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It's a new year, and here are new pictures of me just taken two days ago, on ***. Now I am updating my profile as well. I have learned from losing precious people in my life unexpectedly that life and living waits for no one, so no time like the present!! I want to make concrete statements and hopefully I will get a better response and be more understood. I'm not trying to sound negative at all, but just saying that most men who have contacted me in the past are game players and only wanting sex as their main criteria. I have been on this website for way toooo long and have just thought that maybe just maybe there is someone decent that is looking for the same in a relationship as I am. I am not wanting to be anyone's pen pal, added to your favorite's list, and or be your mom! A real relationship consists of, as far as I'm concerned, a meeting of the minds, if you will, being on the same page, having the same aspirations and goals, desires, wants and needs. Surely there has to be give and take in any relationship, however, on major issues, they have to be connected! With that being said, I am an animal lover, have two dogs, and two cats; if I lived on a ranch probably would have many more and horses and bunnies to boot!! And,, I have four adopted children from the foster care system, who are all grown now,, however,,, they will always be first and foremost in my life. I know how to prioritize and have time for myself and hopefully a special man that I can cherish and compliment, however, my "kids" will always be in my background and life. IF YOU are prejudice at all regarding any race, please just stop reading and go onto someone else. I was not raised to be superior to anyone, and all anyone can expect of me is to always try to do the right thing and to be considerate and compassionate for all people. I have raised my kids, and countless foster kids in 21 years as a foster parent, that, no one is perfect,, I surely never will be, nor do I expect them or anyone else to be!! So without writing a book here,, suffice to say, I love to cook, am a good cook, am very spontaneous,don't wear a lot of makeup, can be ready to roll and go somewhere in 20 minutes,, love to live life to the fullest and in the fast lane. By that I mean, I'm open for anything, that is legal and we both consent to!! I enjoy time alone and also being with someone that knows your thoughts before you say them; that would be the icing on the cake.Ok, your turn, I'm waiting to meet someone in my general area, and go forward with life and making more precious memories with them.RegardsFirst date, meet for coffee, basic chemistry and physical attraction ok, go on to maye a walk in Pasadena, look thru all the stores, while talking and getting to know each other. Stop for dessert and/or sandwhich, m ore talking getting to know each other's likes, etc. Or, go anywhere,. beach, park, downtown anywhere area to just chit chat and find out about each other's personal preferences, see if we have any similarities,???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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