as a cup of coffee, a glass of wine, or an art show. I even like hardware stores and love bookstores.
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ThelmaOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-55
Hi! My name is Thelma. I am never married catholic hispanic woman without kids from Coral Springs, Florida, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.