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Bonita, 45
United States, California, Rialto

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About Me

I am a 45 year old divorced lady looking for someone who is tired of dating and would like to just be himself and be comfortable with a woman. I don't have to be taken anywhere to have a great time if you are a good conversationalist. You don't have to be a rocket scientist either, but please don't talk to me if your IQ is below 70. I know too many guys like that already. I love to flirt and love a man who is not afraid to be a man. It makes me feel more like a lady when I'm with someone like that. I graduated from Ole Miss with a degree in English and minor in History. I then moved to Jackson and learned the legal business from the point of view of a paralegal. I loved my work and I think I was pretty good at it. On weekends, I enjoy watching my son play soccer and, to be honest, I can't resist any SEC game on TV. I am usually forced into being the grill master, but would invite someone to come in and take that over for me. I'm really low maintenance, but I do enjoy getting dressed up sometimes for a night out.On my first date with someone, what we would do would really depend on how well I felt I knew this person prior to meeting him. If I felt really comfortable, I'd meet him at a cozy restaurant and have appetizers and talk. Movies, I think, are for second dates when you don't have so much pressure between the two of you to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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